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To think people over 80 should not drive

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TorridAntelope · 30/01/2026 00:14

I don't care how bright and sparky they are, the stats show they are dangerous

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OhDear111 · 13/02/2026 14:50

It’s nothing to do with age! We have friends who should not be driving at 70! It’s about safety and being competent. I know many people at 80 who are perfectly competent.

Katypp · 13/02/2026 14:50

OhDear111 · 13/02/2026 14:50

It’s nothing to do with age! We have friends who should not be driving at 70! It’s about safety and being competent. I know many people at 80 who are perfectly competent.

Do you though? How do you judge that then?

OonaStubbs · 13/02/2026 15:19

Again, I'm sure there are people younger than 17 who could drive quite safely, but it's not allowed because in general if it is felt that those younger than 17 are not capable of driving responsibly and safely. It would be no different to banning those of age 80+

OhDear111 · 14/02/2026 20:16

@Katypp They are people I know well. I’m 70 - when you are older you should adjust how you drive if you need to and certainly stop if you, or anyone else, believes you are unsafe. I’m certainly aware it’s not older people causing most accidents. I’m frustrated by anyone who is a poor driver but they absolutely are not all old!

DH (who is older) and me own a Macan, a Cayman. A BMW ix3x a Discovery and a Merc SL. We can drive. We intend to keep driving and the IX3 has good reaction times! Seriously though, most older people in their 80s restrict their driving to times when they know they are safe. Us? We still like track days!

ForPlumReader · 16/02/2026 13:39

bumptybum · 02/02/2026 23:28

Yes yes young men are the worst but everyone starts young. Everyone is inexperienced at the start. More controls could be implemented for the young but you can’t compare the two groups as inexperience is part of the journey that’s unavoidable

the elderly are the second biggest group fir accidents and in contrast to the young, the elderly continue to get worse. There has to be something put in place as many old people have no intention of ever voluntarily stopping.

Precisely why I think they should increase the age at which anyone can start to drive. It's not just inexperience, it's often immaturity too.

BridgertonToBe · 16/02/2026 13:51

I don’t think you can put an age on it. People of ANY AGE who are no longer fit to drive, or have poor eye sight, shouldn’t.

ThatLassFromLeeds · 16/02/2026 13:54

I’ve always thought that everyone who drives should have a mandatory eye test at least every 10 years (and possibly more frequently after a certain age). I’ve known a few people who’ve refused to acknowledge that they need glasses but have kept driving anyway.

7citupal · 16/02/2026 17:16

How very authoritarian of you. It completely depends on the individual.

rainingsnoring · 16/02/2026 21:56

By that same logic, we should be banning all drivers over 75/80 because everyone deteriorates with age. Even worse, the elderly are guaranteed to deteriorate.

rainingsnoring · 16/02/2026 21:57

ForPlumReader · 16/02/2026 13:39

Precisely why I think they should increase the age at which anyone can start to drive. It's not just inexperience, it's often immaturity too.

Apologies. I thought I had quoted this post with my above comment.

PartyRockAnthem · 16/02/2026 22:03

Come back to us when you’re 80 and surrender your licence.

mathanxiety · 17/02/2026 01:52

Planner2026 · 30/01/2026 00:36

YABU. Young men are statistically the most dangerous drivers. Older people have more experience, more time to get to places and are largely not as hot-headed as young men. Driving is a lifeline for many.

Agree.

They are also likely to stick to short, local trips - shopping, hair or doctor appointments - in areas where there is a low speed limit and they are very familiar with lights, roundabouts, dodgy intersection, etc.

Barnbrack · 17/02/2026 02:57

In my professional role I see a lot of people who can no longer drive due to their eyesight, they are often incredulous, particularly the elderly, declaring they can drive just fine. Yet the actual driving standard is really incredibly lenient. Allowing for a significant drop in central and peripheral vision before driving is not legal anymore. Even those JUST passing the test I find it scary they are able to drive when they are simultaneously struggling to navigate other elements of their daily lives due to vision loss.

Then there are those passing the vision tests but awaiting hip replacements, being wheeled I go appts by porters, with clear significant cognitive decline who drive themselves everywhere. Who definitely do not seem like the have capacity to be in charge of a vehicle.

Proportionally many more over 80s shouldn't be driving than should. There should be annual thourough health checks and more stringent cut off I believe

Barnbrack · 17/02/2026 02:59

mathanxiety · 17/02/2026 01:52

Agree.

They are also likely to stick to short, local trips - shopping, hair or doctor appointments - in areas where there is a low speed limit and they are very familiar with lights, roundabouts, dodgy intersection, etc.

And yet none of that stops very easily preventable accidents like people killed at zebra crossings etc. a lack of ability to avoid unexpected hazards is what leads to most accidents with elderly drivers and therefore the accidents they do have tend to be catastrophic.

GarlicBound · 17/02/2026 03:14

MikeRafone · 05/02/2026 09:13

I was curios what the statistics were for fatalities in car crashes and is it drivers over 80 causing them

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/reported-road-casualties-great-britain-older-and-younger-driver-factsheets-2024/reported-road-casualties-in-great-britain-older-driver-factsheet-2024

the chart is certainly showing men over 80 and men over 86 as a real risk to life

There's a serious problem with this report! It completely fails to provide useful comparisons between older & younger drivers, and doesn't separate KSI to the driver from others.

The text says that older drivers are more likely to be KSI in accidents, but lumps self-injury in with injuries inflicted on others.

I mean, I agree there's a problem. I stopped driving because I decided by myself that my health condition makes me potentially unsafe. But it pisses me off enormously when govt data presents a biased picture, as this unquestionably does.

CanadianJohn2 · 17/02/2026 04:07

I haven't read the whole thread, and my apologies if this has been mentioned before. In Ontario, Canada, seniors aged 80 and over must renew their driver's license every two years, which includes a vision screening and a cognitive function test.

Skybunnee · 17/02/2026 06:18

CanadianJohn2 · 17/02/2026 04:07

I haven't read the whole thread, and my apologies if this has been mentioned before. In Ontario, Canada, seniors aged 80 and over must renew their driver's license every two years, which includes a vision screening and a cognitive function test.

Seems sensible

Benvenuto · 17/02/2026 08:36

Barnbrack · 17/02/2026 02:59

And yet none of that stops very easily preventable accidents like people killed at zebra crossings etc. a lack of ability to avoid unexpected hazards is what leads to most accidents with elderly drivers and therefore the accidents they do have tend to be catastrophic.

The BBC have just reported the verdict in a court case in Northern Ireland where an 84 year-old hit a woman in a collision (who died). The defendant had reversed out of a space in a car park & was driving forward when she hit the victim. The defendant could not explain why she had not seen the victim - she pleaded guilty.

The judge said that this met the criteria for imprisonment, but due to her previous good character, remorse & guilty plea this was suspended for 2 years. She also has an 18-month driving ban & will have to sit an extended test to be able to drive again (she says she doesn’t intend to drive).

Whether sentences for driving offences are serious enough is probably a whole other debate, but I wish the BBC had reported the reason why the judge did not give her a lifetime ban.

MikeRafone · 17/02/2026 09:27

GarlicBound · 17/02/2026 03:14

There's a serious problem with this report! It completely fails to provide useful comparisons between older & younger drivers, and doesn't separate KSI to the driver from others.

The text says that older drivers are more likely to be KSI in accidents, but lumps self-injury in with injuries inflicted on others.

I mean, I agree there's a problem. I stopped driving because I decided by myself that my health condition makes me potentially unsafe. But it pisses me off enormously when govt data presents a biased picture, as this unquestionably does.

depends how you look at it, imo. I did say danger to life - not whether it was someone else or their own. The trauma for relatives and friends etc is still the same whether old or young and the cost to society, the NHS, etc is still high in all cases. Apart from the actual injuries to themselves or their premature death

ValidPistachio · 18/02/2026 22:30

Bananarice · 30/01/2026 00:41

Do you want to pay higher taxes? There is enough micromanaging by the state.

Why on Earth do you want to take away people freedom? There should be more focus on why they reduced the age of driving buses. That is more dangerous in my opinion.

What a pathetic post. A relative of mine was killed by an elderly female driver who was practically blind, but continued to drive.

ValidPistachio · 18/02/2026 22:32

Benvenuto · 17/02/2026 08:36

The BBC have just reported the verdict in a court case in Northern Ireland where an 84 year-old hit a woman in a collision (who died). The defendant had reversed out of a space in a car park & was driving forward when she hit the victim. The defendant could not explain why she had not seen the victim - she pleaded guilty.

The judge said that this met the criteria for imprisonment, but due to her previous good character, remorse & guilty plea this was suspended for 2 years. She also has an 18-month driving ban & will have to sit an extended test to be able to drive again (she says she doesn’t intend to drive).

Whether sentences for driving offences are serious enough is probably a whole other debate, but I wish the BBC had reported the reason why the judge did not give her a lifetime ban.

The judge effectively has. There’s absolutely no way she would pass a modern driving test, or obtain insurance cover.

RodgerDriver · 18/02/2026 22:58

Likewise the judge in the above Devon case, like the Northern Ireland one, didn't go for a ban.

This road is a straight forward one way system, up hill. She crossed the pavement and pinned the victim up against the Boots shop window. It was horrific for all involved in the immediate minutes after.

Rural area but with grocery delivery and generally quite a community spirit. So different to a teenager losing it on a bend and landing in a hedge.

OhDear111 · 18/02/2026 23:53

@ValidPistachioObviously personal experience is raw for you but overall far more people involved in car accidents are younger. Often 3 in a car at the time. Happened several times around here.

MikeRafone · 19/02/2026 07:32

ValidPistachio · 18/02/2026 22:32

The judge effectively has. There’s absolutely no way she would pass a modern driving test, or obtain insurance cover.

That’s not the point, the point is lifetime bans are very rare and the reasoning needs to be known.