Ahoy there. Interesting times continue for the talented twosome, I see!
@RueMouffetard i personally don’t see biscuits as a typical first-thing-in-the-morning thing, but when I was pregnant it was suggested to prevent morning sickness. However, Rich Tea can feel very plain and wholesome compared with the decadence of a Custard Cream, so I suppose it has a certain Puritanism to it.
As for that poster asking how we’d all feel if S committed an act of self harm- obviously none of us wants that, but I would also argue that this thread is neither bullying nor harassing. Firstly, it’s none of it personal- it’s all about the behaviour- and secondly, she can easily avoid it. We aren’t constantly tagging her or messaging her or bringing our discussion to her attention, it’s taking place entirely separately to her, so I can’t see it as harassing at all. She would have to actively seek it out to even see it. If she can’t cope with her/their behaviour coming to light, well that’s a different matter, and isn’t our responsibility- it’s hers, and what a shame that she/they behaved in ways she wouldn’t want people to know about.
(I realise nobody asked, but it annoyed me that it was even brought up. We’re all held to certain standards of behaviour, and if we don’t want our behaviour scrutinised and discussed and condemned, we really shouldn’t behave in ways we know are shameful.)