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To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?

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fourfoxsakes · 09/01/2026 08:50

from the government in Northern Ireland that is published online? Surely we don’t do these things any more such as mixing baby rice with milk and advising people to feed their very young children rice crispies and cornflakes for breakfast and advising people to give juice with meals! Surely this is bad advice, I am honestly surprised that the government have been allowed to publish this crap. I have no doubt people still do these things which is an individual parenting choice but surely the government shouldn’t be advocating for this?

To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
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Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 13:52

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 13:05

How is it classist when you've just said yourself that the single mum with the handful of GCSEs and minimum wage job can't handle something more complicated.

And why doesn't she have time to cook from scratch in the evening? What is she doing with her time?

Lentils, just to point out, don't need soaking and cook in under 30 mins.

Porridge in the morning takes 5 mins and doesn't need milk, can be cooked in water and eaten with splash of milk.

And I don't see how you can point your finger at the food industry but not see how the NHS is doing their work for them with this guidance?

Which ones? Red lentils might, but other varieties require soaking. And once you have spent half an hour cooking red lentils what are doing with them?
I was equally classist, of course! The reason she doesn't have time is because she gets home at odd hours (shifts) and she is tired and the DC are hungry now.

Instant porridge oats take a few minutes but if you want proper and nutritional porridge it takes time and skill. In 1904 there was a book published called 'Round About a £1 a Week'. In it M/C women trying to help out the working poor suggested porridge, to be told that the DC would not eat it as it was tasteless, having been cooked with water - I am without doubt the same is true now unless you are cooking one of the flavoured microwavable porridges (and they still taste like wallpaper paste when made with water) which are of little nutritional value.
The guidance in question is from NI and not from their branch of the NHS. NI has a very different culture from mainland UK.

LegoLivingRoom · 09/01/2026 13:54

KimuraTan · 09/01/2026 13:42

This. The advice is pants and convenience foods should be discouraged as much as possible at that age. Protein for breakfast: think Greek youghurt or scrambled eggs instead of sugary cereal. 150ml juice max at any age. Water is much better. Eat an apple for fibre if you like the taste.

Greek yoghurt is likely to be unpalatable for many young children who are not used to it. Someone above suggested adding nuts and berries to porridge/yoghurt, which is expensive.

I’ve recently replaced my £1.40 pastry on office days with Greek yoghurt and low sugar granola. I calculated that I was saving 40p a day doing this. But up front I paid about £5, which is twice what I would usually pay a week. Can you not see that I’m lucky to have the funds to spend a larger amount but which ultimately saves me money?

Fernsrus · 09/01/2026 13:55

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 09/01/2026 13:52

Sorry, you think that the nutritional information provided on food is just invented? That it's a conspiracy? Rice crispies aren't promoted as high fibre, because they aren't, but yes, I do think the breakdown given on the label is true.

https://www.bmj.com/content/381/bmj-2022-071609

If you don’t accept the reams of evidence, you’re either working for an interested company, or you’re determined to keep your eyes closed. Your loss. I

SergeantWrinkles · 09/01/2026 13:55

Baby rice and milk has long been used as a weaning food. They don’t mean to put rice in the baby’s bottle (if they’re formula fed). They mimesn mix it together in a bowl if you’re spoon feeding, to offer your baby something that tastes familiar. It might be a bit old fashioned in today’s ’baby led’ weaning circles but it’s not bad advice per se I don’t think?

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 13:55

Fernsrus · 09/01/2026 13:50

I wonder why the manufacturer might make those claims? 🤔

So you think manufacturers are just making shit up now?

Poppingby · 09/01/2026 13:58

Fernsrus · 09/01/2026 13:55

https://www.bmj.com/content/381/bmj-2022-071609

If you don’t accept the reams of evidence, you’re either working for an interested company, or you’re determined to keep your eyes closed. Your loss. I

But this just says a high sugar diet is bad for you? Not that Rice Krispies are nutritionally bankrupt?

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 09/01/2026 13:58

Fernsrus · 09/01/2026 13:55

https://www.bmj.com/content/381/bmj-2022-071609

If you don’t accept the reams of evidence, you’re either working for an interested company, or you’re determined to keep your eyes closed. Your loss. I

Did you reply to me by mistake, or include the wrong link? I've only read the abstract, but I don't see what that's got to do about whether Tesco are lying about what's in their rice snaps?

Kirbert2 · 09/01/2026 14:00

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 13:39

I did specifically say "healthy".

Well, I wouldn't describe autistic children as not healthy but I accept it seems to be a clumsy way of saying that you meant medical conditions etc.

Natsku · 09/01/2026 14:00

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 12:44

But you have to be able to make porridge, which takes time that people may not have, and it requires a lot of milk or it's unpalatable. Also something to sweeten it e.g. fruit, honey (both expensive).
A bag of satsumas is no better than a box of juice - the sugar in the satsumas does the same damage as that in the juice.
MN is full of people who tell the benighted that they could live better if they cooked from scratch every day, bought wholefood ingredients and organic produce. But us benighted folks don't necessarily have time for all the cooking involved, don't have a big freezer we can batch cook into and can't afford all these ingredients on a regular basis, because we are on the minimum wage, work shifts, and didn't learn how to cook at school or at home (because same reasons!). If you do not understand what a recipe book is saying you cannot cook the meal, even if you have time (you often don't).
The obesity crisis was fueled by a desire in the 80s to promote the food industry so that women could participate in the work force (ulterior aims were lowering wages by increasing the workforce, and profit from selling ready prepared food - ends helped by removing Domestic Science from schools and replacing it with Food Technology). Reverse the policy by not promoting ready prepared food and you have a chance of halting obesity. People have to learn to cook, how to follow a recipe, how to set out a nutritional menu, how to fit this in with a full-time job...it has to be taught (as we used to do).

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There are definitely barriers to cooking and storing food for many people, but I have to say that porridge does not take a long time or effort, its literally 3 minutes in the microwave - you can stick it in then go brush teeth while its cooking so no time is wasted. Doesn't need sweetening either, I never sweetened it for my children so they wouldn't get into that habit - my son always has it with a bit of cinnamon sprinkled on top (which is a pricy upfront cost but a jar lasts a long time) but a chopped up banana added to a bowl of porridge will sweeten it plus adds fruit to the meal.

FruitWordSalad · 09/01/2026 14:03

Fernsrus · 09/01/2026 13:50

I wonder why the manufacturer might make those claims? 🤔

They can't make up the amount of added vitamins and minerals.

Kirbert2 · 09/01/2026 14:03

Binus · 09/01/2026 13:42

Which is an interesting condition to add in itself, since the leaflet we're discussing doesn't state that it only applies to, say, NT kids.

It's also pretty common human behaviour not to eat things we find objectionable and/or aren't confident in, even when the alternative is hunger. The post half an hour ago about the peanut foods in Bangladesh is a good example of that. For small children especially, there are obvious reasons why they've evolved to be unadventurous and trust what the adults around them are eating.

Yep.

I completely ignore those type of leaflets because they simply can't apply to my child with a limited diet.

Didimum · 09/01/2026 14:05

I think, OP, you need to strongly consider where the government's baseline is for children's nutrition across the UK and in differing economic groups. Guidance needs to be achievable.

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 14:06

Natsku · 09/01/2026 14:00

There are definitely barriers to cooking and storing food for many people, but I have to say that porridge does not take a long time or effort, its literally 3 minutes in the microwave - you can stick it in then go brush teeth while its cooking so no time is wasted. Doesn't need sweetening either, I never sweetened it for my children so they wouldn't get into that habit - my son always has it with a bit of cinnamon sprinkled on top (which is a pricy upfront cost but a jar lasts a long time) but a chopped up banana added to a bowl of porridge will sweeten it plus adds fruit to the meal.

I've been half wondering whether we might be from the same non-UK country, but now your username plus comment about toothbrushing before breakfast have pretty much convinced me!

Plus all the porridge eating and the disdain for sugary drinks for kids. 😄

BidetBeforeDDay · 09/01/2026 14:07

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 13:32

You've contradicted yourself. You 'ate healthily' which means you understood what healthy eating was. So you were not in the position of ignorance you are saying you were. Bit of logic?
You are right about education, though.

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I meant I lacked the equipment and resources to cook, to store food, to buy in bulk. To be fair, I had time (hence living on what was under-25 rate JSA) but the stuff I ate was quick to prepare.

I also lacked the knowledge of how to cook proper meals from scratch. So I ate simple (and quite bland) things. That's what I meant in reference to the PP mentioning lacking knowledge.

I think the lack of education is more basic than proper cooking - as you say it's more about really basic nutritional understanding. With internet access (which I didn't have) you can now easily look up how to make an omelette, for example, but you need to know that's the best thing to do. How do we teach it though? I know I covered healthy eating in school in the 90s. But if it was on the curriculum, a lot clearly didn't listen! Also food packaging now mentiond 5 a day, and has given calorie guidelines for over 20 years+. But people ignore it.

It's one of those areas where there is a genuine lack of resources for many but also an almost wilful ignorance from some. So telling people without means to cook to prepare elaborate meals is patronising and infuriating. But plenty of people who are not in such desperate situations still eat crap!

Firstfood · 09/01/2026 14:07

Also I used to live with a woman who fed her one year old nothing but biscuits for breakfast, mumsnet would have a meltdown if it knew the rest of her diet.

Rice crispies aren’t the reason anyone is obese

MumofCandR · 09/01/2026 14:10

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 09/01/2026 13:52

Sorry, you think that the nutritional information provided on food is just invented? That it's a conspiracy? Rice crispies aren't promoted as high fibre, because they aren't, but yes, I do think the breakdown given on the label is true.

https://www.uhsussex.nhs.uk/resources/food-fact-the-glycaemic-index/

https://www.uclahealth.org/news/article/ask-the-doctors-what-is-the-glycemic-index-and-why-does-it-matter

High glycaemic index = high blood sugar levels = higher risk of a wide range of health problems, including the risk of developing diabetes, heart disease, nerve damage, cataracts and kidney disease. That's why the NHS shouldn't be promoting these 'foods'.

Food Fact: The Glycaemic Index - University Hospitals Sussex NHS Foundation Trust

Information about the glycaemic index which ranks carbohydrate foods.

https://www.uhsussex.nhs.uk/resources/food-fact-the-glycaemic-index

Natsku · 09/01/2026 14:10

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 14:06

I've been half wondering whether we might be from the same non-UK country, but now your username plus comment about toothbrushing before breakfast have pretty much convinced me!

Plus all the porridge eating and the disdain for sugary drinks for kids. 😄

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Hah! Yeah lots of porridge eating here, funnily enough when people eat it from early childhood they don't usually find it disgusting.

BalladOfBarryAndFreda · 09/01/2026 14:11

Rice Krispies aren't nutritionally bankrupt or whatever bollocks is being pedalled. They are low sugar and, like most cereals in the UK, are fortified with vitamins and iron, so actually have considerable nutritional value to developing children.

Gahr · 09/01/2026 14:11

FickleOcelot · 09/01/2026 10:29

And i ate cereal for breakfast every day growing up and I've never had a weight problem.

Well, obviously cereal is only part of the story. Also, there are cereals and cereals. There's a difference between branflakes and Frosties or even Rice Crispies. I think that OP isn't being UR. I think that most UK people's diet is far too reliant on simple carbs.

MumofCandR · 09/01/2026 14:12

Didimum · 09/01/2026 14:05

I think, OP, you need to strongly consider where the government's baseline is for children's nutrition across the UK and in differing economic groups. Guidance needs to be achievable.

Better guidance is achievable, through education - not through the level of ignorance shown on this thread though, it appears to be a lost cause as people simply 'don't want to know' - ignorance is bliss.

Jellycatspyjamas · 09/01/2026 14:16

Natsku · 09/01/2026 14:10

Hah! Yeah lots of porridge eating here, funnily enough when people eat it from early childhood they don't usually find it disgusting.

We’ve always eaten porridge for breakfast, my DS absolutely loves it, my DD won’t touch it now despite being fed it all through primary school. How odd that different people will have different preferences for taste and texture.

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 14:16

Natsku · 09/01/2026 14:10

Hah! Yeah lots of porridge eating here, funnily enough when people eat it from early childhood they don't usually find it disgusting.

Everything we're discussing here is 100% cultural.

I've lived in the UK for thirty years and if there's one thing that defines this place it's people's stubborn resistance to progress and improvement of any kind! 😄

MumofCandR · 09/01/2026 14:18

BalladOfBarryAndFreda · 09/01/2026 14:11

Rice Krispies aren't nutritionally bankrupt or whatever bollocks is being pedalled. They are low sugar and, like most cereals in the UK, are fortified with vitamins and iron, so actually have considerable nutritional value to developing children.

They're not low sugar please educate yourself: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-merseyside-40301978.amp

Cereals shouldn't be promoted by any healthcare body, they're convenient - but healthy, they are not.

Cereals

Sugary cereals named and shamed by Liverpool health bosses

Kellogg's Frosties and Coco Pops contain three and a half sugar cubes or more per 40g serving, Public Health Liverpool finds.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-merseyside-40301978.amp

Jellycatspyjamas · 09/01/2026 14:18

MumofCandR · 09/01/2026 14:12

Better guidance is achievable, through education - not through the level of ignorance shown on this thread though, it appears to be a lost cause as people simply 'don't want to know' - ignorance is bliss.

It’s not just as easy as educating. Never before have we had the level of information available literally at our fingertips. Those of us working with struggling families know the issues are many and complex - simply telling someone to feed their kids porridge doesn’t address any of those complexities.

Pinkieandthebraintakeovertheworld · 09/01/2026 14:18

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 09/01/2026 13:46

Every day in that sample menu has a portion of dairy (two of which are yoghurt - not greek, because that's pretty much the most expensive yoghurt) and three of the five tea-time meals are eggs. They are recommending that people eat those foods. People are really overfocusing on the breakfast and overcatastrophising about one portion of rice crispies a week.

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Yep. It’s designed to look like pretty familiar menu to my generation of parents and is nutritionally well balanced. One bowl of rice crispies is a ridiculous thing to worry about. No foods are totally devoid of nutrition. That’s a nonsense idea. People just get confused because of course it’s important to limit foods that are high in calories and low in micronutrients. But people also need calories, and rice crispies actually contain quite a lot of useful micronutrients because they are fortified! Yes they are very processed but you have to look at the whole week’s food and not just freak out about this one thing and the fact they’ve included a small amount of juice as one of people’s five a day.
It’s not really useful to think of individual foods as being either good or bad. You need to look at someone’s whole diet.

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