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Is this a (financially) middle class household these days or not?

291 replies

Yealp · 12/01/2026 21:18

I don’t think so, my best friend thinks it’s completely middle class.

Income after tax per month 5,200
Household one adult and one dc
Mortgage payment 1k a month, equity 350k (4 bed detached)

OP posts:
MasterBeth · 13/01/2026 20:08

CautiousLurker2 · 13/01/2026 18:32

This. You can be wealthy and working class and poor and middle class. Class is to do with education and profession, not material wealth. In times past there would have been correlation between the two, but not any longer. For instance a PT university lecture is ‘middle class’, but they could be so poorly paid that they are a tenant in shared digs or someone’s lodger. Still middle class, but pretty penniless. But a plumber, plasterer or other trade can turn in £100k a year if self employed in some areas of the UK, but still working class.

TBH, I’d like to see the concept of ‘class’ tossed on a funeral pyre and for us all to get back to valuing people for what they contribute to society and the economy - whether that be via vocational professions (nursing, teaching etc), volunteering, building businesses or by hard graft of a trade or craft. We used to be a society that admired hard work and dedication and didn’t begrudge anyone who earned a penny in doing so.

You could also be a part-time University lecturer and working class or a middle class plumber. I know both.

Diamondwindow · 13/01/2026 20:11

Wow we would LOVE a 1k mortgage , that’s so low!!

Mintteaplease · 13/01/2026 20:15

Yealp · 12/01/2026 21:18

I don’t think so, my best friend thinks it’s completely middle class.

Income after tax per month 5,200
Household one adult and one dc
Mortgage payment 1k a month, equity 350k (4 bed detached)

it is an extremely comfortable income.

Strangeencounter · 13/01/2026 20:18

InveterateWineDrinker · 12/01/2026 21:30

For fuck's sake. £5200 per month after tax is about £95k gross - top five percent in the UK.

Do you really have to ask?

Is it!

Jesus how are people surviving out there! And we live somewhere cheap.

CautiousLurker2 · 13/01/2026 20:21

MasterBeth · 13/01/2026 20:08

You could also be a part-time University lecturer and working class or a middle class plumber. I know both.

No, once you have a degree and/or a profession you move sociological categories and ‘become’ middle class. Ie you may have been born working class but you are no longer so.

But yes, a middle class person can choose to become a plumber - many of the investment bankers I worked with, once they had enough money to pay off their mortgages and invest in savings, became plumbers and carpenters. They remain middle class because they had degrees/a university and professional education. They are simply middle class people pursuing a trade.

pocketpairs · 13/01/2026 20:35

Zobra · 12/01/2026 21:39

Genuinely how do you know what class you are if it’s not income? From what I’ve seen on here I’m middle class for owning books but underclass for having a kid at 16? Definitely not working class because I hate football and chips with gravy.

Genuinly how are you working out what class you are? I don’t know if I’m middle or under class.

Definitely working class for having child at 16..

MasterBeth · 13/01/2026 20:39

pocketpairs · 13/01/2026 20:35

Definitely working class for having child at 16..

Unless you're middle-class and have a child at 16.

BillieWiper · 13/01/2026 20:41

I don't know how you grade social class?

Isn't it more to do with education level or career? Or just about how much money you have in the bank? Who your parents are and what property they own?

Does it matter?

I mean my parents both went to uni, dad had a high paid job, (long deceased) some of my family are multimillionaires, (no siblings) but I left school at 16 and I'm a benefits claimants who's previous career was office admin. Haven't a penny to my name.

I've never felt the need to consider which social class I belonged to. It's not like it helps; labelling yourself.

lifeonmars100 · 13/01/2026 20:41

Don't understand the bit about the mortgage, is the cost or the fact of having one? I live in a bad area and the average rent for a tiny terraced house round here is close to a grand, I don't understand how having a mortgage makes someone middle class, surely it is about earning enough to save for a deposit

MasterBeth · 13/01/2026 20:43

CautiousLurker2 · 13/01/2026 20:21

No, once you have a degree and/or a profession you move sociological categories and ‘become’ middle class. Ie you may have been born working class but you are no longer so.

But yes, a middle class person can choose to become a plumber - many of the investment bankers I worked with, once they had enough money to pay off their mortgages and invest in savings, became plumbers and carpenters. They remain middle class because they had degrees/a university and professional education. They are simply middle class people pursuing a trade.

I would dare you to tell my proud working class friend he was no longer working class just because he lectures at a university. He'd probably write you a thesis discussing it.

(Also, being a part-time University lecturer no longer equates to having a profession.)

AfraidToRun · 13/01/2026 20:43

I grew up on a council estate (rented) and believed the idea of owning a home or paying off a home would make me middle class. I still kinda believe it, that's not to say people aren't cash poor but if you have two cars, paying off a mortgage you're doing pretty well. You have assets. Growing up without a car, a rented house, electric off half the time and eating spam for the third day that week adjusted my world view.

The last 100 years was an exception, I think there will be more living to survive as we revert to the mean (unfortunately)

Myotherusernamesafunnyone · 13/01/2026 20:45

Absolutely.

Zobra · 13/01/2026 20:48

MasterBeth · 13/01/2026 20:39

Unless you're middle-class and have a child at 16.

My dc will never be able to confidently say whether they’re middle or working class online, such a shame. A 16 year old mum with a rubbish job but a professional dad with multiple degrees. No online essays about the typical working or middle class childhood for dc

hohahagogo · 13/01/2026 20:48

Yes comfortable!

Pipsqueakthedog · 13/01/2026 20:55

Octavia64 · 12/01/2026 21:19

Yes.

the clue is in the mortgage

Really? What's a "middle class mortgage" then?

Reason I ask is when we bought our first house (2.5bed 30s semi, starter home, £155k) our mortgage was £890. So £1k really doesn't seem high.

StMarie4me · 13/01/2026 20:58

Nevermind17 · 12/01/2026 21:24

My son pays £1k a month on his mortgage and he’s on his own, on £30k a year!

I pay £1k a month on my rent, as does my son. (Me, no deposit, him, does not want to buy as yet)

AD1509 · 13/01/2026 21:00

What “class” exactly do you think 3k a month surplus is? I can’t tell if this is a massive stealth brag or someone completed deluded who is desperately hoping we can brand them upper class?

Doggymummar · 13/01/2026 21:02

Yealp · 12/01/2026 21:24

@peacefulpeach yes I don’t get this, I thought it was a huge mortgage payment

It really isn't. Mines £3200

GetAbsOrDieTrying · 13/01/2026 21:06

Yealp · 12/01/2026 21:24

@peacefulpeach yes I don’t get this, I thought it was a huge mortgage payment

£1000 a month is not a huge mortgage! Even if you rent a 4 bed you won’t get it for that price. We pay £2100 in a 5 bed monthly. The income seems ok, but depending on age of DC and whether nursery is involved there might not be as much disposable income as you think!

ParmaVioletTea · 13/01/2026 21:22

Yealp · 12/01/2026 21:23

@Octavia64 i think that’s a huge mortgage payment for one adult personally!!

Good lord! You are a bit naive. I pay almost £2k. But I’m getting a huge chunk of an historic house for that.

Anon501178 · 13/01/2026 21:32

Class is not just about money.There's more to it than that.I am middle class, from a middle class background, but my income would suggest otherwise.

Bluedenimdoglover · 13/01/2026 21:33

It all depends on the area of the country in which you happen to live.

OnTheBoardwalk · 13/01/2026 21:35

Don’t want to derail the thread but the amount that people are paying for their mortgage each month is quite frightening. I was lucky

i bought late but still at a peak. My wage is def financially middle class although I really don’t believe that’s a thing. I'm working class with money

I don’t believe going from council estate to having a mortgage makes you middle class as PP has said

WanderingWellies · 13/01/2026 21:55

Yealp · 12/01/2026 21:23

@Octavia64 i think that’s a huge mortgage payment for one adult personally!!

Mine’s £900 and my income is half of yours.

Laurmolonlabe · 13/01/2026 22:02

My take was always that being middle class is not really about money -it's about aspiration, do their DC go to private schools, would they like them to- that kind of thing. You can be swimming in money and still have no aspirations.