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Benefits explosion- where will it end?

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TheBlueKoala · 30/01/2026 11:37

"PIP benefits explosion: Anxiety and depression handouts have nearly TRIPLED to £4.3bn since Covid - with autism and ADHD bill hitting £2.2bn and 'back pain' £1.6bn"

Something is not right here. When I have written before on here telling about people I know who claim for anxiety although they have rich social lives (funded by 440£ extra per month from PIP) I've had many people telling me that it's not possible etc. It sure is. How many 16 year olds are claiming PIP for anxiety?

Instead of benefits why not pay for therapy- invest massively in the NHS mental health support so that people with anxiety, adhd and autism can see a therapist regularly to help them. This would make a difference for tje individual and the society. Throwing out money won't.

AINBU- I agree with about
AIBU- No, extra money is always useful

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15510221/PIP-benefits-anxiety-depression-austism-ADHD-pain-Covid-Labour.html

PIP anxiety and depression benefits near TRIPLE to £4.3bn after Covid

The grim picture emerged in a breakdown of how much Personal Independence Payment (PIP) is being paid out for specific conditions.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15510221/PIP-benefits-anxiety-depression-austism-ADHD-pain-Covid-Labour.html

OP posts:
Catpuss66 · 30/01/2026 13:39

Lightuptheroom · 30/01/2026 12:25

My step son has just been awarded pip, standard rate, roughly £70 ISH a week. Didn't have a face to face assessment, openly stated that his friend told him to lie on the form. Yes, he has social anxiety, no, it doesn't stop him doing what he says it stops him doing. Yes, he's on antidepressants and the GP doesn't keep a check on anything. Might make me sound bitter, he drained us dry for 8 years and also receives the universal credit 'limited capability ' money. No, he didn't have a face to face assessment for that either. He has no intention of working , the money isn't spent on accessing help, he buys Warhammer models with it, very expensive ones.

Have you reported him?

Shrinkhole · 30/01/2026 13:40

Dontjumptoconclusions · 30/01/2026 13:33

I can guarantee that a big percentage of this would be as a result of social media, but there's no way of quantifying this.
Young people looking online at people doing gym workouts, 4am routines, starting businesses, looking a type of way, going on luxury holidays etc and the algorithm only exacerbates what is viewed. Not to mention some nasty comments that are posted for the world to see. It makes young people think they are useless if they aren't doing this one specific thing. Older generations didn't know what others were doing therefore were very happy carrying on with life without the ugly comparison trap.

I wonder how much depression and anxiety would be removed if social media was banned for the more impressionable ages - under 18s or under 25s, but I don't think we would ever know.

We’ll see what happens in Australia

I agree. It’s a huge problem. Clearly having negative effects and should be banned for children.

LadyKenya · 30/01/2026 13:40

Dontjumptoconclusions · 30/01/2026 13:33

I can guarantee that a big percentage of this would be as a result of social media, but there's no way of quantifying this.
Young people looking online at people doing gym workouts, 4am routines, starting businesses, looking a type of way, going on luxury holidays etc and the algorithm only exacerbates what is viewed. Not to mention some nasty comments that are posted for the world to see. It makes young people think they are useless if they aren't doing this one specific thing. Older generations didn't know what others were doing therefore were very happy carrying on with life without the ugly comparison trap.

I wonder how much depression and anxiety would be removed if social media was banned for the more impressionable ages - under 18s or under 25s, but I don't think we would ever know.

The genie is out of the bottle, and now Society will have to deal with the consequences. I think it is all just going to get much worse, with the obvious extension, and ongoing development of AI.

BeGreenBiscuit · 30/01/2026 13:40

TheGrimSqueakersFlea · 30/01/2026 11:43

Therapy isn't a cure. I've had years of therapy and I'm still autistic

I don't think she meant autism she brought it up. Therapy as many people knows is for anxiety and mental health. Did you mean anxiety? I agree no amount of therapy will ever change how you feel if you can't make those changes yourself.

scottishgirl69 · 30/01/2026 13:40

TheThinkingEconomist · 30/01/2026 13:38

PIP has been a failure in helping people stay in work.

83% are not in work.

Do you find this acceptable?

Not really on this thread to be questioned by you tbh.

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 30/01/2026 13:41

turkeyboots · 30/01/2026 13:29

If you are claiming with multiple conditions do DWP record them alphabetically? There are a lot of A named conditions in those lists...

They tend to name them chronologically.

But for example, if you're undiagnosed autistic or ADHD then you probably will present with anxiety, so you go to your doctor's and say hey I'm not coping, I don't understand why, I'm having several panic attacks a day, I am struggling to leave the house or do any work while I'm at work, and they say you have anxiety, possibly agoraphobia, here take these SSRIs and come back if they're not working.

So you take them, they don't work because the anxiety is distinct anxiety. You aren't anxious about things that aren't likely to happen, you're anxious about things that have happened to you, and continue happening to you.

You go back, they say here try these other medications and come back to us.

You do, you feel numb, but you're still not functioning, you struggle with executive dysfunction, you cant start tasks, finish tasks, keep track of time, you feel like you've gone from one extreme to another.

You go back. Oh it's depression, or if you're a woman, it's bipolar.

You start to question your life and do some self educating and come to the realisation you've always been like this. You think if this is ADHD, I could be medicated, and that could fix me, so you go you get your ADHD assessment, you get your medication, and it helps but it doesn't fix you. It helps you sustain attention, but you don't get to choose what it is your attention is sustained on. You realise you are still emotionally dysregulated and have communication struggles and you aren't coping with changes and you've had persisted deficits all of your life.

You go, you get an autism assessment and then you are diagnosed with autism.

Obviously I'm not saying this is the pipeline for everybody but it is for a lot of people very similar to this, and so it can look like you're collecting the alphabet, but no, it's recorded chronologically.

Cakeontheflo · 30/01/2026 13:42

TheThinkingEconomist · 30/01/2026 13:38

PIP has been a failure in helping people stay in work.

83% are not in work.

Do you find this acceptable?

You find it surprising that 83% of people on a benefit that is designed for people the most affected by disabilities can't work?

I mean, make your mind up FGS. You want PIP to be more difficult for people to get so only the most disabled qualify but you want them to be working?

Make it make sense.

PickAChew · 30/01/2026 13:42

Of course something isn't right, here. You're using the daily mail as a source of information.

ClawsandEffect · 30/01/2026 13:43

My DGC gets DLA due to the level of SEN. As a family we would much rather they got an adequately supported education, enabling them to be literate and a productive worker as an adult. Rather than chucking money at a family who don't know what to do for the child.

TheThinkingEconomist · 30/01/2026 13:43

scottishgirl69 · 30/01/2026 13:40

Not really on this thread to be questioned by you tbh.

You made a statement which I have challenged.

Don't make such statements if you cannot back them up with evidence.

InLoveWithAI · 30/01/2026 13:43

Wait ... Is therapy free? Will fixing the woeful NHS mental health support be free???

Wionder why this hasn't been done before.

You've solved it Op.

Round of applause.

/s

Funnywonder · 30/01/2026 13:43

Overtheatlantic · 30/01/2026 13:32

I’m an oldie and managed to live through the Cold War without crippling anxiety. Every generation has some kind of threat they are faced with but it’s only in the past decade we’ve seen an explosion of anxiety and depression.

I suppose I’m an oldie too at 58. I lived through the Troubles in Belfast. I have terrible anxiety as a result. I very likely am predisposed to anxiety due to my genetics. I was put on Valium at 10 years old. I suffered with severe OCD. I’m sure for every one of me, there are dozens, probably hundreds, who are fine. But people like me have always existed, it’s just that nobody talked about it. We were expected to just get on with it. Until we didn’t.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 30/01/2026 13:43

waywardways · 30/01/2026 13:38

She definitely would not get 16 ergo enhanced rate care. It's not as simple as telling them I need an aid for cooking and they just tick a box. Who prescribed the aid and for what medical reasons is this required. Same for needing help with medication, what is the medical condition that causes you issue with taking medication yourself? My DC has severe LDs and is on 17 medications a day and despite DWP knowing this and having the proof (he was awarded DLA aged 3 months) the assessor was saying that as he doesn't have a problem with his hands that he should be able to manage to open blister packs.

They don’t have to be prescribed. Needing reminders on your phone is considered an aid.

ScarlettSarah · 30/01/2026 13:44

TheThinkingEconomist · 30/01/2026 13:31

It is not the role of the state to pay you for having those conditions in order to stay at home and not work.

Do you not see how absurd that is in economic terms?

You are effectively paying people to be unproductive.

These benefits (at the minimum) should come with work requirements.

We're not units of productivity for the state or the economy. We are human beings, and we're doing our best here.

DinoLil · 30/01/2026 13:44

The ignorance on this thread is deafening.

MrsClatterbuck · 30/01/2026 13:44

Well if he thinks he has just been sacked for just a bit of "banter" then maybe he should go to an employment tribunal. See how far he gets. As already mentioned sacking someone for gross misconduct especially someone there for 27 years is a process that isn't easy. Why haven't women felt able to voice their concerns before now. Maybe new management in place who take these things seriously. It also sends out a clear message to all staff that such behaviour will be taken seriously when they receive any complaints.

scottishgirl69 · 30/01/2026 13:44

peacefulpeach · 30/01/2026 12:41

When disability or being disabled goes back to what it used to mean, when it meant something.

ADHD and being depressed and or anxious or significantly overweight are not disabilities.

Depression isn't "being depressed". Anxiety isn't "being anxious". I have both and ptsd. I wouldn't wish having ptsd on anyone

CloakedInGucci · 30/01/2026 13:44

LakieLady · 30/01/2026 12:36

MH services are woefully underfunded imo. Even people with significant MH issues get very little input from MH teams.

My DB is bipolar, and his entire MH input consists of a trip to the MH team offices once a month for a depot injection. He's like a zombie for approx 10 days afterwards, then has a few days of being ok before he starts to get manic again. If they could sort out effective medication, he might be well enough to work.

A friend's son (17) waited 6 years for a CAMHS assessment. During that time, his anxiety got so much worse that he's now totally socially phobic, and has panic attacks at the slightest thing, like an unusual noise. He finally got an autism assessment seven years after referral. He had just a few weeks at secondary school before his problems got so bad that friend simply couldn't get him there. It's hard to know what work he could do, he's so terrified of everything he won't even open the front door. And the strain of caring for him has fucked friend's MH as well, so that's a second person out of the work force and on benefits.

I worked with clients with MH problems for 18 years, and the decline in the help and support they get has been massively reduced over that period. Unless people are so unwell that they need an acute admission, there's next to fuck all help out there.

I agree. MH services are awful.

I was referred to the perinatal mental health team when DD2 was under a week old. I was actively suicidal. They put me on a waiting list for therapy but told me that it was quite likely that DD2 would turn 1 before I got to the top of the list, at which point I’d be removed from the perinatal team anyway.

At other times I’ve done NHS talking therapy on several occasions, which was always just photocopied standard worksheets to fill out. If you say they don’t apply to you, well tough, that’s how it’s done so “fill it in best you can”. Absolutely no customisation for individual issues, just cookie cutter sheets (I suspect this is due to the training level of the people doing the “therapy”, and their inability to work with individual issues. One of mine had a job title something along the lines of “wellness advisor”.)

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 30/01/2026 13:44

It will end when

  • managers learn how to manage
  • working adults understand the term reasonable adjustment and it's implications
  • employers pay employees a decent wage
  • universal basic income is introduced
  • when everyone can get an appointment with their GP
  • access to MH services is widened so people can get help before they reach crisis
  • government undertake long term planning and invest accordingly
PotsPies · 30/01/2026 13:45

scottishgirl69 · 30/01/2026 13:44

Depression isn't "being depressed". Anxiety isn't "being anxious". I have both and ptsd. I wouldn't wish having ptsd on anyone

Would you be okay explaining to others what it's genuinely like in your head?

TheThinkingEconomist · 30/01/2026 13:45

ScarlettSarah · 30/01/2026 13:44

We're not units of productivity for the state or the economy. We are human beings, and we're doing our best here.

You curiously forget the other side of the equation.

Productive taxpayers are forced to work longer and harder to subsidise you.

So yes, it does matter.

Penelope23145 · 30/01/2026 13:45

I've been working as an advisor for some years. I'm so glad my job is ending. It's just person after person ( late 50's/ early 60's ) who can't find jobs and want PIP on the basis of anxiety and depression because basic UC or ESA isn't enough to live off and they keep pushing pension age back and back. It really isn't a solution to just dish out benefits to these people but then there seems to be so little help to get them back to employment either and who wants to employ someone in their late fifties who has barely worked for years. I've no idea what the answer is just so glad to be leaving this area of work as it's bloody depressing. l From April they are halving the LCWRA element of UC so there will be even more thinking they'll just have a go for PIP. We need to get back to making PIP and childrens disability benefits for the most severely disabled only. the current system is completely unsustainable.

Greenwitchart · 30/01/2026 13:45

Here we go, another benefit bashing thread...

Daft and tedious...

PIP is an extremely difficult benefit to apply for and to be awarded. The DWP own stats show that fraud is close to zero.

We have an ageing population so it is normal that more people will develop long term health conditions/disabilities in their lifetime.

No matter how successive governments chose to ignore it Covid and lockdowns have also affected the physical and mental health of the nation.

Mental health services have been starved of funding. In my area there is a five years waiting list for autism assessments...

As for employers do you really think that they want to employ and retain people who have to declared long term health issues on their job application?

But I guess it is easier to scream about "explosion" rather than looking at facts.

Pricelessadvice · 30/01/2026 13:45

Fully agree OP, but you’re not allowed to express an opinion about benefits on this forum.

As an autistic person who has been medicated for depression for 25 years, has an autoimmune disease, a diagnosed chronic back complaint involving herniated discs, and narcolepsy, yet still manages to work because I was raised to believe there was no choice and that you had to just get on with it, I can’t even think about the amount of money that goes on PIP without getting annoyed.

scottishgirl69 · 30/01/2026 13:46

Lightuptheroom · 30/01/2026 12:25

My step son has just been awarded pip, standard rate, roughly £70 ISH a week. Didn't have a face to face assessment, openly stated that his friend told him to lie on the form. Yes, he has social anxiety, no, it doesn't stop him doing what he says it stops him doing. Yes, he's on antidepressants and the GP doesn't keep a check on anything. Might make me sound bitter, he drained us dry for 8 years and also receives the universal credit 'limited capability ' money. No, he didn't have a face to face assessment for that either. He has no intention of working , the money isn't spent on accessing help, he buys Warhammer models with it, very expensive ones.

Pip isn't actually easy to get. If you look at the descriptors that's plain to see. Face to face assessments stopped after covid

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