I’ve been working away for past 3 days. Have come home and noticed a brown stain on ceiling in kitchen. Husband said “oh have you only just noticed? It was there before we went on holiday ( 10 days ago!). Am I unreasonable to ask a) when was he going to tell be b) is he waiting for me to sort it out c) to question why he isn’t being the adult here d) to do side leaving him because I have to sort everything out. For reference I am main breadwinner with senior demanding job and sort out shopping, mortgage, finances etc..