I bought an incubator last week that couldn't be delivered direct to me here in Jersey, so arranged for it to go to a friends house in essex, then to be picked up (by dhl) to come here.
It didn't turn up on the day we were assured it would be, and when the seller of the incubator checked, Fedex told him it had been delivered to the address on the paperwork. My friend checked his entire house, garden, asked neighbours and nothing. After some emails to and from the seller, it transpired fedex HADN'T delivered the parcel, but hadn't found the address and marked it wrongly.
Few more emails later and delivery is rebooked for a few days later, meaning I had to rebook DHL for pickup.
The incubator doesn't arrive again, this time fedex are claiming they can't find the address, and no-one at the address is giving directions and if no-one co-operates, the parcel will be returned to sender. My friend and his mother have both spoken to fedex at this point and can't believe what fedex have done.
Fedex are apparently re-delivering today, but I have my doubts. DHL on the other hand, so far, I can't fault - they have been helpful every step of the way and were happy to rearrange pickup around fedex and their cock ups