To feel very sorry for Vicky B

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Yes, we don’t know the full story, but so many things being said about the dance story being untrue-they had already had their dance, she’d also danced with her father, Vb was reportedly called onto the stage by her friend, Marc A and was shy to do so. She comes across as a very awkward, sad person, David seems to dislike her and speak down to her. I can imagine she must be devastated and so humiliated by this. No matter the issues, Brooklyn shouldn’t have issued the problems publicly.
I know a lot about issues with Mil’s but my instinct tells me that this could be her and perhaps she has been difficult from the start. She doesn’t have a reputation for being a nice person at all, even before all this and it’s been said there may have been similar situations in the past with an ex of hers.
In comparison, I’ve never seen anyone say a bad word about Vb, the opposite in fact, she seems to have a great relationship with all her other children and the partners, plus a good relationship with Db’s family
She just must feel so devastated and humiliated, your first born that you held in your arms as a baby.

All so sad

The mother of the bride? We are suddenly discussing Claudia Heffner Peltz now?

Yes, that's his whole point. That and them continuing to tag and contact him on social media when he asked them to keep any reconciliation private.

I'd say it was written by the equivalent of the late Max Clifford.

Well, I forgive the son.
It's how he feels, his ‘mother’ should be admitting to her unpleasantness.

Nelson V BB? Hmm - zero cash to BB or a pay off perhaps. Generous settlement?

What is it about weddings, what with bridesmaids dresses at H&M’s wedding being a big focus on their fallout, and this wedding. I can’t believe these men really give two hoots about this stuff.

Why does Dad get a hall pass on just about everything?

Isn't the whole 'I've never heard anyone say a bad word about VB' just a demonstration of how controlling she is of her image and her narrative.

You don't know how lawyered up and PR'd up their every move is. She won't allow there to be a bad word said about her. Never a bad photograph, never anything that makes her look anything less than saintly. And her husband. It's a total machine.

That's what Brookiekins was saying he wanted to escape from.

It's also interesting the way they tried so hard to get rid of the Rebecca Loos story. They crushed her career as much as possible but couldn't go crying to the lawyers office because everything that happened with her was obviously true.

Cheryl Cole didn't have any children with Ashley Cole though did she? She was more of a free agent and it was easier to make a clean break. I am sympathetic to the Beckhams. I don't think they have deserved this. Even if Brooklyn isn't happy about some things that have happened it would surely have been better to discuss it in private with them and more likely to lead to a resolution in their family relationship? I think he feels he has moved on, perhaps to better things. I hope for his sake his marriage lasts or there has been a prenup that will set him up nicely if they divorce.

With respect you have no idea either. Why are you so intent on defending VB despite all the negative things there are about her? The saddest thing Brooklyn wrote was growing up feeling so desperately anxious. Are you going to gaslight him about that too?

The dog thing is weird to mention because I don’t know why you’d assume VB was the villain there. I guess it just plays on people loving animals and therefore VB must be a total bitch to say no.

Take it down to “normal” people in terms of money and imagine a MN thread “I don’t really get along with my MIL but I asked her to help with a charity thing I’m doing and she said no. AIBU to be upset?”
No one could possibly answer that without so many more details.

I don't know if I can say on here but there was a scandal (affair) the school. All parents at the school knew and directly witnessed how it was swiftly dealt with - ie hushed up.

you'd think with all the money they have between these two families they could have got "mediation" and tried to mend bridges and even if family harmony wasn't an option to have some type of truce

I think the public love it, me included as we all have our own family dramas, and money doesn't stop that - so it brings everyone onto one level

Is this meant to be ironic?

Does anyone know what he meant about them trying to get him to sign something before his wedding? Did they want him to use Pelz (I think that’s her surname haven’t taken much notice until now).

Yes, poor ‘Vicky B’ who is so terrified of publicity that she invited a film crew to film her up close for a Netflix documentary about …..herself.

If you prostitute your life & your children’s lives (your ‘family brand’ 🤢) for publicity and profit, don’t complain when that same publicity comes back to bite you.

100 per cent & if this isn’t accurate we can say this likely applies to the whole statement. NP prob had 3 dresses plus! Was VB commissioned for a second evening one & BB is twisting narrative to attack Mum? Low blow with dogs & almost sex assault dance too.

Cruz played for the American team his Dad part owned
He was then " loaned" to Brentfod B team and didnt seem to mske much of an impact
He's hardly following in his Dad's footsteps talent wise.

Nobody knows the truth of what's happened apart from them and much of the same things will be viewed with their own interpretation.

Written down calling him 'evil' sounds awful However if she said oh Brooklyn that's evil that you've not put us on the top table in a jokey manner that's completely different than suggesting he is the spawn of the devil.

My sister has form for saying all I said was which is factually accurate but it's a tone a manner in which she said it that change how it was interpreted.

Practically though I find it very hard to believe even before the stylist's comment today even with all the Peltz's money that you'd be able to get a Valentino wedding dress within a couple weeks of a wedding.

I also don't think they paraded their kids in front of the media - certainly not in the same way as some celebrities do. I've seen them at football matches and her fashion shows - Christmas and holiday pictures .But really I would expect them to attend those.

who knows the truth. I suspect a bit of both - with him caught in the middle of his wife blaming his parents and his parents blaming his wife.

I’m sure if you use the phrase allegedly you’ll be ok. Well that’s how they get around it on American legal dramas anyway

How does anyone know it def happened? Surely a professional at a high status school would think once & then twice…

How do you know their private lives and that it wasn't like that? We don't know what goes on behind closed doors, including you unless you're one the beckhams posting, but what we know as fact is those children have been forced into the spotlight from pre-birth and this will have had a negative effect on them. Just because they're nice and polite and likeable (if they are, none of us actually know unless we know them personally) it means fuck all. Do you always assume people who are nice, polite and well liked can't have possibly been abused or neglected or exploited by their parents? Because that would be very strange but you sound like one of the many posters I've seen about BB who seem to think children should suck up however they were treated by their parents if they we're 'taken to stately homes'

No, what was rumoured was that Marc Anthony called VB the most beautiful woman in the room.

I assume it’s something to do with the fact their names are trademarked.
Maybe when they become adults they get control of that trademark? And they wanted him to not have control? (the names are definitely trademarked but I’m guessing about the legalities of it now)

I agree OP, Im always amazed at the vitriol for her, a lot of which seems to stem from the fact that her husband was unfaithful and she stayed in the marriage, talk about kick someone when they're down. How dare she make a choice!

She has always been quite shy, shes not exactly a queen b character