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To think I’ve been scammed by a seller on ebay

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Tinyfrog200 · 24/01/2026 18:21

I ordered a phone for my Son from eBay (with buyer protection) I paid with PayPal. The seller chose ‘simple delivery’ 48 hour tracked service. On Thursday I received an email from Royal Mail to say the item had been delivered. I returned home, no red card, no sign of the parcel in the vicinity or with a neighbour. The photo proving ‘proof of delivery’ is really dodgy. Please see attached. EBay have closed my case, as the item has been delivered according to them!
The seller has been absolutely no help. I now need to wait 7 working days to raise a dispute with Royal Mail. I’m absolutely raging. I think I’ve been scammed.

OP posts:
MargaretThursday · 24/01/2026 20:57

I would use eBay customer services. If you go on the chat and ask for a phone call I've found them excellent on the times I've had to use it.

I'd take a photo to show that isn't your house (colour of carpet/door etc) to send them.

Oldgoatinaboat · 24/01/2026 20:59

SomethingUniqueThisTime · 24/01/2026 19:21

Could they have delivered it to themselves at work? Does the proof of delivery have your address on the document?

That isn't possible these days with ebay simple delivery.
All postage on ebay is handled by eBay simple delivery now. The seller does not organise the postage.
Ebay handles the postage. Therefore it can only be sent to the buyer's address.
It is not possible for the seller to orchestrate a scam by posting somewhere else.

Frostynoman · 24/01/2026 21:02

It looks like a depot.

Did you stipulate a safe place for delivery? Can you prove you weren’t there? It is the sellers responsibility until it is delivered to you

HewasH2O · 24/01/2026 21:05

The tracking info will show the GPS location of the delivery. From this you can get the precise location of where your parcel was delivered. Either you or RM can then recover the parcel.

Tinyfrog200 · 24/01/2026 21:14

ValidPistachio · 24/01/2026 20:49

You’ve done nothing but accuse the eBay seller of being a scammer!

I didn’t send the seller messages implying they are a scammer

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imnotsickbutimnotwell · 24/01/2026 22:05

dragonsandfairies · 24/01/2026 20:06

Open a dispute with PayPal.
We once had the same situation. Declared as delivered and ebay refused my claim.
I then opened a dispute with PayPal and received a refund.
Like a pp has said, they can find exactly where it was delivered and PayPal found it wasn't delivered to my address.

PayPal hasn’t been the default payment system on eBay for over 10 years.

HewasH2O · 24/01/2026 22:06

So have you traced the GPS delivery spot yet?

fatphalange · 24/01/2026 22:32

Why are you only replying snippy comments? So many people trying to help and reassure you. It’s clearly in a RM office and will turn up. You can check this.

dragonsandfairies · 24/01/2026 23:59

imnotsickbutimnotwell · 24/01/2026 22:05

PayPal hasn’t been the default payment system on eBay for over 10 years.

The op says she paid with PayPal

MidnightMeltdown · 25/01/2026 01:35

SergeMarge · 24/01/2026 19:12

If the tracking for Royal Mail has your postcode then the parcel was sent to you. The problem is that Royal Mail have delivered this to the wrong place. Your issue is with them and you need to go through them.

The seller is the one who can claim compensation though, you can’t do that as you’re not the sender of the parcel. So they should be helping you by opening a case with Royal Mail for compensation due to the parcel being delivered to the wrong place.

No, if it’s eBay simple delivery then it has nothing to do with the seller. For simple delivery, EBay purchase the postage label from Royal Mail and are responsible for dealing with any issues regarding delivery - that’s why it’s simple delivery (for the seller). OP needs to contact eBay directly, the seller won’t be able to help.

Maisey1991 · 25/01/2026 01:42

Reach out to local Facebook group to see if anyone knows the local posties and ask if anyone knows of the location in the pic. looks like the parcel pic is indoors. Go down to the delivery office and show them the pic vs the pic of your house and tell them you’ve not heard back from RM and want to speak to a manager. It’s not eBay who’ve scammed you it’s a RM cock up

LittleMissTeacup · 25/01/2026 08:12

I had one where the seller put in a different tracking number to my address so it showed as delivered (which a parcel was - to a different address) - I seem to recall RM were helpful on proving the address with the tracking number wasn’t mine for a refund. I would contact RM about the tracking number and for advice. You can also phone eBay directly and they are helpful via phone.

LoyalLeader · 25/01/2026 08:24

LittleMissTeacup · 25/01/2026 08:12

I had one where the seller put in a different tracking number to my address so it showed as delivered (which a parcel was - to a different address) - I seem to recall RM were helpful on proving the address with the tracking number wasn’t mine for a refund. I would contact RM about the tracking number and for advice. You can also phone eBay directly and they are helpful via phone.

I was going to say this. Check the tracking number and address. Could the sender have input their own address or a friends’ do the phone got delivered indeed but not to you? It would explain the delivery picture with the blurry address, in a location that’s not your home.

Sartre · 25/01/2026 08:37

It might have been delivered to someone on your street, these things happen fairly often. We’ve found an increase in this since RM hired lots of new staff in our area who keep delivering things to the same number but different street. You need to take it up with RM.

UncannyFanny · 25/01/2026 09:51

Tinyfrog200 · 24/01/2026 21:14

I didn’t send the seller messages implying they are a scammer

No, but you did put a thread on another website saying you’ve been scammed by a seller on eBay. Make your mind up.

HerNeighbourTotoro · 25/01/2026 09:54

ValidPistachio · 24/01/2026 19:09

Once the seller has posted the item, it is outside their control. There is nothing they can do to influence where Royal Mail delivers the package.

It's possible that they madetheirown label and put a wrong address on it, and gave OP the tracking to that.
Worth investigating if the label was created directly with ebay, or was self-made by the person. Or altermatively if he didnt post wrongitem to a wrong person

HerNeighbourTotoro · 25/01/2026 09:57

imnotsickbutimnotwell · 24/01/2026 22:05

PayPal hasn’t been the default payment system on eBay for over 10 years.

And so what? It is one of the main and most popular payments, 100% of my ebay transactions are via paypal. It's no longer a way sellers can use to receive the payments, but buyers can use it without issues.
If not, OP could tke this up with her bank, especially if payment has been via credit card.

Peppermintpatty24 · 25/01/2026 18:20

The post office can use gps from the tracking to locate the exact location of the "delivery". It happened to me last year. I went to the sorting office, explained that no delivery was recieved, had no card also. They were able to pin down the EXACT co-ordinates, and arranged redelivery. Fortunately the item was delivered by the wrong recipient before the postman could rectify.

Iloveeverycat · 25/01/2026 18:51

POTC · 24/01/2026 19:18

The seller doesn't choose simple delivery, they have no say in it. Ebay took away any choice for sellers. They also therefore cannot do anything to help you resolve it, the entire thing is managed by Ebay. The seller gets a prepaid label with the address you gave Ebay, they cannot modify in any way. The seller has done nothing wrong so yes yabu

You can overide the simple delivery and have it as the way before you do have a choice. I have changed all my listings to seller pays. But this isn't the sellers fault it's Royal mail.

CrazySheepNoir · 25/01/2026 18:51

I recently had something very similar happen to me on eBay. Item was marked as delivered but I hadn’t received it. When looking at the tracking it had been delivered to another postcode in the same town which was an address on an industrial estate. There was no delivery photo.
I raised dispute with eBay but it was closed straightaway as seller had delivery proof.
I was able to counter this with evidence from the tracking that it had not been delivered to my address. EBay looked into this again properly (the first dispute was only checked by a bot) and refunded my money.
It is a scam. Please beware of this when ordering from eBay sellers with little history.
Contact eBay again OP and they should be able to help. Hope you get money refunded

Iloveeverycat · 25/01/2026 18:57

dragonsandfairies · 24/01/2026 23:59

The op says she paid with PayPal

You are right. I don't know why people are saying you can't pay by PayPal. I buy all the time from Ebay and always pay by PayPal.

neitherleftnorright · 25/01/2026 19:24

One of my partner's medication deliveries was delivered to the wrong address. We went to the local sorting office and they tracked the parcel to a completely different village to the one we live in! It was recovered by Royal Mail and then redelivered to us. The people it was wrongly delivered to just left it outside I suppose. How the postman managed to deliver it to a different village in the first place is a complete mystery! But this happens quite a lot generally as I can tell from the local WhatsApp group. So you are not alone and it is certainly not the seller or Ebay's fault.

Hmm1234 · 25/01/2026 19:32

Proof of delivery taken! By Royal Mail Evri? Sorry but it seems like the courier has stolen your item not that the seller scammed you

Blueuggboots · 25/01/2026 19:45

I had this before Christmas. The parcel “delivery” photo could have literally been ANYWHERE (a bit of path, a bit of grass), and the parcel was never seen by any of my family, and we have quite a distinctive floor in our porch where photos are usually taken. I contacted the company I bought it from and they resent the parcel, but I appreciate that’s not possible in this instance….

BooneyBeautiful · 25/01/2026 19:51

Tinyfrog200 · 24/01/2026 18:45

Thank you for all the replies. Scams are becoming more and more sophisticated. Something similar happened to me on eBay recently. I will take this up with Royal Mail.

Make sure you insist RM uses the GPS tracker to see where the delivery person actually was at the time of delivery. I had this with a parcel once. They kept insisting it had been delivered, but when the GPS was tracked, the delivery person wasn't even in my road at that time!

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