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Is this a (financially) middle class household these days or not?

291 replies

Yealp · 12/01/2026 21:18

I don’t think so, my best friend thinks it’s completely middle class.

Income after tax per month 5,200
Household one adult and one dc
Mortgage payment 1k a month, equity 350k (4 bed detached)

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SunandWine · 12/01/2026 21:33

Are you very rich? Just what does someone need to earn for you to consider them worthy?

That take home income that would put someone in the top 10 % of earners and a mortgage of £1,000 per month on a 4 bed house would be impossible very low in most parts of the south east.

Nothing to do with class though.

TomatoSandwiches · 12/01/2026 21:34

Better get that mortgage paid off asap there won't be a middle class soon.

Yealp · 12/01/2026 21:34

TomatoSandwiches · 12/01/2026 21:34

Better get that mortgage paid off asap there won't be a middle class soon.

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@TomatoSandwiches i don’t understand

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YorkshireGoldie · 12/01/2026 21:35

Why does class matter?

Hate these humble brag posts

pottymouth40 · 12/01/2026 21:36

idontcareabouttennis · 12/01/2026 21:20

Class is very little to do with income (Wayne Rooney is never going to be anything other than working class, for example, even though he is loaded) - but I’d say that’s a fairly ‘middle’ income

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I agree with this. DH is a top 1% earner but we are working class with an upper middle class lifestyle - holiday homes, fancy cars, dcs in private school etc.

Do people really care about this stuff? Isn’t pretty much everyone MC nowadays? Even my window cleaner drives a BMW and has just had a new Wren kitchen fitted 😂

anonlawyer · 12/01/2026 21:36

We are all working class these days. If you are reliant on your wage to pay your bills how are you anything else.

MotorbikeStuntRider · 12/01/2026 21:36

Income and class are not related. 95k is in the top 5% of earners. I don't understand what you think it is.

ImmortalJillyCooper · 12/01/2026 21:37

pottymouth40 · 12/01/2026 21:36

I agree with this. DH is a top 1% earner but we are working class with an upper middle class lifestyle - holiday homes, fancy cars, dcs in private school etc.

Do people really care about this stuff? Isn’t pretty much everyone MC nowadays? Even my window cleaner drives a BMW and has just had a new Wren kitchen fitted 😂

Fuck me im in the wrong business. Surely its a money laundering scheme!

JaquelineHide · 12/01/2026 21:38

Oh ffs.

noworklifebalance · 12/01/2026 21:39

Yealp · 12/01/2026 21:25

@Purpleturtle45 i guess mortgage paid off? Bit more disposable income as I guess after bills the actual disposable is more like 3k

i guess mortgage paid off?

The “middle class” nowadays are more likely to have large mortgage payments but large equity.

Thepeopleversuswork · 12/01/2026 21:39

Class isn’t simply about income or assets, its a much more complex question. So someone’s mortgage doesn’t define their class.

Having said that, this is a comfortable wage and a manageable mortgage. As far as we can tell from the information here this isn’t someone who is struggling.

OnTheBoardwalk · 12/01/2026 21:39

This again. I like the Rooney example from @idontcareabouttennis

I worked for someone many years ago worth 12m. They owned bars, offices , car parks in major city. Private education etc

She once picked me up in the rolls but mainly the jag from my house but was also more than happy for me to pick her up in my micra

she always said ‘I’m not middle class I’m working class with money'

Zobra · 12/01/2026 21:39

MotorbikeStuntRider · 12/01/2026 21:36

Income and class are not related. 95k is in the top 5% of earners. I don't understand what you think it is.

Genuinely how do you know what class you are if it’s not income? From what I’ve seen on here I’m middle class for owning books but underclass for having a kid at 16? Definitely not working class because I hate football and chips with gravy.

Genuinly how are you working out what class you are? I don’t know if I’m middle or under class.

Pogpog21 · 12/01/2026 21:40

Zobra · 12/01/2026 21:39

Genuinely how do you know what class you are if it’s not income? From what I’ve seen on here I’m middle class for owning books but underclass for having a kid at 16? Definitely not working class because I hate football and chips with gravy.

Genuinly how are you working out what class you are? I don’t know if I’m middle or under class.

its based on your parents occupational type and your own.

Glowingup · 12/01/2026 21:42

lol yeah this is living on the breadline. Can’t be middle class unless you have your mortgage paid off dontcha know. And only 3k disposable - how do people cope?

noworklifebalance · 12/01/2026 21:42

anonlawyer · 12/01/2026 21:36

We are all working class these days. If you are reliant on your wage to pay your bills how are you anything else.

The middle class have always worked - it’s the nature of the professions that various generations undertook that partly defined the class.

OnTheBoardwalk · 12/01/2026 21:43

If you have to rely on your earnings to survive each month how can you not be working class?

Screamingabdabz · 12/01/2026 21:43

Money and income has nothing, in itself, to do with class. Look at John Caudwell, one the richest people in the UK and yet he’s firmly working class. His children might not be, but he is. Same with the guy that owns Pimlico Plumbing. Or footballers. All of the money makes no difference.

MotorbikeStuntRider · 12/01/2026 21:44

@Zobra a whole host of things inc. your parents occupations, your occupation, education, social circles, and even vocabulary. It's complex 🤣

Zobra · 12/01/2026 21:44

Pogpog21 · 12/01/2026 21:40

its based on your parents occupational type and your own.

My mother was a stay at home mother and my dad always had different jobs (is he even relevant they divorced early on?) I definitely think I have a middle class vibe based on other threads I’ve read like with hobbies. Very interesting.
But how are people out here saying with confidence what class they are even if they’re income doesn’t match up?

Zobra · 12/01/2026 21:44

Pogpog21 · 12/01/2026 21:40

its based on your parents occupational type and your own.

My mother was a stay at home mother and my dad always had different jobs (is he even relevant they divorced early on?) I definitely think I have a middle class vibe based on other threads I’ve read like with hobbies. Very interesting.
But how are people out here saying with confidence what class they are even if they’re income doesn’t match up?

UnimaginableWindBird · 12/01/2026 21:46

£1,000 a month seems really low for a mortgage on a 4 bed detached house. That's the rent for a one bedroom flat in my Northern city.

Screamingabdabz · 12/01/2026 21:47

Zobra · 12/01/2026 21:44

My mother was a stay at home mother and my dad always had different jobs (is he even relevant they divorced early on?) I definitely think I have a middle class vibe based on other threads I’ve read like with hobbies. Very interesting.
But how are people out here saying with confidence what class they are even if they’re income doesn’t match up?

Because like you, they don’t understand it. And they have probably never experienced or recognised class prejudice.

Sheldonslovechild · 12/01/2026 21:48

We have the same net income per month, mortgage of £1200 with about 250k equity. Own our own business. We are 100% working class from working class families.

We have 1 car (a beaten up 15 year old wreck) so no fancy BMW etc and 1 holiday every 2 or 3 years. We do live in a higher than average UK cost of living country though.

I think I would be upset if people though I was middle class 😂

Crofthead · 12/01/2026 21:48

Nevermind17 · 12/01/2026 21:24

My son pays £1k a month on his mortgage and he’s on his own, on £30k a year!

But it surely must be a shorter term as his loan would be capped at £70k ish based on his income? Is it 12 year mortgage term?