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to feel uneasy about what this means long term rather than surprised by the weight regain itself?

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HazelMember · 28/01/2026 18:03

I’ve just read a BBC article about research into weight loss injections like Ozempic and Wegovy showing that people who stop taking them tend to regain weight quite quickly.

I’m not shocked that weight comes back. That happens after most weight loss attempts whether they involve medication or not.

These drugs are increasingly talked about as something people might take for years or even indefinitely. That raises questions for me about what happens when someone cannot afford them anymore, when supply changes, when side effects become an issue or when a person simply does not want to stay on a medication for life.

If stopping leads not just to regain but to a fairly rapid rebound, it feels less like a temporary aid and more like something that is very hard to step away from once started. That sits oddly with how casually they are sometimes discussed.

AIBU to think the real issue here is not that people regain weight after stopping, but whether we are quietly normalising a treatment that may be difficult to discontinue once begun? Or is this simply the reality of managing a chronic condition?

A woman, wearing bright red nail polish and unbuttoned blue jeans, injects herself into the skin and soft tissue of her lower abdomen with an obesity jab pen.

People coming off weight-loss injections risk fast weight gain

Overweight people shed large amounts on jabs but gain 0.8 kg a month on average once off them, study shows.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c050ljnrv2qo

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soupyspoon · 29/01/2026 21:30

SilenceInside · 29/01/2026 20:50

I’ve lost 11 stone. I don’t have loose skin that needs managing, I’ve got a bit of crepeyness on my inner thighs, a bit of a stomach roll but it’s no longer an overhang as it’s shrunk back, I’ve also had two large babies and two c sections so it’s never going to be flat. I’ve got a bit of bingo wings going on but that seems to be improving a lot recently. It’s nothing like what you see on social media, of people who have lost multiple stones and have hanging sagging skin. It’s obviously a possibility but it’s not a reason to remain obese, or to fear losing the weight. Try and lose weight at a steady pace, and try to exercise and eat well, but that’s good advice generally not just to minimise loose skin.

It just sometimes seems like the “threat” of loose skin is used as a way to needle and poke at obese people, to say that even if you do lose the weight you’ll still be “unworthy” and just have swapped one health issue for another that’s just as bad. I’m sure it’s not meant that way but that’s sometimes how it seems.

Its absolutely meant that way

Along with an 'aging face'

'oooh she's aged'.

sprigatito · 29/01/2026 21:34

SilenceInside · 29/01/2026 20:50

I’ve lost 11 stone. I don’t have loose skin that needs managing, I’ve got a bit of crepeyness on my inner thighs, a bit of a stomach roll but it’s no longer an overhang as it’s shrunk back, I’ve also had two large babies and two c sections so it’s never going to be flat. I’ve got a bit of bingo wings going on but that seems to be improving a lot recently. It’s nothing like what you see on social media, of people who have lost multiple stones and have hanging sagging skin. It’s obviously a possibility but it’s not a reason to remain obese, or to fear losing the weight. Try and lose weight at a steady pace, and try to exercise and eat well, but that’s good advice generally not just to minimise loose skin.

It just sometimes seems like the “threat” of loose skin is used as a way to needle and poke at obese people, to say that even if you do lose the weight you’ll still be “unworthy” and just have swapped one health issue for another that’s just as bad. I’m sure it’s not meant that way but that’s sometimes how it seems.

That’s exactly why they do it. In their twisted, vengeful little minds, there simply must be a punishment for the gluttony and general moral degeneracy of obesity. If WLI have provided the evil fatties with a way of cheating their way out of early death and public ridicule, then they can only comfort themselves by pointing out that we must have yards of loose skin, muscle depletion and premature ageing. That’s just enough bile to tide them over until we inevitably “put it all back on again” and the real crowing can start.

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 29/01/2026 21:42

soupyspoon · 29/01/2026 21:30

Its absolutely meant that way

Along with an 'aging face'

'oooh she's aged'.

My hairdresser has lost loads of weight, she is almost afraid to eat now cos even when she had one choc out of the selection box she was getting comments from her colleagues

she gets told a lot that its aged her….she looks stunning, people are stupid

HazelMember · 29/01/2026 21:56

sprigatito · 29/01/2026 21:34

That’s exactly why they do it. In their twisted, vengeful little minds, there simply must be a punishment for the gluttony and general moral degeneracy of obesity. If WLI have provided the evil fatties with a way of cheating their way out of early death and public ridicule, then they can only comfort themselves by pointing out that we must have yards of loose skin, muscle depletion and premature ageing. That’s just enough bile to tide them over until we inevitably “put it all back on again” and the real crowing can start.

When you start talking about “twisted, vengeful little minds” and using phrases like “evil fatties,” you just sound nasty.

Not everyone who questions WLIs is secretly rooting for fat people to suffer or die early. Some people have concerns about long-term effects, side effects, access or the way these drugs get framed as a moral fix rather than a medical one. You don’t have to agree with them but pretending they’re all driven by spite doesn't help anyone.

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Binus · 29/01/2026 21:58

What's a moral fix, do you mean like how fatness is viewed as because people are in some way behaving wrong and then the jabs means they don't get that any more?

sprigatito · 29/01/2026 22:02

HazelMember · 29/01/2026 21:56

When you start talking about “twisted, vengeful little minds” and using phrases like “evil fatties,” you just sound nasty.

Not everyone who questions WLIs is secretly rooting for fat people to suffer or die early. Some people have concerns about long-term effects, side effects, access or the way these drugs get framed as a moral fix rather than a medical one. You don’t have to agree with them but pretending they’re all driven by spite doesn't help anyone.

That would be why I didn’t address my comment to “everyone who questions WLI”. The posters who witter on about loose skin and ageing faces however, whether they do so gleefully or dress it up as concern, are arseholes, and there are a lot of them on MN. If you think I “sound nasty” for being blunt about what I think of them, well, I won’t be losing any sleep over it.

Duckishness · 29/01/2026 22:04

HazelMember · 29/01/2026 21:56

When you start talking about “twisted, vengeful little minds” and using phrases like “evil fatties,” you just sound nasty.

Not everyone who questions WLIs is secretly rooting for fat people to suffer or die early. Some people have concerns about long-term effects, side effects, access or the way these drugs get framed as a moral fix rather than a medical one. You don’t have to agree with them but pretending they’re all driven by spite doesn't help anyone.

I get that except evidence suggests there isn’t the same concern for the number of people who started taking statins, for example, or lots of other ‘cash cow pharma’ products (your words) that likely require lifelong treatment and impact the same % of the population. It’s just all those aren’t visible in the same way of shrouded in inherent bias as obesity is.

So why the interest in the long-term
impact of WLI. Rhetorical question as I know the answers.

SwingTheMonkey · 29/01/2026 22:11

Perimenoanti · 29/01/2026 20:31

There are people who have a lot to loose and the loose skin will need managing. It won't be just a bit of loose skin. No point risking the effects of obesity but for some the loose skin issue won't just be purely cosmetic. This in itself can have challenges and I don't understand why anyone would dismiss that.

Because those challenges won’t be any
where near as bad as navigating life changing disabilities because you’ve had a stroke or facing debilitating treatments because you’ve developed a weight related cancer.

DarkForces · 29/01/2026 22:17

HazelMember · 29/01/2026 21:56

When you start talking about “twisted, vengeful little minds” and using phrases like “evil fatties,” you just sound nasty.

Not everyone who questions WLIs is secretly rooting for fat people to suffer or die early. Some people have concerns about long-term effects, side effects, access or the way these drugs get framed as a moral fix rather than a medical one. You don’t have to agree with them but pretending they’re all driven by spite doesn't help anyone.

Do you really think you are more informed to be concerned about my health more than I do? That I'm not able to weigh up cost, risk and benefit? Why is me taking a medicine in line with the regulations which are based on actual evidence rather than assumptions up for debate? Would you like to debate my daily antihistamine or hrt? What makes this decision compared to those?

But you care so very very much 🤔

quittingsugar2026 · 29/01/2026 22:36

MagpiePi · 28/01/2026 18:40

You’d probably count me as ‘naturally thin’ but like your friends, it takes a lot of hard work to stay this way. From what I’ve heard other people say, I have all the food noise going on, but cope by having quite a restrictive and controlled diet and some pretty unhealthy attitudes to food, exercise and myself.
If they are now saying that people could stay on WLIs for life once they’d reached a healthy weight, why can’t people like me take them? I’d love to take a drug that stopped the constant battle that’s going on in my head.

Exactly, some people have no idea

Perimenoanti · 29/01/2026 22:38

HazelMember · 29/01/2026 21:56

When you start talking about “twisted, vengeful little minds” and using phrases like “evil fatties,” you just sound nasty.

Not everyone who questions WLIs is secretly rooting for fat people to suffer or die early. Some people have concerns about long-term effects, side effects, access or the way these drugs get framed as a moral fix rather than a medical one. You don’t have to agree with them but pretending they’re all driven by spite doesn't help anyone.

I don't understand the word concern here. If you are concerned don't take them? Or if you are concerned do something for a good cause related to obesity? Why aren't you showing the same concern for obesity that has effects that kill? Heart disease and stroke are right up there as the top causes of death. Cancers are a bit further down.

What do you want to achieve with concern? Maybe talk to a friend or a therapist about your concern?

Tryagain26 · 29/01/2026 22:40

Jackiepumpkinhead · 28/01/2026 18:05

Another WLI bashing thread, what fun. I’ll get my bingo card ready.

I don't see it as weight loss bashing at all. It is asking a serious question based on real research.

godmum56 · 29/01/2026 22:41

I am seriously puzzled as to why people who don't use WLI and have no intention of using WLI should be concerned, "uneasy", or even give two hoots about what others choose to do?

SwingTheMonkey · 29/01/2026 22:45

godmum56 · 29/01/2026 22:41

I am seriously puzzled as to why people who don't use WLI and have no intention of using WLI should be concerned, "uneasy", or even give two hoots about what others choose to do?

When was the last time you had concerns over a medication you, personally, were not using? Me? Never. And yet these people are so worried about the folks using WLI. I guess we should feel very privileged- they’re not worried about anyone else’s medications…

Perimenoanti · 29/01/2026 22:47

godmum56 · 29/01/2026 22:41

I am seriously puzzled as to why people who don't use WLI and have no intention of using WLI should be concerned, "uneasy", or even give two hoots about what others choose to do?

Maybe its just another bias towards fat people. I would be concerned about a child or vulnerable adult. Not about someone obese as if they aren't able to make an informed decision. Anything and everything comes with risks. I could die tomorrow from a stroke, but if I suffered a rare side effect from WLI id probably get told 'told you so'.

velvetgeranium · 29/01/2026 22:48

Tryagain26 · 29/01/2026 22:40

I don't see it as weight loss bashing at all. It is asking a serious question based on real research.

Exactly. It is baffling to me why we - outside of the WLI board, where people can discuss whatever about losing or gaining weight, and the use of WLI, their side-effects, their lack of side-effects, pass on some tips, support and encourage each other, whatever they want - can't discuss real-world 'concerns' about WLI.

Every word is picked over. Someone writes 'concerns' which is a perfectly reasonable word in this context (relating to, about, relevant to, affecting, involving) and someone or many someones fires back: "If you're so concerned, why don't you... 'Why are you more concerned for my health than I am?" "Why aren't you concerned about statins??" etc

Hot tip: Just for starters, statins aren't so in demand they are being counterfeited, home-compounded, or sold on the black market. Statins aren't being sought out by people who really don't need them.

Alltheyellowbirds · 29/01/2026 22:49

Duckishness · 29/01/2026 22:04

I get that except evidence suggests there isn’t the same concern for the number of people who started taking statins, for example, or lots of other ‘cash cow pharma’ products (your words) that likely require lifelong treatment and impact the same % of the population. It’s just all those aren’t visible in the same way of shrouded in inherent bias as obesity is.

So why the interest in the long-term
impact of WLI. Rhetorical question as I know the answers.

Edited

I think the difference is that we have to pay for WLI. Or at least that’s how I read OP’s concern in the first post. That lots of people started them not realising they’d likely have to stay on them forever, and they may not always be in a financial position to do so unlike statins etc which we get for free.

TheActualQueen · 29/01/2026 22:51

HazelMember · 28/01/2026 18:15

It would make sense for them to be more widely available as it would be cheaper for the NHS in the long run.

Pretty sure all of us paying for them are saving the NHS in the long run.
Extremely obese people with lifelong conditions do get them for free on the NHS.
Why did you start this thread if you’re not taking them or don’t need to OP?

Tryagain26 · 29/01/2026 22:52

Duckishness · 29/01/2026 22:04

I get that except evidence suggests there isn’t the same concern for the number of people who started taking statins, for example, or lots of other ‘cash cow pharma’ products (your words) that likely require lifelong treatment and impact the same % of the population. It’s just all those aren’t visible in the same way of shrouded in inherent bias as obesity is.

So why the interest in the long-term
impact of WLI. Rhetorical question as I know the answers.

Edited

I have read articles about whether taking stations long term is a good thing. And have had more discussions about that with friends than I have about weight loss injections.
Doesn't it make sense to ask about term effects of all.medications?
I don't understand why people are questioning research into the impact of WLI.

SilenceInside · 29/01/2026 22:57

I think people would be even more “concerned” if the NHS was paying for the vast majority of WLI prescriptions. I’m glad that I’m privately paying for it as the financial decisions are purely my own and impact no one else at all. So the concern seems a bit, I don’t know, patronising or similar given that it’s my money and my decision making process. Of course I realise that I might not be able to pay for them forever if my circumstances radically change, but I am fairly certain that I can if I need to. If I could only afford them for a fixed amount of time, well, that would be for me to cope with and manage. No one else’s concern would help or be useful in any way. It wouldn’t stop me from trying to lose the weight and maintain it, even if it was then going to be harder to maintain the weight loss. I’d rather try than not.

velvetgeranium · 29/01/2026 22:57

So why the interest in the long-term
impact of WLI. Rhetorical question as I know the answers.

It might be a rhetorical question for you. You think you know the answers in why people are interested in the long-term impacts - envious, spiteful, whatever.

But the truth of the matter is no-one knows the long-term impacts of WLI. They don't know the impact of WLI on babies in the womb, born to women on WLI. They don't know the effect on body systems over the course of decades, for people on WLI. Nobody knows!

Perimenoanti · 29/01/2026 22:57

velvetgeranium · 29/01/2026 22:48

Exactly. It is baffling to me why we - outside of the WLI board, where people can discuss whatever about losing or gaining weight, and the use of WLI, their side-effects, their lack of side-effects, pass on some tips, support and encourage each other, whatever they want - can't discuss real-world 'concerns' about WLI.

Every word is picked over. Someone writes 'concerns' which is a perfectly reasonable word in this context (relating to, about, relevant to, affecting, involving) and someone or many someones fires back: "If you're so concerned, why don't you... 'Why are you more concerned for my health than I am?" "Why aren't you concerned about statins??" etc

Hot tip: Just for starters, statins aren't so in demand they are being counterfeited, home-compounded, or sold on the black market. Statins aren't being sought out by people who really don't need them.

Maybe because posters are picking up on the word 'concern' as not being genuine. Its not the true purpose of the thread. Its contradictory to what obesity does to people. Society isn't known to have concern for obese adults. Society still thinks its a weakness. The concern here is backwards.

velvetgeranium · 29/01/2026 23:00

Maybe because posters are picking up on the word 'concern' as not being genuine.

It's a word with more meanings than you have assumed, as I pointed out.

It doesn't matter how any OP is phrased on these threads, the OP is bashed, as is anyone who tries to join in who has similar considerations they'd like to discuss.

Duckishness · 29/01/2026 23:04

velvetgeranium · 29/01/2026 22:48

Exactly. It is baffling to me why we - outside of the WLI board, where people can discuss whatever about losing or gaining weight, and the use of WLI, their side-effects, their lack of side-effects, pass on some tips, support and encourage each other, whatever they want - can't discuss real-world 'concerns' about WLI.

Every word is picked over. Someone writes 'concerns' which is a perfectly reasonable word in this context (relating to, about, relevant to, affecting, involving) and someone or many someones fires back: "If you're so concerned, why don't you... 'Why are you more concerned for my health than I am?" "Why aren't you concerned about statins??" etc

Hot tip: Just for starters, statins aren't so in demand they are being counterfeited, home-compounded, or sold on the black market. Statins aren't being sought out by people who really don't need them.

“Hot tip” - don’t quote me out of context.

Wonder if OP is also concerned about the massive trend of healthy people taking medications "off-label" to slow down aging (cholesterol, Alzheimer’s etc) and seeking prescriptions outside the NHS including for newer drugs that don’t have the length of data on safety profile.

Or is it just WLI.

soupyspoon · 29/01/2026 23:05

velvetgeranium · 29/01/2026 22:48

Exactly. It is baffling to me why we - outside of the WLI board, where people can discuss whatever about losing or gaining weight, and the use of WLI, their side-effects, their lack of side-effects, pass on some tips, support and encourage each other, whatever they want - can't discuss real-world 'concerns' about WLI.

Every word is picked over. Someone writes 'concerns' which is a perfectly reasonable word in this context (relating to, about, relevant to, affecting, involving) and someone or many someones fires back: "If you're so concerned, why don't you... 'Why are you more concerned for my health than I am?" "Why aren't you concerned about statins??" etc

Hot tip: Just for starters, statins aren't so in demand they are being counterfeited, home-compounded, or sold on the black market. Statins aren't being sought out by people who really don't need them.

Pain killers are the biggest legitimate drug which are misused.

Thread after thread after thread after thre....

Oh, wait, there isnt any threads about painkillers being abused and concern about that

Thats strange.