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Benefits explosion- where will it end?

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TheBlueKoala · 30/01/2026 11:37

"PIP benefits explosion: Anxiety and depression handouts have nearly TRIPLED to £4.3bn since Covid - with autism and ADHD bill hitting £2.2bn and 'back pain' £1.6bn"

Something is not right here. When I have written before on here telling about people I know who claim for anxiety although they have rich social lives (funded by 440£ extra per month from PIP) I've had many people telling me that it's not possible etc. It sure is. How many 16 year olds are claiming PIP for anxiety?

Instead of benefits why not pay for therapy- invest massively in the NHS mental health support so that people with anxiety, adhd and autism can see a therapist regularly to help them. This would make a difference for tje individual and the society. Throwing out money won't.

AINBU- I agree with about
AIBU- No, extra money is always useful

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15510221/PIP-benefits-anxiety-depression-austism-ADHD-pain-Covid-Labour.html

PIP anxiety and depression benefits near TRIPLE to £4.3bn after Covid

The grim picture emerged in a breakdown of how much Personal Independence Payment (PIP) is being paid out for specific conditions.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15510221/PIP-benefits-anxiety-depression-austism-ADHD-pain-Covid-Labour.html

OP posts:
HelloCr0w · 30/01/2026 16:59

Chenecinquantecinq · 30/01/2026 16:53

I have a relative who needs 24 hour care so is obviously on benefits. I also know of people who claim (effectively "mental health") and get their nails done go out clubbing get botox. The system is a mess!! It is not just money is is time taken out of Adult Social Services Days dealing with imo people who should not receive payments. It is a joke and unsustainable.

I know a lady with learning disabilities who gets her nails done regularly. It is a treat for her and she loves to have pretty nails. Her carer takes her and her benefits pay for it. Is that allowed?
I am on universal credit and PIP. There is nothing in my journal or anything about what I am allowed to spend it on. I could go clubbing if I want as again there is nothing in my journal about things I am not allowed to do.

Chenecinquantecinq · 30/01/2026 16:59

x2boys · 30/01/2026 16:56

Go on then what does disabled .mean?

Somebody who cannot function at all!! I am fed up with is my relative whose affairs I deal with because he has no mental capacity was cared for by my grandparents with zero help either financially or respite wise whilst they were alive. He is severely disabled cannot be left alone yet the only time we as a family turned to the State was after they died. I am FED UP that he cannot even get a timely care plan review because social services are innundated with people milking the system. It is morally abhorent!!!!

scottishgirl69 · 30/01/2026 16:59

thecatneuterer · 30/01/2026 16:54

This has just been covered on Radio 4's more or less. The programme is still on as I type. Apparently any award for disability, including any very small award for anxiety or depression, removes the family benefit cap. The removal of the cap can mean an extra £20k per year for the family.

Lcwra doesn't remove the benefit cap. Pip or dla and other benefits do

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 30/01/2026 17:01

Chenecinquantecinq · 30/01/2026 16:59

Somebody who cannot function at all!! I am fed up with is my relative whose affairs I deal with because he has no mental capacity was cared for by my grandparents with zero help either financially or respite wise whilst they were alive. He is severely disabled cannot be left alone yet the only time we as a family turned to the State was after they died. I am FED UP that he cannot even get a timely care plan review because social services are innundated with people milking the system. It is morally abhorent!!!!

I can see you are committed to your current level of understanding.

x2boys · 30/01/2026 17:01

Chenecinquantecinq · 30/01/2026 16:59

Somebody who cannot function at all!! I am fed up with is my relative whose affairs I deal with because he has no mental capacity was cared for by my grandparents with zero help either financially or respite wise whilst they were alive. He is severely disabled cannot be left alone yet the only time we as a family turned to the State was after they died. I am FED UP that he cannot even get a timely care plan review because social services are innundated with people milking the system. It is morally abhorent!!!!

My son is the same but for the umpteenth time it goes off need not diagnosis
Yes plenty of people will put in tenuous claims but that doesnt .can they will get anywhere with them.

HelloCr0w · 30/01/2026 17:02

Chenecinquantecinq · 30/01/2026 16:59

Somebody who cannot function at all!! I am fed up with is my relative whose affairs I deal with because he has no mental capacity was cared for by my grandparents with zero help either financially or respite wise whilst they were alive. He is severely disabled cannot be left alone yet the only time we as a family turned to the State was after they died. I am FED UP that he cannot even get a timely care plan review because social services are innundated with people milking the system. It is morally abhorent!!!!

So a person with no legs is not disabled because they are still able to function?

Playingvideogames · 30/01/2026 17:02

I agree the word ‘disabled’ means pretty much anything now. Depression, eczema, whatever, all seems to be ‘disabled’

scottishgirl69 · 30/01/2026 17:03

Chenecinquantecinq · 30/01/2026 16:59

Somebody who cannot function at all!! I am fed up with is my relative whose affairs I deal with because he has no mental capacity was cared for by my grandparents with zero help either financially or respite wise whilst they were alive. He is severely disabled cannot be left alone yet the only time we as a family turned to the State was after they died. I am FED UP that he cannot even get a timely care plan review because social services are innundated with people milking the system. It is morally abhorent!!!!

You really cannot sit and say that the only people who have disabilities are people who are incapable of functioning. Lots of people don't milk the system at all and no - it's not fair that social services are so stretched but it's unfair to blame that on other disabled people

Its too easy to apportion blame to people who aren't at fault.

Chenecinquantecinq · 30/01/2026 17:03

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 30/01/2026 17:01

I can see you are committed to your current level of understanding.

It is absolutely a broken system because we have allowed a situation to develop where it is being milked by those who should not benefit at the expense of those who truly need it. I do not claim benefits nor need them but I do have a lot of experience of the system through my role as Deputy. It is broken and unsustainable and truly disabled people are currently losing out.

Lavender14 · 30/01/2026 17:03

Chenecinquantecinq · 30/01/2026 16:59

Somebody who cannot function at all!! I am fed up with is my relative whose affairs I deal with because he has no mental capacity was cared for by my grandparents with zero help either financially or respite wise whilst they were alive. He is severely disabled cannot be left alone yet the only time we as a family turned to the State was after they died. I am FED UP that he cannot even get a timely care plan review because social services are innundated with people milking the system. It is morally abhorent!!!!

This is interesting... is it that they are actually inundated with people 'milking the system' causing the issue or is it actually the fact that the last lot of governments we've had have intentionally and chronically cut resources to health and social care trusts? Which has resulted in less resources, higher rates of staff turnover and significant difficulty in recruitment and retention? Which obviously then affects waiting lists? Years of austerity and cut backs were already causing significant issues before Covid exacerbated things.

I'm not sure why you're associating this with people fraudulently claiming benefits.

PerksOfNotBeingAWallflower · 30/01/2026 17:03

randomchap · 30/01/2026 12:20

Yay, the daily benefit bashing thread.

It's going to be full of ill-informed idiocy as usual

You’ve hit the nail on the head.

x2boys · 30/01/2026 17:04

Chenecinquantecinq · 30/01/2026 16:59

Somebody who cannot function at all!! I am fed up with is my relative whose affairs I deal with because he has no mental capacity was cared for by my grandparents with zero help either financially or respite wise whilst they were alive. He is severely disabled cannot be left alone yet the only time we as a family turned to the State was after they died. I am FED UP that he cannot even get a timely care plan review because social services are innundated with people milking the system. It is morally abhorent!!!!

And why did your grandparents not claim anything for him ?
Also why did they not ask for a carers assessment for respite ( I realise its very are dependent ) but they coud have bern assessed..

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 30/01/2026 17:05

NorthXNorthWest · 30/01/2026 16:53

. @DontGoJasonWaterfalls They have deleted your post but I wanted to respond

You are fucking done but still trying to shame people for asking sensible questions. Where the money is going to come from. Is the current system is fit for purpose. Those questions don't mean there is a lack of compassion but compassion without realism is pointless.

Having a tantrum doesn't change the fact that there are bills to be paid. Those bills are getting more expensive and the tax base is shrinking. Labour are not growing the economy. They are just taxing everything that can't move and some that can rather that fixing economy. There is only so much you can tax people before the system fully collapses.

We are trying to feeding a growing number of people from decreasing amounts of food. It will not end well.

You can have a tantrum and exit or you can try to be part of the solution

I literally don't give a shit, I'll thankfully be dead long before this becomes my problem (thanks to my poor choices / not having my head screwed on / lack of work ethic, no doubt)

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 30/01/2026 17:05

Chenecinquantecinq · 30/01/2026 17:03

It is absolutely a broken system because we have allowed a situation to develop where it is being milked by those who should not benefit at the expense of those who truly need it. I do not claim benefits nor need them but I do have a lot of experience of the system through my role as Deputy. It is broken and unsustainable and truly disabled people are currently losing out.

Yes but your definition of truly disabled is limited to people who cannot function at all.

That's simply not factual. Don't let facts get in the way of your opinion though.

NorthXNorthWest · 30/01/2026 17:06

Lavender14 · 30/01/2026 16:59

Why should people with mental health problems not get their nails done or go clubbing or get botox? Could you explain this?

Why are adult social services involved? You don't need an adult social worker to claim PIP?

Because those are not needs.

Playingvideogames · 30/01/2026 17:06

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 30/01/2026 17:05

I literally don't give a shit, I'll thankfully be dead long before this becomes my problem (thanks to my poor choices / not having my head screwed on / lack of work ethic, no doubt)

But this is all we get when we ask sensible questions. Tantrums, accusations of loving workhouses/eugenics, hysterics about euthanasia.

This is an economic question.

scottishgirl69 · 30/01/2026 17:06

Playingvideogames · 30/01/2026 17:02

I agree the word ‘disabled’ means pretty much anything now. Depression, eczema, whatever, all seems to be ‘disabled’

I have suffered from eczema since I was born. I suffer from dermatitis too and I'm currently in the middle of a really horrible outbreak of eczema. I have never considered myself disabled because of it. Why do people always have to put other peoples conditions down to make a point?

MissAustenMadeAQuilt · 30/01/2026 17:07

BloominNora · 30/01/2026 16:44

I have plenty of insight thanks having suffered from MH myself (and been unable to access NHS treatment, but luckily being able to afford private). I also work in the public sector and have a lot of experience of working with NHS commissioners.

Utilising private resource can absolutely help to reduce waiting lists if used correctly and on a short term basis. I've seen it happen and be very successful (I've also seen it implemented badly)

It could easily be used for cancer follow ups after diagnosis and treatment, ADHD and Autism Assessments, CBT, EMR etc.

Many of the practitioners who work in the private sector, also work for the NHS so in those cases, the standards shouldn't really be any different and can be managed with effective contracts

I am a firm believer in the social safety net and know that most of the stats coming out about the 'skyrocketing benefits bill' are taken from out of context right wing talking points and I absolutely don't think that people should be forced of benefits when there is no treatment available for the needs.

But that doesn't mean I think that we shouldn't find a way of making that treatment available and when it is, expect people to take some responsibility for their own well being.

But it is, as you say, a net and a net can develop a bloody big hole if too much weight is put in it.

Chenecinquantecinq · 30/01/2026 17:07

x2boys · 30/01/2026 17:04

And why did your grandparents not claim anything for him ?
Also why did they not ask for a carers assessment for respite ( I realise its very are dependent ) but they coud have bern assessed..

Because of the generation they were from which was not about claiming ANYTHING. Rightly or wrongly that generation had pride and my grandparents would have been filled with shame at claiming. My uncle was their son they cared for him till their dying days and they had a pretty hard life because of it but that's what that generation were like. My grandpa was 80 years old died in 2012 he still cared for my uncle.

x2boys · 30/01/2026 17:08

Playingvideogames · 30/01/2026 17:02

I agree the word ‘disabled’ means pretty much anything now. Depression, eczema, whatever, all seems to be ‘disabled’

Both of those condtions if severe enough csn be disabling
Having a bit of dry and itchy skin or being a bit sad however ,will not entitle anyone to disability benefits.

NorthXNorthWest · 30/01/2026 17:08

Chenecinquantecinq · 30/01/2026 17:07

Because of the generation they were from which was not about claiming ANYTHING. Rightly or wrongly that generation had pride and my grandparents would have been filled with shame at claiming. My uncle was their son they cared for him till their dying days and they had a pretty hard life because of it but that's what that generation were like. My grandpa was 80 years old died in 2012 he still cared for my uncle.

We have gone from shame to no shame. There needs to be a balance

thecatneuterer · 30/01/2026 17:08

scottishgirl69 · 30/01/2026 16:59

Lcwra doesn't remove the benefit cap. Pip or dla and other benefits do

I don't know what all those things are. However the programme very specifically mentioned a small award for anxiety or depression.

Avantiagain · 30/01/2026 17:09

"He is severely disabled cannot be left alone yet the only time we as a family turned to the State was after they died."

Not the best choice on your family's part.

scottishgirl69 · 30/01/2026 17:09

NorthXNorthWest · 30/01/2026 17:06

Because those are not needs.

There are plenty of people with mental health issues who work full time. Why shouldn't someone with mental health issues get their nails done? Or are we only talking about people on benefits?

EdithBond · 30/01/2026 17:09

Wonder if TheBlueKoala is Lynton Crosby or John McTernan 😂

Or a McFadden special adviser.

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