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To wonder what US Trump voters think now

527 replies

Indiependant · 04/01/2026 08:55

Their country's reputation trashed. The man they voted for heavily implicated in the Epstein scandal. Contempt shown to them abroad.
About to completely shift Ukraine. Enabling Netanyahu to commit mass murder of children with their tax dollars. No roaring economy. The environment fucked probbaky beyond saving due to their inaction.
What, in all honesty, do the 75 million who have caused this catastrophe think?

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JHound · 05/01/2026 18:17

24kPalamino · 05/01/2026 18:15

Well actually I do feel unsafe. I used to go into town on a Friday or Saturday evening, dressed up, glam for a night out. My friends and I wouldn’t do it now. Too many large groups of men hanging around and following the women. So the town is pretty much dead. It’s quite sad. That is what happens when you literally dump large groups of men in a small place, with nothing productive to do. And in many cases, they are not culturally aware when it comes to British women, which I don’t necessarily blame them for. That is their understanding and they have never lived differently.
But, it is very intimidating and still makes me feel unsafe.

You might ask why don’t I feel that way with British men (of any race btw)? Well my experience is that many British men can be complete arses. But generally the real weirdos were few and far between and the others were out for the same good night as us. Groups were much smaller and you could generally tell them to get lost, and largely they’d slink away. We never got followed. And we could understand what they were saying to each other too. When people speak in a different language to each other, and you don’t know what they are saying or if it’s about you, it can be a scary thing. I suspect that would be true regardless of culture, or ethnicity.
There are issues and they need to be talked about.

Which is why I said “speak for YOURSELF”.

And no, I have never felt scared because people are daring to speak a different language around me. That’s my daily norm but then I find monolinguals are always weird around people who speak different languages (and too damn nosey.)

I cannot imagine how you cope if you ever ventured overseas.

24kPalamino · 05/01/2026 18:17

sleepwouldbenice · 05/01/2026 18:07

Agreed. Someone's really watching too much Fox news. Our knife crime is lower than that in the US and they shoot each other as well. There are many things wrong with our country but feeling safe or not isn't one of them, especially when compared to America

That is not correct. Just because another place has more crime, doesn’t make the country I live in any less scary to me.
The UK is a scarier place to be, compared to the UK 15 years ago - and that’s all that matters. And it’s my experience that tells me this, not Fox News.

24kPalamino · 05/01/2026 18:19

JHound · 05/01/2026 18:17

Which is why I said “speak for YOURSELF”.

And no, I have never felt scared because people are daring to speak a different language around me. That’s my daily norm but then I find monolinguals are always weird around people who speak different languages (and too damn nosey.)

I cannot imagine how you cope if you ever ventured overseas.

Edited

And that’s what I did. Thanks.

JHound · 05/01/2026 18:20

24kPalamino · 05/01/2026 18:19

And that’s what I did. Thanks.

You didn’t originally.

sleepwouldbenice · 05/01/2026 18:21

24kPalamino · 05/01/2026 18:17

That is not correct. Just because another place has more crime, doesn’t make the country I live in any less scary to me.
The UK is a scarier place to be, compared to the UK 15 years ago - and that’s all that matters. And it’s my experience that tells me this, not Fox News.

Completely not my experience so looks like opinions vary

RingoJuice · 05/01/2026 18:22

SabrinaThwaite · 05/01/2026 17:24

And yet you’re not keen on expats being in the US?

You know, the skilled foreign workers on H1B visas for temporary work assignments that you think shouldn’t be there?

Sounds a bit hypocritical …

They aren’t temporary for one (it started that way but has become a back door) and they get paid less, which undermines American wages. We have something else called the O-1 visa that brings in higher-value workers.

Taiwanese semiconductor engineers? 👍

Indian accountants? 👎

(In case you cared about the distinction here. Perhaps you don’t)

24kPalamino · 05/01/2026 18:23

People genuinely don’t feel safe in the UK at the moment, but the rights of illegal migrants trump them according to the human rights lawyers. So you haven’t convinced me I’m afraid.

People including myself. Just because you feel perfectly safe, doesn’t make me the only person who doesn’t. I am one of many, whether you like it or not. But I won’t speak for you.

24kPalamino · 05/01/2026 18:24

sleepwouldbenice · 05/01/2026 18:21

Completely not my experience so looks like opinions vary

I’m sure they do.

JHound · 05/01/2026 18:26

RingoJuice · 05/01/2026 18:22

They aren’t temporary for one (it started that way but has become a back door) and they get paid less, which undermines American wages. We have something else called the O-1 visa that brings in higher-value workers.

Taiwanese semiconductor engineers? 👍

Indian accountants? 👎

(In case you cared about the distinction here. Perhaps you don’t)

Edited

This is incoherent they still meet your definition of “expat.”

And why is their national origin relevant?

24kPalamino · 05/01/2026 18:26

Well I'm off to my line dancing class. Thank you all for a pleasant debate. Wishing you all a relaxing and peaceful evening.

DdraigGoch · 05/01/2026 18:40

RingoJuice · 05/01/2026 15:43

The correct term is expat

"Expat" is just a poncy word for "immigrant"

Donttellempike · 05/01/2026 18:41

24kPalamino · 05/01/2026 18:15

Well actually I do feel unsafe. I used to go into town on a Friday or Saturday evening, dressed up, glam for a night out. My friends and I wouldn’t do it now. Too many large groups of men hanging around and following the women. So the town is pretty much dead. It’s quite sad. That is what happens when you literally dump large groups of men in a small place, with nothing productive to do. And in many cases, they are not culturally aware when it comes to British women, which I don’t necessarily blame them for. That is their understanding and they have never lived differently.
But, it is very intimidating and still makes me feel unsafe.

You might ask why don’t I feel that way with British men (of any race btw)? Well my experience is that many British men can be complete arses. But generally the real weirdos were few and far between and the others were out for the same good night as us. Groups were much smaller and you could generally tell them to get lost, and largely they’d slink away. We never got followed. And we could understand what they were saying to each other too. When people speak in a different language to each other, and you don’t know what they are saying or if it’s about you, it can be a scary thing. I suspect that would be true regardless of culture, or ethnicity.
There are issues and they need to be talked about.

Which town?

Goldenbear · 05/01/2026 18:42

RingoJuice · 05/01/2026 18:16

Yes

What does it mean in English?

sleepwouldbenice · 05/01/2026 18:42

I am sure no one sheds any tears re Venezuela but it still doesn’t make it legal, whatever personal opinions might be

I am genuinely interested in what Trump supporters think of the US threats against Canada and Greenland?

DdraigGoch · 05/01/2026 18:47

RingoJuice · 05/01/2026 15:49

I don’t perceive him as pro-Russia. But we aren’t going to fight Europe’s war, because to the average European, it seems we are somehow pro-Russia because we aren’t ‘all in’ on Ukraine?? (but you could still yet snooker us in, I obviously hope this doesn’t happen)

Neutrality would have been one thing (except that the US signed the Budapest memorandum back in 1994 and if it wants to be trusted by investors etc. would do well to stick by agreements it signs).

The negotiations however have been anything but neutral. Was the televised ambush really how you speak to the leader of a foreign country in public? Swallowing almost every story spun by Putin and his minions. Heck, the proposal cooked up by Witkoff and Dmitriev was about as neutral as the one between Molotov and Ribbentrop.

SabrinaThwaite · 05/01/2026 18:56

RingoJuice · 05/01/2026 18:22

They aren’t temporary for one (it started that way but has become a back door) and they get paid less, which undermines American wages. We have something else called the O-1 visa that brings in higher-value workers.

Taiwanese semiconductor engineers? 👍

Indian accountants? 👎

(In case you cared about the distinction here. Perhaps you don’t)

Edited

Oh I do understand perfectly well.

Lived in the states for a while on H1B visa as an intra company transfer. We were rapidly getting nudged to applying for a green card, which neither of us wanted.

I’d say we were economic migrants though, as not planning to stay long term. Expat is a bit too colonial for my liking.

H1B required a bachelors degree as a minimum qualification, although DH’s contemporaries were at least MSc / PhD in a specialised field with niche skills, and is time limited.

The O-1 visa is quite different, as well you know.

DdraigGoch · 05/01/2026 18:58

@24kPalamino I spend a lot of time there, mostly in the Southern states and people don’t generally regret their vote.

These are the states who would vote for a literal turd if it had an 'R' next to its name.

The OP's question is probably better asked of the swing voters.

Goldenbear · 05/01/2026 19:03

JHound · 05/01/2026 18:06

I am not sure it’s that simple. Clinton secured more votes than Trump in 2016.

I think she was shoe horned in too late (without going through the primary process) so was never seen as a viable candidate.

Yes, in 2016 but failed to become President. In 2024, the American collective think was all hail the Trad wife so I think we can say with some conviction that this was a large part of it. Obviously, lots of factors came into it but a reality TV personality becoming President does make you wonder whether the voting choices were anything more than, 'simple'.

DdraigGoch · 05/01/2026 19:03

@ChattyCatty25 I don’t blame them because there was a lot of hysteria about Trump during his first term, but nothing much out of the ordinary happened.

Mostly because there were adults in the administration working behind the scenes to keep things half-sane. With some of his more loopy ideas they would slip the item out of his signing pile in the knowledge that he has the attention span of a gnat and will forget about it very shortly.

Now though the adults are gone. January 6th should have been the wakeup call - his supporters tried to lynch his own Vice President!

DdraigGoch · 05/01/2026 19:08

24kPalamino · 05/01/2026 16:49

Did you watch any of her interviews?

Have you ever listened to one of Trump's press conferences?

RingoJuice · 05/01/2026 19:17

SabrinaThwaite · 05/01/2026 18:56

Oh I do understand perfectly well.

Lived in the states for a while on H1B visa as an intra company transfer. We were rapidly getting nudged to applying for a green card, which neither of us wanted.

I’d say we were economic migrants though, as not planning to stay long term. Expat is a bit too colonial for my liking.

H1B required a bachelors degree as a minimum qualification, although DH’s contemporaries were at least MSc / PhD in a specialised field with niche skills, and is time limited.

The O-1 visa is quite different, as well you know.

You were expats. And it’s better for temp workers to think of themselves this way. We all have to leave at some point (well you could have got perm and probably GCs quite quickly but it shouldn’t really be an option imho)

RingoJuice · 05/01/2026 19:20

DdraigGoch · 05/01/2026 18:47

Neutrality would have been one thing (except that the US signed the Budapest memorandum back in 1994 and if it wants to be trusted by investors etc. would do well to stick by agreements it signs).

The negotiations however have been anything but neutral. Was the televised ambush really how you speak to the leader of a foreign country in public? Swallowing almost every story spun by Putin and his minions. Heck, the proposal cooked up by Witkoff and Dmitriev was about as neutral as the one between Molotov and Ribbentrop.

I don’t know the details but Putin will probably have kept the territory he currently holds, no? Not much you can do to make him give it up? Not following it closely tbh

And I don’t care how he talks to a leader that is looking for handouts ie taxpayer money.

SabrinaThwaite · 05/01/2026 19:28

RingoJuice · 05/01/2026 19:17

You were expats. And it’s better for temp workers to think of themselves this way. We all have to leave at some point (well you could have got perm and probably GCs quite quickly but it shouldn’t really be an option imho)

Nope, we were economic migrants on a temporary basis.

For a country built on the backs of immigrants, you’re very much into pulling up the ladder aren’t you?

RingoJuice · 05/01/2026 19:37

SabrinaThwaite · 05/01/2026 19:28

Nope, we were economic migrants on a temporary basis.

For a country built on the backs of immigrants, you’re very much into pulling up the ladder aren’t you?

I just think we should be more selective: I have no issue with a small pool of select people that will be huge contributors, your Elon Musk and Jenson Huang types. Migrant labor should be strictly limited to temp workers and only for a few years at most. No family sponsorship. Work, save, go home (like you did)

You forget that America has had long periods of low immigration. The 1924 Immigration Act pretty much shut the doors until 1965. So this is well within our tradition.

DdraigGoch · 05/01/2026 19:41

RingoJuice · 05/01/2026 18:22

They aren’t temporary for one (it started that way but has become a back door) and they get paid less, which undermines American wages. We have something else called the O-1 visa that brings in higher-value workers.

Taiwanese semiconductor engineers? 👍

Indian accountants? 👎

(In case you cared about the distinction here. Perhaps you don’t)

Edited

How do you feel about South African techbros?