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In wanting Mumsnet to help Judi Dench and Joanna Lumley

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GiantBranch · 08/01/2026 18:55

Last week, Israel banned 37 international aid organisations from operating in the strip, including Oxfam, Save the Children and Medicine Sans Frontieres (MSF). MSF delivers one in three of Gaza’s babies, and experts warn that immediate action must be taken to prevent a catastrophe.

It has prompted more than 100 leading members of the arts, including Dames Judi Dench, Imelda Staunton, Joanna Lumley, Sienna Miller, Suranne Jones and singer Paloma Faith, to sign a letter urging popular online platform Mumsnet to join them in demanding urgent government action ensuring maternity care is accessible in Gaza.

www.independent.co.uk/news/world/middle-east/gaza-israel-baby-birth-judi-dench-letter-b2896981.html

International aid groups grapple with what Israel's ban will mean for their work in Gaza

Israel has revoked the licenses of more than three dozen humanitarian organizations, and now those groups are grappling with how that will affect aid operations in Gaza

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/israel-united-nations-norwegian-refugee-council-palestinians-doctors-without-borders-b2894091.html

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Clementi · 11/01/2026 13:35

Genericfestiveusername · 11/01/2026 13:11

Why don't you start a thread about it? Everyone can see what you're doing. Everytime someone tries to talk about Gaza people like you detail the thread with multiple posts about all the other things OP should be posting about (as if a thread about every world crisis would even be efficient). You sound really clued up on Afghanistan and Iran.and like you'd be amazing organising a public campaign for support for their maternity care! Maybe you should start a thread and an open letter and post all your resources there? You could contact any public figures you want support from on social media.

Because you do actually really care of course and are taking practical actions yourself to raise awareness and funds and support right, so it sounds like posting in this particular thread about it is the way to get it off the ground.

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But this isn’t a thread about Gaza, it is a thread about people writing a manipulative letter to the head of Mumsnet to try and get her to use the weight of its membership to support a particular cause.

If we are to be used to back up Justine pushing specific causes then we should be entitled to say that if she wants to support maternity services for women then Afghanistan should at the top of the list rather than allow us to be used by Hamas in their mistreatment of women to achieve their political ends.

suggestionsplease1 · 11/01/2026 13:47

whatwouldafeministdo · 11/01/2026 10:13

I'm not at all sure this is still true. Most of the information on their webpage pre-dates the most restrictive bans on women being HCPs, and receiving care from HCPs.

It's quite worrying actually - the latest post I can find is from Oct 25 talking about how women cannot now access any healthcare unless they wear a burkha. There is very limited information and they do not address the question of whether they are able to provide care to women and girls as well as men now. I could find an article with only men pictured talking about caring for men in 2025 - the lack of women was a bit concerning.

I wish MSF(and other aid agencies who say they're working in Afghanistan) would explicitly address this - there are certainly reports that aid agencies have been denied access to help women in Afghanistan.

The LATEST date on the webpage you've posted is 2024. A lot has changed for women and girls in Afghanistan in the past year.

Can you start up a thread detailing the action you're taking on this issue in Afghanistan and put a link on this thread to it please?

I'm sure a lot of women on this site would get behind the action you're taking.

Nyeaccident · 11/01/2026 13:51

suggestionsplease1 · 11/01/2026 13:47

Can you start up a thread detailing the action you're taking on this issue in Afghanistan and put a link on this thread to it please?

I'm sure a lot of women on this site would get behind the action you're taking.

Presumably the best approach @whatwouldafeministdo can take is to write an open letter placing the responsibility on a random vaguely public figure who has absolutely no influence over the situation?

Grin
suggestionsplease1 · 11/01/2026 13:55

Nyeaccident · 11/01/2026 13:51

Presumably the best approach @whatwouldafeministdo can take is to write an open letter placing the responsibility on a random vaguely public figure who has absolutely no influence over the situation?

Grin

Yes if they want to do that I, and I am sure others, would be interested to read it. It would likely raise awareness of the issues and potentially generate some groundswell momentum to explore ways to help facilitate change.

Genericfestiveusername · 11/01/2026 13:56

Clementi · 11/01/2026 13:35

But this isn’t a thread about Gaza, it is a thread about people writing a manipulative letter to the head of Mumsnet to try and get her to use the weight of its membership to support a particular cause.

If we are to be used to back up Justine pushing specific causes then we should be entitled to say that if she wants to support maternity services for women then Afghanistan should at the top of the list rather than allow us to be used by Hamas in their mistreatment of women to achieve their political ends.

Except we don't all think it's manipulative, many of think it's a worthy cause. Those who don't can't just say that and go they seem to also want to completely derail with all the others causes they think should be addressed.

Nyeaccident · 11/01/2026 13:59

suggestionsplease1 · 11/01/2026 13:55

Yes if they want to do that I, and I am sure others, would be interested to read it. It would likely raise awareness of the issues and potentially generate some groundswell momentum to explore ways to help facilitate change.

And you really think it is acceptable to target a random individual who has no influence? What an intriguing way to treat others

inkognitha · 11/01/2026 14:03

Genericfestiveusername · 11/01/2026 13:17

Have you even read what the registration requirements are? Giving notice doesn't mean anything, youre and others are being deliberately vague and acting like they just need to give the names of their employees when you know it's not true. And after Israel have murdered hundreds of aid and healthcare workers, many of us don't have much care for Israel "alleging" of anything and we would prefer that the NGOs can continue to do anything they can to support women and children living in hell.

Seems 85% of organisations are ok with it, I think that can be counted as the vast majority.

And if MSF decides to stop working in Gaza because they prefer to keep snipers on their payroll while they know they are provide most of the care to pregnant women, they are the ones who let women down.

And OP repeating one more time "but the pregnant women of Gaza" sounds more and more like a convenient excuse to hide the fact and a desperate attempt to make us look elsewhere.

And it s pretty despicable to hide behind vulnerable women like that or to turn them into a slogan. Not everyone is Cato the Elder.

And Hamas is still free to give up its weapons and free all the hostages so the peace process can go a step further, which would be the best outcome for women, so, what about asking luvvies to write an open letter to Hamas? Or to MSF?

Wouldn t it be more useful than ganging up against Justine to pressure the PM in the name of the whole Mumsnet community into denouncing something he has already decried publicly with 10 other nations a few days ago?

FKAT · 11/01/2026 14:04

suggestionsplease1 · 10/01/2026 01:11

How would the authorities have imprisoned 40 million civilians in concentration camps if they had decided to stand together in unity against the regime?

Disgusting victim blaming. You should have paid much more attention to history lessons in school and then you would know there was lots of resistance to Nazis within (and outside) Germany in the 1930s and the resistance was met with violence, torture and death.

There's a special place in hell for people whose activism primarily consists of social media criticising people who lost their families, homes, countries, livelihoods and lives for not standing up to a violent and well armed regime.

Twiglets1 · 11/01/2026 14:05

Genericfestiveusername · 11/01/2026 13:56

Except we don't all think it's manipulative, many of think it's a worthy cause. Those who don't can't just say that and go they seem to also want to completely derail with all the others causes they think should be addressed.

It's possible to think something is a worthy cause and not be manipulative in how we choose to promote said cause.

I happen to support a lot of animal charities but I'm not writing an open letter to Justine asking her to get involved because there are a lot of animal lovers on MN. I believe she has the right to choose her own issues.

FKAT · 11/01/2026 14:05

GiantBranch · 10/01/2026 01:34

Most of these oppressive regimes eventually fall how do you think that happens? By individuals resisting and movements building,

Nope. The vast majority of authoritarian regimes fall because those with bigger and better military hardware come along.

suggestionsplease1 · 11/01/2026 14:06

Nyeaccident · 11/01/2026 13:59

And you really think it is acceptable to target a random individual who has no influence? What an intriguing way to treat others

A random individual who has no influence has not been targeted; a relevant individual who does have influence has been asked.

Those points have already been covered on this thread.

GiantBranch · 11/01/2026 14:09

FKAT · 11/01/2026 14:04

Disgusting victim blaming. You should have paid much more attention to history lessons in school and then you would know there was lots of resistance to Nazis within (and outside) Germany in the 1930s and the resistance was met with violence, torture and death.

There's a special place in hell for people whose activism primarily consists of social media criticising people who lost their families, homes, countries, livelihoods and lives for not standing up to a violent and well armed regime.

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I think you are misconstruing the posters comment she had said that if German nationals had resisted the Nazis, instead of mainly being either being active participants in the holocaust or passive bystanders, it could not have occurred, basically if there had been more Sophie Scholls the holocaust would not have occurred. She was not referring to the Jewish victims.

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Nyeaccident · 11/01/2026 14:11

suggestionsplease1 · 11/01/2026 14:06

A random individual who has no influence has not been targeted; a relevant individual who does have influence has been asked.

Those points have already been covered on this thread.

She does not have influence on the policy of a foreign country. The appropriate person to have addressed a letter to was the foreign Secretary or the prime minister it's inexcusable to have targeted a private individual in this way

FKAT · 11/01/2026 14:11

I've edited my response to clarify. My response stands.

GiantBranch · 11/01/2026 14:11

Anyway the topic of this thread is preventing future harms and ameliorating a current situation not debating past events

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FKAT · 11/01/2026 14:13

Someone else brought up Nazi Germany so thread police them.

Why don't MSF et al comply with the requirements if they care so much about saving pregnant women?

Nyeaccident · 11/01/2026 14:13

GiantBranch · 11/01/2026 14:11

Anyway the topic of this thread is preventing future harms and ameliorating a current situation not debating past events

I thought the topic of this thread was about whether Justine has to somehow do what a bunch of actresses tell her to do? (Even though she actually has no influence at all over the situation)

GiantBranch · 11/01/2026 14:13

Nyeaccident · 11/01/2026 14:11

She does not have influence on the policy of a foreign country. The appropriate person to have addressed a letter to was the foreign Secretary or the prime minister it's inexcusable to have targeted a private individual in this way

The campaign is asking Mumsnet to join in calling on the Uk government to use it’s influence to request Israel desist from it’s current intention to block these aid agencies thereby causing further and unnecessary suffering to pregnant Palestinian women

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Twiglets1 · 11/01/2026 14:13

suggestionsplease1 · 11/01/2026 14:06

A random individual who has no influence has not been targeted; a relevant individual who does have influence has been asked.

Those points have already been covered on this thread.

Does Justine have influence over Hamas or Netanyahu?

No - so why should she involve herself in the Gaza war beyond providing a platform for people to discuss the war. Views of which are very mixed in the MN community.

GiantBranch · 11/01/2026 14:15

mumsnet is not being asked to negotiate with Hamas or Netanyahu, have you read any of the thread?

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suggestionsplease1 · 11/01/2026 14:15

Nyeaccident · 11/01/2026 14:11

She does not have influence on the policy of a foreign country. The appropriate person to have addressed a letter to was the foreign Secretary or the prime minister it's inexcusable to have targeted a private individual in this way

She does have influence on UK politics (as evidenced by all the interview she is hard with the recent prime ministers), and UK political leaders have influence on other countries.

What exactly about that short, two-step process is hard to understand?

suggestionsplease1 · 11/01/2026 14:16

suggestionsplease1 · 11/01/2026 14:15

She does have influence on UK politics (as evidenced by all the interview she is hard with the recent prime ministers), and UK political leaders have influence on other countries.

What exactly about that short, two-step process is hard to understand?

...All the interviews she has had...

Nyeaccident · 11/01/2026 14:17

GiantBranch · 11/01/2026 14:13

The campaign is asking Mumsnet to join in calling on the Uk government to use it’s influence to request Israel desist from it’s current intention to block these aid agencies thereby causing further and unnecessary suffering to pregnant Palestinian women

But the government has already done that.
And the letter was addressed very specifically to Justine not to " the people who use Mumsnet"

And if they wanted to speak to the users of mum'snet why an open letter to the press? They could have just started a post on here!

The whole thing is wildly illogical

Twiglets1 · 11/01/2026 14:17

GiantBranch · 11/01/2026 14:13

The campaign is asking Mumsnet to join in calling on the Uk government to use it’s influence to request Israel desist from it’s current intention to block these aid agencies thereby causing further and unnecessary suffering to pregnant Palestinian women

You're assuming you know Justine's personal opinions on Israel's decision making on this matter, which you do not.

Neither do I and she may well support the campaign on a personal level, I don't know. But the situation with the aid agencies is a lot more nuanced than the way you frame it.

Nyeaccident · 11/01/2026 14:20

suggestionsplease1 · 11/01/2026 14:15

She does have influence on UK politics (as evidenced by all the interview she is hard with the recent prime ministers), and UK political leaders have influence on other countries.

What exactly about that short, two-step process is hard to understand?

On UK policy perhaps, derived first and foremost from the wishes and voices of the users of the forum not from her telling the users of the forum what to do and think.

It's quite a stretch to extend that to foreign politics..
And like I have said why on earth was the decision to do an open letter to the press address to Justine rather than just posting on Mumsnet and addressing the users directly?

Like I say, at best this was a deeply baffling way to go about things.

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