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I just got pulled over for doing 32 in a 30

680 replies

dialdrunkforyou · 17/01/2026 13:02

I’m shaking as I write this. I just drove out to walk the dogs and on my way back a police car pulled me over. I was doing 32 in a 30 and he said I was “lucky” that he’s not choosing to prosecute me over this.

AIBU or is this total overkill? It’s a dry sunny day, the roads are relatively quiet and I wasn’t driving erratically.

OP posts:
Mirrorx · 17/01/2026 19:48

I've got 3 points for 23 in a 20 limit, so yes, you were lucky.

NotTerfNorCis · 17/01/2026 19:50

Definitely an overreach. They must have been desperate to catch somebody.

MumOfTheMoos · 17/01/2026 19:55

If you had been charged you’d have likely had the option of going on a speed awareness course which would show you the difference that 2 miles per hour would make to the injuries someone might have sustained had you hit them.

i used to be a magistrate and it was totally normal for people to be fined for being 1 or 2 miles over the speed limit.

It’s the line, it has to be drawn somewhere and you stepped over it.

NemesisInferior · 17/01/2026 20:03

NotTerfNorCis · 17/01/2026 19:50

Definitely an overreach. They must have been desperate to catch somebody.

So desperate they just gave her a warning, wouldn't have taken any of her details and sent her on her way.

The bastards.

scalt · 17/01/2026 20:11

I remember when I was learning to drive, my instructor yelling (good naturedly) at me all the time to “go faster” and “press the bloody gas” and “do the speed limit”. saying it was dangerous to go too slow, because people might overtake recklessly. The irony is that those very same main roads are now all 20mph, which is painfully slow, because probably done because some politician thought it might make them look green. (South London) Wasn’t this one of Boris Johnson’s bright ideas when he was London mayor? It might have been a forerunner to Partygate if he was caught doing 23mph on one of these roads.

More recently, I used a bus lane (at a time when it was allowed; indeed, you could fail a driving test for not doing so) on an extremely wide 20mph road, and I was overtaken by… wait for it… a bus. The irony!

hattie43 · 17/01/2026 20:12

The police have better things to be doing than this . There should be a discretionary leeway

BIossomtoes · 17/01/2026 20:14

You were lucky @dialdrunkforyou. I got a fine and three points for exactly the same offence.

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 17/01/2026 20:14

hattie43 · 17/01/2026 20:12

The police have better things to be doing than this . There should be a discretionary leeway

There clearly is discretionary leeway as the OP wasn't prosecuted.

daisychain01 · 17/01/2026 20:18

Example Thresholds (10%+2mph) which is discretionary in uk

30mph limit: 35mph
40mph limit: 46mph
70mph limit: 79mph

Your story does not tally, op whichever way you look at it.

Somersetbaker · 17/01/2026 20:19

dialdrunkforyou · 17/01/2026 13:13

I just think it’s a bit silly. About two miles away there’s a town full of drug addicts and drunks who make part of the town a no go area. But they’d rather pull over innocent people!

Tell that to somebody who has a child injured or killed buy a speeding driver.

daisychain01 · 17/01/2026 20:21

100jamjars · 17/01/2026 15:35

I once got points for doing 34 in a 30 zone. Had to go on a speeding course with folks who'd been doing 50 in a 30 etc.

My family were in hysterics when I told them. The idea of me speeding seemed to amuse them greatly.

Great that your family find it a laughing matter that you were done for speeding. Clearly none of them have lost a loved one by being knocked down and killed. That would wipe the smile off their face if they had.

scalt · 17/01/2026 20:22

I think you’ve learned that if you confess to speeding on mumsnet, you will have your arse handed to you on a plate.

YANBU about the police ticking boxes on this, when they could be catching burglars, wife-beaters, and crooked post office chiefs.

MargoChanningsglass · 17/01/2026 20:24

daisychain01 · 17/01/2026 20:21

Great that your family find it a laughing matter that you were done for speeding. Clearly none of them have lost a loved one by being knocked down and killed. That would wipe the smile off their face if they had.

Edited

Oops replied to wrong post.

It was the family in hysterics I found amusing.

Sorry!

Wanttohelpbuthow · 17/01/2026 20:26

Oh my lord am I reading these responses correctly?! 😂 2 miles over the speed limit is not speeding or dangerous. No one keeps perfectly at 30 at all times. My god. You’re fine OP

MargoChanningsglass · 17/01/2026 20:28

scalt · 17/01/2026 20:22

I think you’ve learned that if you confess to speeding on mumsnet, you will have your arse handed to you on a plate.

YANBU about the police ticking boxes on this, when they could be catching burglars, wife-beaters, and crooked post office chiefs.

Traffic police do this now?

BIossomtoes · 17/01/2026 20:34

MargoChanningsglass · 17/01/2026 20:28

Traffic police do this now?

I got my points more than 30 years ago.

grumpygrape · 17/01/2026 20:35

scalt · 17/01/2026 20:22

I think you’ve learned that if you confess to speeding on mumsnet, you will have your arse handed to you on a plate.

YANBU about the police ticking boxes on this, when they could be catching burglars, wife-beaters, and crooked post office chiefs.

Traffic cops don’t usually go after burglars or domestic abuse perpetrators, and are rarely Police chiefs.

grumpygrape · 17/01/2026 20:40

dialdrunkforyou · 17/01/2026 18:03

This comment has cracked me up to be fair, Stirling moss for 2mph over 🤣

Mumsnet loves ‘boundaries’.

A speed limit is a boundary. You step over a boundary and there are consequences. If the consequence is a traffic cop giving you a telling off instead of taking your wi-fi access and games console away for a day giving you a fine and three points then that is proportionate.

SerendipityJane · 17/01/2026 20:41

CraftyMintHedgehog · 17/01/2026 18:14

OK, let's discuss car safety...

A typical human reaction time in a car is 0.25 seconds. 2 mph = 0.89 m/s so additional stopping distance = 0.89 x 0.25 = 0.22 m (22 cm).

A child stepping 5 metres in front of a car travelling at 30 mph in a 1000 kg car will be subjected to an impact force of around 18 kN.

Increase the distance by 22cm and speed to 32 mph, then the impact force is 21.4 kN. So yes, fair point, the additional 2 mph would increase the impact force for a 1000 kg car by 3.4 kN.

BUT... the impact force is proportional to both speed AND the mass of the vehicle.

If the car was much bigger, so 2000 kg (BMW, SUVs etc...), then the impact force would be 36 kN at 30 mph!

So perhaps speed limits for any vehicle over 1000 kg should be reduced? Or penalties for anyone in a bigger car travelling over the speed limit be much more severe?

If the OP had been travelling 40 mph then yes absolutely stop them.

So it doesn't matter what the law is if you have science on your side ?

Over the speed limit is over the speed limit. If you think the limit is wrong you are free to argue it before the judge. As a person on my SAC came close to being made to do when they started explaining why speed limits are "a joke" to the instructors.

Ginagogo · 17/01/2026 20:45

People acting like they’ve never done 2mph over the speed limit by accident 🤣

Walkingroundincircle22 · 17/01/2026 20:46

My guess is you are a woman, the police officer a man? There's your answer for the admonishment assuming they saw a woman driving.

However if they didn't see who was driving, then bad luck I guess but to be fair, if their job was to catch and warn people going over the limit, it is what it is. Easily done and probably feels frustrating but the extra mph or two could affect a child hit.

PerksOfNotBeingAWallflower · 17/01/2026 20:47

C8H10N4O2 · 17/01/2026 16:09

Really? You want people to post those details on a public forum?

My local area had a crack down on speeding at several accident black spots where the actual limit was 30mph or 20mph. It was publicised well in advance, it was made clear that all offenders would be prosecuted without exceptions.

Cue lots of naice local residents complaining that it was outrageous and they were only “a bit” over the limit and the police should spending time catching “real” criminals ie blue collar criminals who commit blue collar crimes. The local FB groups and the residents associations were full of it.

They stuck to the prosecutions and a year or two down the line accidents are notably down. Unsurprising as speed was a factor in the injuries caused in the accidents when a couple of ton of metal hits a human.

Its annoying to be dinged at a couple of miles over the limit but in urban and residential areas that extra speed adds to the injury impact and speeding or failing to pay attention to your speed is entirely a choice made by the driver. Suck it up, use the speed limiter in low speed areas if you are not going pay attention to it yourself.

They can redact personal information, lots of people share speeding documents online after removing identifiable parts.
If you look at the post by @Nolongera at 16:18 too. So many people claim that they’ve been offered courses or fixed penalties for 32 in a 30 but no one ever proves it.
The OP’s situation was just words of advice but I think they should request the body worn footage to be reviewed as pulling someone over for 32 in a 30 is not something that I have ever known an officer do and I’ve worked with police and dealt with traffic prosecutions for many years.

PrincessArora · 17/01/2026 20:48

Just do the speed limit or slightly under then you won’t have the chance to be this indignant about someone pointing out you’re breaking the law?

PrincessArora · 17/01/2026 20:48

Walkingroundincircle22 · 17/01/2026 20:46

My guess is you are a woman, the police officer a man? There's your answer for the admonishment assuming they saw a woman driving.

However if they didn't see who was driving, then bad luck I guess but to be fair, if their job was to catch and warn people going over the limit, it is what it is. Easily done and probably feels frustrating but the extra mph or two could affect a child hit.

How on earth are you making this sexist ffs.

PerksOfNotBeingAWallflower · 17/01/2026 20:49

MartySupremeisascream · 17/01/2026 16:27

I think the main reason police engage in this type of nonsense is to reach their targets. It's lazy policing.

Edited

What target is this officer achieving by giving words of advice to someone driving 2mph over the limit?

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