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cause he is Jewish

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Carycach4 · 13/01/2026 10:34

Apologies cant see a thread about this.
Staff at Bristol Brunel academy blocked a visit by Damien Egan, their local MP because he is Jewish. Clear case of antisemitism. AIBU to thinking that headteacher and those driving this decision should be sacked and reported to the Teacher Regulation Agency?
(Apologies thread title isnt correct, but i can't edit it)

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hihelenhi · 13/01/2026 14:28

Unbelievably blatant anti-semitism on this thread. What the hell is wrong with some of you? Shame on you.

  • A person happening to be Jewish does not mean they "support genocide"
  • A person supporting the safe existence of a Jewish state also does not mean they "support genocide"
  • A person thinking that Israel and its citizens should be allowed to exist safely as a sovereign nation does not mean they "support genocide"
  • All Israelis are not Netanyahu supporters and should not be held responsible for his specific actions or be assumed to share all his views.
  • Inidividual Jews are not responsible for the actions of the Israeli government, any more than a Muslim person anywhere in the world is personally responsible for the actions of specific Muslim governments around the world.
  • Individual Israelis are not responsible for the actions of the Israeli government, any more than you are responsible personally for the actions of the UK government at any point in history or now.
  • The Friends of Israel are not necessarily supportive of all the current actions of the present Israeli government, and they are not responsible for any of those government policies, since they don't make them.
  • All Jewish people are not Israelis
  • All Israelis are not "supporters of genocide". That is an unevidenced and frankly racist smear.
  • The question of whether the actions and war in Gaza could accurately described as "genocide' in any case is hugely controversial. You know this. The Holocaust WAS unquestionably genocide. It specifically targeted Jewish people for being Jews in an attempt to eradicate them as an ethnicity. This was industrialised by a government. You might argue that Hamas supporters are genocidal in intent, given they use the same language about eradicating and killing Jews specifically, as a race, as Hitler did. The killings of Muslims during the Balkan wars were also unquestionably genocidal in intent. But are retaliatory bombing campaigns, however brutal, of Gaza, different in some material way to other horrific bombing campaigns in other wars that lead to huge loss of life? Are they actually designed to rid the world of Palestinians per se ? Was the intent of the bombing of Hiroshima to rid the world of Japanese people, say, or did it have another purpose? What about the British bombing of Dresden, which caused immense loss of life and suffering? Was the intent specifically to eradicate Germans and the Aryan race or something else?
  • "Zionist" just means supporter of the existence of the state of Israel. If you are using it as a way to demonise all Israelis and all Jews to make false claims about their views, then yes, you are a racist and anti semite.
  • Threatening to protest a UK Labour MP at a school on the basis he is Jewish is appalling anti semitism. those doing so are blaming all Jewish people for the current actions of a government which they are not responsible for. What do you think the "protest" will achieve? What is it designed to do? Does the "right to protest" include inciting racial hatred?
  • Threatening to protest a UK Labour MP at a school on the basis he is a Friend of Israel is also anti semitism. Because, as above, "Israel" and "Israelis" are not synonymous with the actions of a current government.
  • There is no evidence whatsoever that he "supports genocide" as you claim.
  • He is also not going to the school to talk about Israel or his poltical views. Protesting his presence on the basis of what a bunch of easily led staff members believe, without evidence, about his views on the basis he is Jewish is antisemitic and inappropriately political of them. It is performative racism. No better than if Tommy Robinson and the like decided to protest Sadiq Khan speaking at a school about life as London mayor solely on the basis he is Muslim. Which is what this reminds me of, frankly.
SummerOctopus · 13/01/2026 14:29

I vote YABU OP and disingenuous too.

Kingscallops · 13/01/2026 14:29

Flickaflock · 13/01/2026 14:26

I was calling you (and other posters on this thread) a Hasbarist, not him.

Edited

OK, more semantics as par on the antisemitic threads.

Flickaflock · 13/01/2026 14:29

EasternStandard · 13/01/2026 14:28

Why the accusation to the pp?

Eh? Because they were doing Hasbara, obviously.

BunfightBetty · 13/01/2026 14:29

LittleMG · 13/01/2026 14:27

It’s not because he’s Jewish it’s because he supports a country that has and continues to kill thousands of innocent people including children. Very disingenuous to claim it’s because he’s Jewish.

Very disingenuous to suggest a serving MP in this country should be prevented from attending a local school to talk about this work as an MP, purely because some overly-controlling activists disapprove of his views and have decided they get to decide what he can and can't do.

Gahr · 13/01/2026 14:29

Gjill · 13/01/2026 13:41

Saying there is racial discrimination (as there is in every country in the world) is not the same as calling Israeli a ‘racist state’, which implies that its existence is inherently racist.

The fact that people care an awful lot more about racial discrimination in Israel than anywhere else is very telling though.

Isn't it just!

Flickaflock · 13/01/2026 14:30

Kingscallops · 13/01/2026 14:29

OK, more semantics as par on the antisemitic threads.

More victim-playing, as par on the Israel threads.

EasternStandard · 13/01/2026 14:30

Flickaflock · 13/01/2026 14:29

Eh? Because they were doing Hasbara, obviously.

Doing what? Having an opinion different to yours on a forum

dairydebris · 13/01/2026 14:31

Kingscallops · 13/01/2026 14:24

Israelis were dispossessed of their lives in the most brural manner on 7th October. Anyway, as much as this inevitably transcended into the war in Gaza, none of it is relevant to the MP in question.

So depressingly predictable.

Jews being held to account for what other Jews thousands of miles away do.

Many not batting a eyelid at the problem.

Kingscallops · 13/01/2026 14:31

Flickaflock · 13/01/2026 14:30

More victim-playing, as par on the Israel threads.

The Jewish man is the victim here, nobody else.

dailyselling · 13/01/2026 14:31

I want to know what milk has got to do with all this

dairydebris · 13/01/2026 14:32

hihelenhi · 13/01/2026 14:28

Unbelievably blatant anti-semitism on this thread. What the hell is wrong with some of you? Shame on you.

  • A person happening to be Jewish does not mean they "support genocide"
  • A person supporting the safe existence of a Jewish state also does not mean they "support genocide"
  • A person thinking that Israel and its citizens should be allowed to exist safely as a sovereign nation does not mean they "support genocide"
  • All Israelis are not Netanyahu supporters and should not be held responsible for his specific actions or be assumed to share all his views.
  • Inidividual Jews are not responsible for the actions of the Israeli government, any more than a Muslim person anywhere in the world is personally responsible for the actions of specific Muslim governments around the world.
  • Individual Israelis are not responsible for the actions of the Israeli government, any more than you are responsible personally for the actions of the UK government at any point in history or now.
  • The Friends of Israel are not necessarily supportive of all the current actions of the present Israeli government, and they are not responsible for any of those government policies, since they don't make them.
  • All Jewish people are not Israelis
  • All Israelis are not "supporters of genocide". That is an unevidenced and frankly racist smear.
  • The question of whether the actions and war in Gaza could accurately described as "genocide' in any case is hugely controversial. You know this. The Holocaust WAS unquestionably genocide. It specifically targeted Jewish people for being Jews in an attempt to eradicate them as an ethnicity. This was industrialised by a government. You might argue that Hamas supporters are genocidal in intent, given they use the same language about eradicating and killing Jews specifically, as a race, as Hitler did. The killings of Muslims during the Balkan wars were also unquestionably genocidal in intent. But are retaliatory bombing campaigns, however brutal, of Gaza, different in some material way to other horrific bombing campaigns in other wars that lead to huge loss of life? Are they actually designed to rid the world of Palestinians per se ? Was the intent of the bombing of Hiroshima to rid the world of Japanese people, say, or did it have another purpose? What about the British bombing of Dresden, which caused immense loss of life and suffering? Was the intent specifically to eradicate Germans and the Aryan race or something else?
  • "Zionist" just means supporter of the existence of the state of Israel. If you are using it as a way to demonise all Israelis and all Jews to make false claims about their views, then yes, you are a racist and anti semite.
  • Threatening to protest a UK Labour MP at a school on the basis he is Jewish is appalling anti semitism. those doing so are blaming all Jewish people for the current actions of a government which they are not responsible for. What do you think the "protest" will achieve? What is it designed to do? Does the "right to protest" include inciting racial hatred?
  • Threatening to protest a UK Labour MP at a school on the basis he is a Friend of Israel is also anti semitism. Because, as above, "Israel" and "Israelis" are not synonymous with the actions of a current government.
  • There is no evidence whatsoever that he "supports genocide" as you claim.
  • He is also not going to the school to talk about Israel or his poltical views. Protesting his presence on the basis of what a bunch of easily led staff members believe, without evidence, about his views on the basis he is Jewish is antisemitic and inappropriately political of them. It is performative racism. No better than if Tommy Robinson and the like decided to protest Sadiq Khan speaking at a school about life as London mayor solely on the basis he is Muslim. Which is what this reminds me of, frankly.

This should be pinned at the top of any threads involving antisemitism.

BunfightBetty · 13/01/2026 14:32

The CITME threads on this site are usually a cesspit of anti-semitism, and it seems this thread is going the same way.

Kingscallops · 13/01/2026 14:32

dairydebris · 13/01/2026 14:31

So depressingly predictable.

Jews being held to account for what other Jews thousands of miles away do.

Many not batting a eyelid at the problem.

Yes predictability and always in the 80:20 poll. I suppose the 20 per cent are not hiding their bigotry.

EasternStandard · 13/01/2026 14:34

BunfightBetty · 13/01/2026 14:32

The CITME threads on this site are usually a cesspit of anti-semitism, and it seems this thread is going the same way.

At least 80% are yanbu tg even if the thread looks the opposite.

Kingscallops · 13/01/2026 14:34

BunfightBetty · 13/01/2026 14:32

The CITME threads on this site are usually a cesspit of anti-semitism, and it seems this thread is going the same way.

Except this isn't CITME. Every single time a thread discussing antisemitism starts, it's derailed.

Karmakamelion · 13/01/2026 14:36

zanahoria · 13/01/2026 13:05

I am disgusted with people dishing out false accusations of racism in order to defend a racist state.

And I am disgusted by people denying the atrocities committed by hamas

BunfightBetty · 13/01/2026 14:38

EasternStandard · 13/01/2026 14:34

At least 80% are yanbu tg even if the thread looks the opposite.

That's good to know, I mostly don't have the stomach to read them now, such is the disgusting level of anti-semitism so vehemently espoused on them.

hihelenhi · 13/01/2026 14:38

Flickaflock · 13/01/2026 14:30

More victim-playing, as par on the Israel threads.

So you don't think that Jewish people can be victims of blatant racism? Or that no complaint about the anti-semitism of you and others who like to blame all Jewish people for the actions of a current Israeli government can be justified because "all Jews just like play the victim" right? Do you think Hitler had a point too?

Fucking hell. Your lazy racism and the way you treat anything about Jews or Israel as a 'special case' is very telling. How are you any different from the likes of Tommy Robinson supporters who'd protest Sadiq Khan being Mayor on the sole basis he's Muslim? And do you think we should all as individuals be righteously held responsible and collectively punished for the actions of any current or previous British governments?

BunfightBetty · 13/01/2026 14:39

Kingscallops · 13/01/2026 14:34

Except this isn't CITME. Every single time a thread discussing antisemitism starts, it's derailed.

Yes, there are those who cannot and will not ever permit there to be an acknowledgment of the horrendous antisemitism Jews are suffering. That must not be allowed to stand.

SummerOctopus · 13/01/2026 14:39

I find the CITME threads are unpleasant to read because of how many posters spend their time trying to justify a genocide and murder of Palestinians.

Twiglets1 · 13/01/2026 14:40

BunfightBetty · 13/01/2026 14:32

The CITME threads on this site are usually a cesspit of anti-semitism, and it seems this thread is going the same way.

Maybe ... at least we have the benefit on this thread of a range of different voices. CITME tends to be the same voices over and over again because most sensible people stay away from the CITME board (I'm not sensible😜).

The good thing about discussions on AIBU is that despite how it appears from the posts, we can see that 80% of MNs reading this thread agree that this Jewish MP shouldn't have been blocked from giving a talk at the school on being an MP.

@Carycach4 if you want the title edited, you have to report your own post using the 3 dots on the top right hand corner and ask the mods to edit it for you which I'm sure they would).

Kingscallops · 13/01/2026 14:40

BunfightBetty · 13/01/2026 14:38

That's good to know, I mostly don't have the stomach to read them now, such is the disgusting level of anti-semitism so vehemently espoused on them.

Thanks for clarifying that Betty. We are in the minority in supporting Jewish victimisation x

HappyFace2025 · 13/01/2026 14:40

@hihelenhi excellent post 14.28 thank you

Tooobvious · 13/01/2026 14:41

MojoMoon · 13/01/2026 10:53

The head teacher is in a difficult spot here.

The school (presumably with the head's approval and involvement) has invited him.

There was then a campaign against the planned visit by some members of the National Education Union, the Palestine Solidarity Campaign and allegedly some parents including the threat of disrupting the event.

The head took the decision to cancel the event.

The head invited him knowing he was Jewish so it is not the head being anti semitic.
It is the head making the call that it was not safe for the pupils and guest to have the event go ahead.

Imagine if it has and the event has been disrupted and the MP or a child got hurt in any melee? Then people would be condemning the head for allowing it to go ahead

Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

If you want to blame anyone, blame the people who threatened to disrupt the event, not the poor head stuck having to make a call that one side or another was going to complain about.

The Head has capitulated to those making threats.