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My doctor was late to my appointment because he had been at the local country hotel full of asylum seekers...

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doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 10:59

When was the last time you had a home visit? Is this a way of managing the " problem" by them taking clinics there? Is it a way of hiding this issue? I understood they did not have access to the NHS yet I see massive bags of medicine labelled for this hotel too at the dispensary. We wait about 6-7 weeks for a routine appointment.

My doctor was late to my appointment because he had been at the local country hotel full of asylum seekers...
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Gloriia · 17/01/2026 15:39

Femalemachinest · 17/01/2026 15:32

My dad had a home visit when he had the flu. If necessary you can get home visits.

I dont understand any of your points. If someone needs medical attention then they need medical attention. What do you expect to happen? Just let them die?

Yes, we get illegal immigration, we have done so for many many years. Its just something for people to focus on instead of looking inwards. We also have a high number of legal immigrants that have put a lot of pressure on the country. We have a lot of young, healthy unemployed people that put pressure on the country. Illegal immigration is only 1 issue, removing it isnt going to solve all Britain's problems

Yes hun but when your Dr did a home visit I hightly doubt he had a waiting room full of people waiting.

They have clinic or they do home visits and not all in the same session.

As others have said this wouldn't have been a home visit as someone was ill, it was probably a government box ticking vaccination or health assessment session in which case it should have been done at a different time to his routine practice appointments.

suburburban · 17/01/2026 15:40

silverwrath · 17/01/2026 15:08

The UK infrastructure is crumbling. That's the fault of successive Governments. Not asylum seekers.

Lack of affordable housing, pressures on the NHS, Education, a disastrous immigration system. People waiting years to be processed and not being allowed to work. And an influx of even more people when we can't support the one's already here.

Recession. Cameron/Osborne's disastrous (we're all in this together) austerity measures. Brexit. Covid. Trump.

All these issues stem from utterly ineffectual politicians, corrupt financial institutions and the power of mega corporations.

We're pretty much fucked. And scapegoating a particular group of people is par for the course in times like these. If it's not the poor, it's the disabled. In Thatcher's '80's it was single parent mothers. I remember it well.

Right wing politicians have a penchant for the old scapegoating. It's their bread and butter. It never fails to astonish me how successful it is. You'd think we'd learn from history that we're being blatantly manipulated. But. Apparently not.

So today it's migrants. Tomorrow it'll be the elderly. Or the obese.

But never the fault of the powers that be. sighs

Yes I get that but why keep making it worse by adding even more people to the UK in competition for scarce housing and resources

Serpentstooth · 17/01/2026 15:41

Are you a mother pp? Maybe you and your husband have a couple of small children? With a husband and a reasonably comfortable nothing special going on life? Whoops! Here comes another nation to save you from your government with a massive bombing campaign, just for starters. Bang! Your house. Bangbang! Local
Economy. All gone. Fortunately, although your money is worthless overnight, your jewellery can be sold to a people trafficker who can get one of you to Europe. You and kids can stay in a tent, half safe, until husband gets to a safe country and sends for you. Or, you can pay 3 times more and risk all your lives by insisting you all take your chances of dying in the cold waters of the English Channel. Most mothers choose the safer option of trying to join one family member once safe, preferring the chance of a future for all of them. That's why you rarely see women and children as asylum seekers.

DuncinToffee · 17/01/2026 15:42

OtterlyAstounding · 17/01/2026 15:37

People may not agree with the regime, but that doesn't mean they're not misogynistic, with far more conservative views about women's role and place in society than Britain. Being raised steeped in such misogyny, it would be astonishing if they weren't more misogynistic than the average British male (who is already misogynistic enough, on a population level).

It's not racism, it's xenophobia, as I'm fairly certain that person would want to deny white asylum seekers from Eastern Europe (for example) too, although I may be wrong.

And yes, I think everyone should have access to a GP and basic healthcare. Although I do sympathise with the feelings of those who have to suffer with longer wait times than ever, while seeing asylum seekers get appointments - it must be frustrating. But still, everyone deserves healthcare.

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NHS waiting times are down, falling to lowest level in almost three years

So asylum seekers getting appointments is a dog whistle.

LittleMi55Nobody · 17/01/2026 15:46

DuncinToffee · 17/01/2026 15:13

The crisis in dentistry has nothing to do with asylum seekers

Would you send male refugees back to Iran?

yep

DuncinToffee · 17/01/2026 15:50

LittleMi55Nobody · 17/01/2026 15:46

yep

Yep to what?

OtterlyAstounding · 17/01/2026 15:50

DuncinToffee · 17/01/2026 15:42

NHS waiting times are down, falling to lowest level in almost three years

So asylum seekers getting appointments is a dog whistle.

Wait times vary from area to area. People's wait times may be longer for a multitude of different reasons, one of which could be asylum seekers.

But when the optics are that an individual is experiencing longer wait times (or a late GP) because the GP is busy seeing asylum seekers, it must feel frustrating for them. Personally, I don't think it's helpful to anyone to invalidate their feelings of frustration.

Femalemachinest · 17/01/2026 15:52

Gloriia · 17/01/2026 15:39

Yes hun but when your Dr did a home visit I hightly doubt he had a waiting room full of people waiting.

They have clinic or they do home visits and not all in the same session.

As others have said this wouldn't have been a home visit as someone was ill, it was probably a government box ticking vaccination or health assessment session in which case it should have been done at a different time to his routine practice appointments.

I have no idea I wasn't at the doctors. I just know I rang, told them my dad wanted me to ring an ambulance. She told me to tell him he didnt need one and she would come. I dont remember having an appointment time. She turned up, let herself in the back door and attended to my dad.

Doctors always run late anyway. I cant think of a time I've seen a doctor and theyve been on time.

DuncinToffee · 17/01/2026 15:55

OtterlyAstounding · 17/01/2026 15:50

Wait times vary from area to area. People's wait times may be longer for a multitude of different reasons, one of which could be asylum seekers.

But when the optics are that an individual is experiencing longer wait times (or a late GP) because the GP is busy seeing asylum seekers, it must feel frustrating for them. Personally, I don't think it's helpful to anyone to invalidate their feelings of frustration.

Even if those feelings of frustration are born out of racism or misunderstanding?

Do you think the OP would have started a thread if her appointment was delayed because the GP visited a care home?

LittleMi55Nobody · 17/01/2026 15:55

Ginmonkeyagain · 17/01/2026 15:28

@LittleMi55Nobody well give you "hubby" a medal. I pay more NI than that and I am happy for it to fund healthcare, including for peole who don't pay NI - the elderly, those on a low income, the vulnerable, you apparently.

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well good for you ,,you obs earn more so thats why you pay more duh .....just cos youre "happy" to fund healthcare for every tom dick or harry who comes here illegally theres a lot who can't afford to keep chucking our hard earned money to these people...im happy for you to dig deeper but dont expect all of us to follow

Waitingfordoggo · 17/01/2026 15:57

doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 12:55

Why not? It is real.

Just seems a strange thing to do and ‘why not’ isn’t really an answer. I was just curious as to the rationale but it seems there wasn’t one.

LittleMi55Nobody · 17/01/2026 15:58

DuncinToffee · 17/01/2026 15:50

Yep to what?

to what ever..i dont care x

NeverDropYourMooncup · 17/01/2026 16:00

TheatreTheatre · 17/01/2026 13:46

I called my GP surgery yesterday for an irritating and uncomfortable condition, but not acute, potentially life threatening or serious, and got an appointment for next Wednesday. The lack of urgency was checked by the Receptionist - if there was any suggestion of urgency or seriousness my request would have gone through an online triage with the GP to see if I needed fast tracking.

This is at a GP surgery in the heart of SADIQ KHAN'S sharia-governed, no-go, dangerous hotbed of immigrants, gang members, and asylum seekers S London. And on the edge of a council estate and up the road from a hostel where terrified female Afghani asylum seekers live.

If you are having to wait 6-7 weeks for a GP appointment look up the complaints process for your NHS area, and write to your MP.

😂

You've never been to South London, have you?

I just get a same day appointment or telephone appointment.

Dollymylove · 17/01/2026 16:04

AnimalPrints · 17/01/2026 13:33

Asylum seekers attract additional extra funding for GP's.
Many GP's are self employed business owners who run their own surgeries as independent contractors to the NHS. They cover their own expenses such as staff costs and buildings.
All business owners seek to maximise profit - that's the very nature of business.

And herein lies the problem. There are twice as many GPs in my doctors practice as there were 30 years ago when I joined. Back then you get a next day visit. So why cant you anymore?
Well mostly because most of them only work part time, no evening clinics, no Saturday morning clinics, and people wonder why A&E is always packed

LittleMi55Nobody · 17/01/2026 16:09

Ginmonkeyagain · 17/01/2026 15:28

@LittleMi55Nobody well give you "hubby" a medal. I pay more NI than that and I am happy for it to fund healthcare, including for peole who don't pay NI - the elderly, those on a low income, the vulnerable, you apparently.

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i dont receive any benefits, THANK YOU i work and i pay a lot towards NI I pay for private healthcare, dentist and prescriptions so you dont pay for me so wind your neck in..i was just giving an example re my husbands contributions my husband is retired but still works full time so maybe his contributions arent as big as yours..bloody snob looking down your nose at people

HashtagShitShop · 17/01/2026 16:10

EmeraldShamrock000 · 17/01/2026 13:31

This is not new. It is easier and most cost effective to travel to accommodation with many people who may need an appointment. I’m sure if you gathered the sick patients from your area in your home the doctor would visit there too.

Can you imagine the ops reaction if they block booked surgery appointments for groups too, she'd had kittens that they were hanging round in groups at her doctors and that nowhere was safe.

HashtagShitShop · 17/01/2026 16:14

Notice too that the op has now disappeared since dropping the cat amongst the pigeons too...!

ElectoralControversy · 17/01/2026 16:17

Did OP actually say how late the Dr was?

Is this whole ragebait thread actually because there were roadworks and the journey back took 5 mins longer than it ought to?

ilovesooty · 17/01/2026 16:18

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 17/01/2026 12:46

So what would be your alternative then? Let them suffer/die?

Let's face it : there are people who'd like to see their boats shot down so they drown in the Channel before getting here at all.

saraclara · 17/01/2026 16:21

I think MNHQ should have stuck by their instincts that made them hide this thread initially, rather than accept whatever bullshit OP fed them when they got in touch with her.

Ablushingcrow · 17/01/2026 16:23

doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 11:21

It's sad that this cannot be discussed. It's not goady. It's a matter of fact for some people. What is Labour's solution? To build new homes for these men. How do people on council waiting lists feel about this. We ARE allowed to raise these issues.

I agree with you OP, but you'd get more joy playing leftie bingo...

Racist ✓
Goady✓
Daily mail reader✓
Just to name a few.

LakieLady · 17/01/2026 16:23

Before anyone jumps in this is a genuine question, not for goadiness, I'm trying to understand why the AS are only men.

They're not, @PatchouliPrincess . I've worked with quite a few refugee clients over the years, and a fair few of them were women and, in one case, an entire family.

They all arrived here as asylum seekers.

BlanketyBlankBlank · 17/01/2026 16:23

OtterlyAstounding · 17/01/2026 15:30

Yes. I would, 100%. In the case of asylum seekers at least, an unknown Britain would be massively preferable to whatever we're fleeing from. And then to be left in that situation without the protection or financial support of my husband...not great, I'd imagine.

Really a long and arduous journey, involving god knows what!

BlanketyBlankBlank · 17/01/2026 16:24

BlanketyBlankBlank · 17/01/2026 16:23

Really a long and arduous journey, involving god knows what!

Or stay home with the rest of your family, until you know it is safe.

NoSoupForU · 17/01/2026 16:26

Kindly, you're a bit of an idiot.

One of my close friends is a GP and visits asylum seekers accommodation twice a week. Once in her official capacity, for which she is contracted to be there for a half day and will see as many people as time allows. The other day she works on a voluntary basis. The care given is no different whether she is contracted or volunteering. It is basic.

You can't expect people who have an allowance of £9 per week, who are usually placed in accommodation with no infrastructure within walking distance, to make their own medical arrangements. How can they register with a GP when they don't yet have any status to be here?

Incidentally, I made a non-emergency appointment with my surgery this morning for Friday.

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