Same sex relationship, just for clarity.
Been seeing someone long distance (ish) for 6 months.
We see each other on average once or twice a week. Shes 47, divorced, i am 44.
Now dont get me wrong, I used to enjoy a drink, in fact I still do but I've just realised by taking some empty bottles to my recycling bucket just how much is being consumed.
Bear in mind I didn't really drink at home prior to meeting her.
There were 4 litre bottles of empty rum amd 2 empty bottles of brandy.
She also drinks at home, so I would imagine that when she is back home she is probably going through a big rum per week. I know for a fact she has done 2, maybe 3 whole bottles of brandy since seeing each other.
She works hard, and she enjoys one or 2 glasses after work but she's also clearly binging? I am a little bit worried, she's fit and enjoys walks etx but do you think I should approach her about it? She is wonderful and we haven't argued or anything like that. I dont feel like she's drunk all the time, basically its not obvious she's drinking a lot. Some nights she won't drink at all.
Im just wondering if there may be a problem or will I come across as a Debbie downer so to speak?
Shes had liver function tests lately for something but came back clear.