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To be depressed that lockdown would happen again tomorrow if there was another new disease

816 replies

Pavementworrier · 05/01/2026 07:35

We talk about all the things that are worse "since the pandemic"but government prep is based on all the same mad nonsense that caused the worsening

Grim

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Imdunfer · 05/01/2026 09:31

@Newbutolfather Don’t lockdown sceptics worry that vanishingly few genuine experts (virologists, epidemiologists and immunologists) think lockdown was unnecessary?!

Those experts were giving advice only on reducing the number of infections.

Others are looking also at increased deaths from other causes, but it is, quite honestly, impossible to have a data rational discussion on this issue without being accused of wanting someone's granny to have died.

XiCi · 05/01/2026 09:31

Newbutoldfather · 05/01/2026 08:38

All the old ignorant fantasies are being wheeled out over and over again. The ignorance about science and scepticism about people with genuine scientific expertise is scary.

Limiting contact is the only way to control infectious disease until vaccination is available. It was done in one way or another since the time of the Black Death. Eyam famously isolated itself in the Black Death to save others from suffering.

The SIR/SEIR mathematical models are used to model epidemics and, although imperfect, work well. They are what inform the degree and type of lockdowns required.

COVID turned out to be (somewhat) less morbid than scientists first thought based on the Italian cluster, but that was the data available at the time. Nonetheless if large cities like London hadn’t locked down, hospitals would have been overwhelmed and we would have had people dying in pain at home and bodies in the street. There is very little doubt of that.

If a new disease came along, it would be just like COVID at the start, little known and understood and possibly far more lethal.

And, yes, of course people would comply. There are a lot of people on these threads who are very brave retrospectively but were very fearful at the time. If you thought you might die untreated of a nasty new virus, you would do your very best not to!

We have entered a new superstitious age where science and scientists are not respected. It is sad.

Exactly this. All the people saying 'i will not comply' are just talking bullshit. And what would that even look like when everything is shut down? Standing in the street going 'look at me look at me I'm not complying' 🙄. People think that because they had covid in the latter stages and weren't seriously ill that the virus was mild. By that point the virus has weakened, as a lot of viruses do over time. People that got the virus early on were seriously ill or dying. Our friend, a key worker in his 40s, fit and healthy, died. My hairdresser and a colleague from work, both in their 20s have permanent heart and lung issues and are significantly impaired. I dont believe that anyone, in the face of a new, unknown virus, with scenes as we saw in Italy and China would refuse to lockdown

fluffiphlox · 05/01/2026 09:32

I rather miss lockdown.

Newbutoldfather · 05/01/2026 09:33

@EasternStandard ,

‘I still agree with **we’re not dealing with this in the way your post describes. It’s either messaging or it’s so severe people just stop going out.’

You are welcome to agree, but reducing it to a facile binary isn’t the real world.

At the start of Covid, it was reasonable to assume a 1.5% case fatality rate in what was known from China and Italy. It ended up being a lot lower, and lockdowns ended up being less severe with experimentation (bubbles, rules of 6 etc).

But, in the real world, most viruses are neither Ebola or a cold, and when you get a novel zoonotic virus, there are a lot of unknowns, so you have to play safe.

Just read real scientific papers on both epidemic and how to manage them. Zero of them will suggest reliance on people to self manage isolation.

Chiseltip · 05/01/2026 09:33

Untailored · 05/01/2026 07:45

What would be the alternative? If the hospitals were full and people were queuing up in the car parks to try and get in, like in India when Covid was at its worst there?

No one wants lockdown but I’d love to hear an alternative plan for containing an airborne, highly contagious disease spreading rapidly through the population.

If you die, you die.

Binus · 05/01/2026 09:33

Sesma · 05/01/2026 09:30

People would still expect others to be out though if it meant they couldn't get their shopping, it's always others.

Yep! And things would get nasty if they couldn't.

I sometimes wonder whether 2020-21 would've gone differently if it hadn't been so easy to obtain deliveries of treats, nice food and inessential crap to entertain oneself actually. It's not even just about having the bare necessities, though obviously order would break down soon enough if people didn't have their electricity and three meals a day.

Boomer55 · 05/01/2026 09:33

chaosmaker · 05/01/2026 09:20

Brexit has damaged it more in many, many ways.

Well, both, along with a succession of useless governments, including this one, have damaged us, in many ways, but I was just talking about virus compliance.

Sesma · 05/01/2026 09:33

fluffiphlox · 05/01/2026 09:32

I rather miss lockdown.

I bet you didn't have to work outside the house or enjoyed furlough

EasternStandard · 05/01/2026 09:34

Newbutoldfather · 05/01/2026 09:33

@EasternStandard ,

‘I still agree with **we’re not dealing with this in the way your post describes. It’s either messaging or it’s so severe people just stop going out.’

You are welcome to agree, but reducing it to a facile binary isn’t the real world.

At the start of Covid, it was reasonable to assume a 1.5% case fatality rate in what was known from China and Italy. It ended up being a lot lower, and lockdowns ended up being less severe with experimentation (bubbles, rules of 6 etc).

But, in the real world, most viruses are neither Ebola or a cold, and when you get a novel zoonotic virus, there are a lot of unknowns, so you have to play safe.

Just read real scientific papers on both epidemic and how to manage them. Zero of them will suggest reliance on people to self manage isolation.

I find your checkpoint post facile tbf it’s not going to work.

You need the public consent for any response to happen.

helpfulperson · 05/01/2026 09:35

BerryTwister · 05/01/2026 09:19

I assume that a lockdown has always been the plan in the event of a pandemic, so the fact that it’s already happened once is neither here nor there.

But I think that the way a lockdown would be received would very much depend on the disease. Yes of course if there was a horrible incurable disease with a very high mortality rate, especially if young healthy people were dying, then we’d all adhere to it. But the issue with Covid was that pretty quickly it became apparent that the vast majority of people who got Covid made a full recovery. And yet we still weren’t allowed to go for a picnic at the park. I don’t think the population would tolerate again such strict rules for a disease that was minor for most people.

It didn't 'become apparent' that most people recovered. The vaccine luckily worked well and therefore people had it less seriously. That is why most people recovered. If the vaccine hadn't worked death rates would have been what they were at the start multiplied as more people caught it.

Greenwitchart · 05/01/2026 09:35

I doubt people would comply if it was something similar to Covid.

There is so little trust in politicians these days.

SeriaMau · 05/01/2026 09:35

Some idiotic responses here. No two diseases are the same so the response to the next outbreak will be different. But if there was an infectious airborne Ebola variant circulating you would still be mingling down the pub? Right…

MichaelmasDaisiesAndAutumSunset · 05/01/2026 09:36

feistyoneyouare · 05/01/2026 09:30

And the 'will of the people' trumps the lives of the vulnerable, does it?

Or you could take a less hysterical approach. There needs to be a balance between protecting the vulnerable and damaging everyone else. It’s awful on a personal level when you are left thinking I could well die because of this, but governments are thinking for millions, so it’s about balance between competing and contradictory interests.

Arguably we got that wrong with lockdown because we now have far more vulnerable people who cannot work because of their mental health, at great social and economic cost to the population. Put simply, no society can “afford” to cater merely to the needs of the most vulnerable. They need to be offered a reasonable level of protection, not everything possible, because the latter damages others.

Binus · 05/01/2026 09:36

feistyoneyouare · 05/01/2026 09:30

And the 'will of the people' trumps the lives of the vulnerable, does it?

Obviously. In the same way that the will of the people to have lockdown trumped the lives of those vulnerable to lockdown in 2020-1. Hence, say, increased deaths due to alcohol consumption during that period.

That's part of what pandemic management is. The will of the people, expressed through governments, trumping the lives of whichever vulnerable are seen as most suitable to be collateral.

Hobnobswantshernameback · 05/01/2026 09:37

Now there's a surprise a one post wonder goady op that's vanished
colour me shocked
carry on frothing guys

GlomOfNit · 05/01/2026 09:37

Dolphinnoises · 05/01/2026 07:45

Oh for God’s sake, grow up. Lockdown was awful and had awful down sides, and we had the politicians we elected who were exactly the clowns we all knew they were, and utterly unsuited to the task.

But we didn’t know we would find a vaccine, or that it would be as effective - we were realistically hoping for 50% effectiveness, and on the first strain it was 94% effective, but as it was a coronavirus it did what they all do and evolved.

Everything we are suffering from - the hit to the economy, the trauma of loss and illness-based bodily damage / after-effects - it was all caused by the disaster which is a pandemic. It’s like arguing that we won’t put up with our house falling down next time there is an earthquake.

Ask anyone who worked in a hospital during Covid if we could skip masks and lockdown next time. We can’t. The other thing we can’t avoid - making mistakes. Hindsight is 20:20 but these are insanely difficult choices.

For years we knew we were overdue a global pandemic - the expectation was that they were a one-in-a-hundred-year event but so many factors change - global travel and deforestation on one hand, the facts of novel illnesses on the other - incubation periods, how it spreads. We aren’t in control of everything.

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Thanks for your clear and very sane post. I despair really. People seem to have lost their ability to think clearly and logically about this horrible time. And at the time of the first lockdown, the vast majority DID comply. We saw community thinking and compassionate concern for people we didn't even know. I try to cling on to that in our post-Covid era where social cohesion and community seem to breaking down.

Maybe the lessons we learned will include prioritising mental health and our young people the next time this happens - and it WILL happen again. I remember how chilling it was listening to epidemiologists saying that although Covid was bad, it wasn't THE big pandemic they'd been bracing for.

itsnotagameshow · 05/01/2026 09:38

XiCi · 05/01/2026 09:31

Exactly this. All the people saying 'i will not comply' are just talking bullshit. And what would that even look like when everything is shut down? Standing in the street going 'look at me look at me I'm not complying' 🙄. People think that because they had covid in the latter stages and weren't seriously ill that the virus was mild. By that point the virus has weakened, as a lot of viruses do over time. People that got the virus early on were seriously ill or dying. Our friend, a key worker in his 40s, fit and healthy, died. My hairdresser and a colleague from work, both in their 20s have permanent heart and lung issues and are significantly impaired. I dont believe that anyone, in the face of a new, unknown virus, with scenes as we saw in Italy and China would refuse to lockdown

I agree. I knew someone in her 40s, previously fit and healthy, who still hasn't regained her speech thanks to catching Covid early on.

I also agree there were some very silly rules, like being able to go, say, to the pub, but having table service only, distancing and having to leave at 10. Not sure the virus would have got that memo! Ditto Eat Out to Help Out - both attempts at shoring up the hospitality industry rather than effective pandemic control measures.

The insistence on handwashing being a protective measure when early on there was evidence of Covid being spread through the air was also a bit daft.

However, it is more than silly to underplay how severe the virus was initially and before the vaccines started to work.

scalt · 05/01/2026 09:38

Don’t lockdown sceptics worry that vanishingly few genuine experts (virologists, epidemiologists and immunologists) think lockdown was unnecessary?!
Perhaps there were more that we think, we just never heard from them. Perhaps one of the government's "emergency powers" to which you refer was being able to silence anybody who contradicted the narrative. And I'm not joking. What happened to Dr Vernon Coleman? Has he been cancelled, or silenced by the secret services? You could watch BBC interviewers interrupting "experts" who were about to deviate from the agreed script.

Binus · 05/01/2026 09:40

EasternStandard · 05/01/2026 09:34

I find your checkpoint post facile tbf it’s not going to work.

You need the public consent for any response to happen.

Edited

Yep. People confuse their 'should' and 'is'. Even if one accepts the principle that it would be best to let the epidemiologists in the driving seat, we very much do not have to do that and there would be no guarantees whatsoever that the public would be willing.

LiteralNightmare · 05/01/2026 09:43

Third highest Covid death rate in the world and you're still banging on about freedom.

scalt · 05/01/2026 09:44

At the start of Covid, it was reasonable to assume a 1.5% case fatality rate in what was known from China and Italy. It ended up being a lot lower, and lockdowns ended up being less severe with experimentation (bubbles, rules of 6 etc).
Did the government ever tell us "the virus is not as deadly as we thought"? Did it slip their mind to mention this? Or was keeping the public frightened more important than telling us anything positive?

Similarly, I almost feel sorry for Johnson never getting to have his big moment in July 2021 of saying "it is with great pleasure that I announce the end of all restrictions." And he would probably have thrown in "never to return", while his handlers facepalmed. And why didn't he get this big moment? Because the fear machine had moved on to Ukraine, and then it was "pleeeeeeeeeeeease take in refugees, moments after we criminalised you for having your own families as guests".

Newbutoldfather · 05/01/2026 09:45

@Binus ,

If you don’t want to put virologists and epidemiologists in charge in the case of a pandemic, who are you suggesting?

Jo and Ella from the pub darts team who had Covid and ‘it was just a cold’?!

Epidemiologists entire career has been studying epidemics and the correct response to them.

Expertise has meaning. Everyone’s opinions aren’t equally valid.

Sharptonguedwoman · 05/01/2026 09:46

Pavementworrier · 05/01/2026 07:35

We talk about all the things that are worse "since the pandemic"but government prep is based on all the same mad nonsense that caused the worsening

Grim

So if there was no lockdown, how would that work exactly? Whole classes off school? Teachers sick? Vulnerable teachers (older/ill/pregnant) unable to teach. Kids taking the illness home to vulnerable people? Let an illness run through the population? Obviously it was awful for many but what's your plan?

sittingonabeach · 05/01/2026 09:46

Didn’t some countries set up checkpoints where there were hotspots?

Coaltithe · 05/01/2026 09:46

The opportunity we've missed over the last few years is that of educating the public about small-scale measures we can take to reduce airborne disease spread. Even small things like opening front and back windows for air flow.

Politicians the world over wanted to "take the win" and declare covid over and life back to normal. They could have been honest and said it would be better if workplaces and schools were well ventilated, because covid is a nasty disease with even then increasing research showing health consequences even when mild.

They could also have been honest that economically the government couldn't afford to provide that ventilation, so it would be up to us to do whatever we could voluntarily.

If they had been more honest like that, useful knowledge about how to reduce the risk of airborne disease would then be much more widespread, and that would make us more able to deal with the next such pandemic. It would also mean less covid even now.

Instead, they told us it was over and not to worry our pretty little heads over the details, and as a result we now have less useful community knowledge than we could have, so we'll once again all be waiting like sheep for one size fits all instructions.