To want to know where my husband is..

[Ash943]

Husbands got bad anxiety, not in a great place with it at the moment. He decided he needs to get out the house for space after an intense morning with our hyper 2 year old. He’s stopped sharing his location and refusing to tell me where he is. I am totally fine with him taking the time he needs, but I’m sat at home with our toddler and 2 month old worrying because I don’t know where he is. I don’t care that he’s turned his location off, it’s not like we could do that years ago, but I wish he’d just tell me where he is so I know he’s safe so I don’t need to be sat home worrying about it when I should be playing with our toddler.

Are you concerned for his safety? I think if he’s struggling to that extent with his mental health that it’s not unreasonable to want to know where he is.

Are you concerned that he is a risk of suicide or self harm?

Has he made any previous attempts?

Goodness - hope he’s back

It is a bit odd if you have location sharing to deliberately turn it off. And then refuse to tell you where he is when you ask.

When he comes home I think you need a bit of a heart to heart about what’s going on.

ETA - unless he’s planning some kind of surprise. Is your birthday coming up and he could be gift shopping?

I hope he has returned now OP.

Any reason he’s given you lately to be suspicious?

Did he come back?