American expats in Europe/the UK

[expatme]

Are you as horrified and embarrassed as I am?

Nope.

Do you not mind how this looks to the rest of the world?

It's not their fault. If I met an American I wouldn't see them as in any way responsible

I know it's not my personal fault, but I feel so embarrassed that my country has released this monstrosity on the world. I really do.

We've lived in the UK for a long time and have always felt so welcomed here. I hate this.

Nope.

I’d only judge if I knew for sure they were Trump supporters. Otherwise they have nothing to be ashamed of.

Out of interest, do you support Trump? If you don't, aren't you worried that people might think you might? I was very embarrassed to go to Europe after the Brexit vote, I hated what the UK had done. I wanted to tell everyone I met that I'd voted Remain! I would imagine that most non Trump supporting Americans probably feel the same as I did ten years ago.

Of course, but the OP didn't ask if non Americans judged Americans. She asked if Americans felt embarrassed. I don't judge random Americans, to be honest most people who voted for Trump aren't shy about it, so if they don't tell you, it's safe to assume they didn't. That doesn't mean that they don't feel embarrassed at their horror of a president.

I dont support trump i think power has gone to his head.
But why worry over things we have no control over.

Come to think of it, i dont support anyone in power.

Fair enough. But, as a US citizen (I presume), where is this heading in the US in terms of mid-terms, the next election, and so on? Will Vance stand? Who will the Democrats hold up? What's the general feeling amongst US folks you know?

I dont know the answers to your questions.
I think its a waiting game.
Im not a US citizen either.

Well, I worry, even if I have no control, because, among other things, I have children and feel bad for how screwed up the world is. I don't think burying your head in the sand is going to do anyone any favours.

My answer is that everyone I know is horrified, and no one knows what will happen. Vance is certainly angling for it, and might well be in sooner rather than later, considering that Trump seems on the verge of being sectioned.

This administration certainly isn't popular at the moment. A lot of the craziness the world saw today has been on display domestically for quite a while. There are real concerns about whether there will be a free and fair election in 2026, and 2028 is anyone's guess, so I guess it's all pretty up in the air.

You’ve felt welcome? In England? Anyway, no, I don’t feel embarrassed having lived through the Boris Johnson years and knowing that Farage might well be the next PM. But I try to make sure my new work colleagues know that I’m very anti trump.

Thanks for the information, that's a helpful perspective to hear.

Were you a US citizen? If not, how do you consider yourself an American expat in the US/UK?

Yes, very welcome, but we're in London, which is obviously pretty international, although I guess less so now than when we arrived, pre-Brexit. And, yeah, Johnson was hideous, but it was more the usual political corruption and lying for personal aggrandisement and power. And Farage is a nightmare, but he's not been elected - yet, anyway.

All my American friends are (that live in UK, Europe, Oz) but none of them are Republican so maybe biased.

Yes.

I know several American immigrants in Ireland. I don't think it would occur to them that anyone would think they're responsible. Why would they?

I have several American friends. They are all both embarrassed and horrified

I don’t know because I’m not American, but I am starting to feel anger towards Americans, even democrats, for all of the failures that have allowed this madman to take control of the US and intimidate the rest of the world and for their failure to stop what is happening. At some stage Americans may need to be accountable.

I'm embarrassed and horrified, as well as deeply upset, not because I feel personally implicated, but it is terrible to be associated with evil and selfishness.

To give an extreme example, think how Germans used to be ashamed of something that happened before they were born.

DH is American and he’s mortified.

Yes, I think that's part of it. I want to hold my hands up and say, it wasn't me, but I don't know how generous I'd be feeling if I was looking at it from the outside.

It feels a little like being an unwilling passenger in a car with a drunk driver who's running people over left and right and there's nothing you can do.

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Is there really nothing that Americans can do? I can’t imagine the British public tolerating a leader who was terrorising British people like ICE and who was threatening to invade the world. I also can’t imagine the British public tolerating the level of corruption that Trump is involved with, lining his pockets as he goes. The closest crazy person we had in power was Truss and she was sacked pretty quickly. I’m finding it hard to understand how Trump is able to continue- will there be a point when enough is enough, or will Americans just ride it out, regardless of the harm, abuse, unlawfulness, racism and corruption from Trump and his cronies?