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To be shocked that not even one y4 child knew the meaning of the word velvet?

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Utterlybananas333 · 01/01/2026 17:09

My sister is a teacher in a South London primary school, she is a year four teacher of around 30 8 to 9-year-olds. She was recently describing her disbelief over the fact that not a single child knew what velvet meant? There were some crazy guesses, and lots of children who thought it was cake (probably relating to red velvet). Is it just the fact that children and adults don't talk anymore? That nobody reads anymore? Or even watches educational TV programs? Would your child know?

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Longtimelurkerfinallyposts · 03/01/2026 11:38

LilyCanna · 01/01/2026 17:53

Do a lot of them live in flats? We do, and when we were staying with friends and I told DS (probably aged 10 then) that something was ‘on the landing’ he had no idea what I meant.

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surely if you live in a flat you're more likely to understand the word 'landing'?
is there not a staircase in your block?
doesn't it have multiple landings?

FreedomForFree · 03/01/2026 11:46

Snakebite61 · 03/01/2026 11:20

It's modern life. I bet they could teach you a thing or two about computers. I hope you get my gist.

Ime most young people don't actually know much about computers, they might be good at editing videos/ uploading content to social media but not so much using a computer.

AgnesMcDoo · 03/01/2026 11:51

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 03/01/2026 11:27

I can’t help wondering how many MNers ever buy or cook turnips!

They go very nicely in a vegetable soup or lamb stew, but hardly a very popular vegetable in the U.K. nowadays. Shame, because it’s locally grown, seasonal, and keeps very well, even just a half in the salad drawer.

I read not long ago that until fairly recently they were pretty much shunned in France, since during WW2 turnips were one of the few foods left to them by the invading Nazis. But lately I’ve seen plenty in French supermarkets.

If they are Scottish they will be very familiar with turnips. 🤣 it’s a staple food up here. Goes with our haggis or mince and tatties.

We are having it with our steak pie tonight.

Longtimelurkerfinallyposts · 03/01/2026 11:56

Sartre · 02/01/2026 08:39

I’m an English Lit academic and really unbothered by all of the points I have read here. Turnips are pretty much never eaten nowadays, the only way I’d expect a child to know what one was is through The Enormous Turnip. As for velvet, it isn’t a common fabric nowadays.

This doesn’t prove much, only that children haven’t been exposed to archaic vegetables.

Not true, in Scotland at least.
Turnips (the kind you might refer to as 'swedes') are pretty much always available in the vegetable aisle.
People eat them throughout the year, not just for Burns Night.
Far more commonly consumed - and recognised by children (of all social classes) - than many other vegetables (eg aubergines, courgettes, fennel).
They were being sold for 5p/15p each recently, as part of the modern supermarket tradition of loss-leading pre-Xmas veg pricing.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 03/01/2026 11:59

AgnesMcDoo · 03/01/2026 11:51

If they are Scottish they will be very familiar with turnips. 🤣 it’s a staple food up here. Goes with our haggis or mince and tatties.

We are having it with our steak pie tonight.

Do you mean what many of us call swede, though? I’m sure I’ve read that in Scotland what we call swedes (big orange things, still popular) are called turnips, which to me are smaller, white fleshed, and usually with a partly purple skin.

AgnesMcDoo · 03/01/2026 12:17

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 03/01/2026 11:59

Do you mean what many of us call swede, though? I’m sure I’ve read that in Scotland what we call swedes (big orange things, still popular) are called turnips, which to me are smaller, white fleshed, and usually with a partly purple skin.

I mean the smaller vegetable with the paler flesh.

I love turnips. I don’t really like swedes which are the more orange coloured veg which is often mashed together with carrots.

both are very available in Scotland but are not the same thing.

turnips are what we call neeps

Wildefish · 03/01/2026 12:35

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 02/01/2026 21:29

Jesus why on earth does that matter. This reminds me of when my daughter changed primary school after a house move. The teacher called me in saying that she had major dexterity issues because she couldn’t do the buttons up on her shirt. No she didn’t she just wasn’t used to buttons as her old uniform was a sweatshirt and she could get it on and off without needing to do the buttons. She just hadn’t needed to so hadn’t learnt yet - she was only 5 years. Point is kids are exposed to different things and different conversations.

I was told my left handed 5 year old couldn’t sew. She later got a first in contemporary design and art.

ObelixtheGaul · 03/01/2026 12:37

I haven't RTFT, so this may already have been pointed out, but it's, 'velveteen rabbit' not 'velvetine'. Velveteen isn't actually velvet, but it imitates it. I'd guess a lot of adults don't know what velveteen is...

BonneMamanAbricot · 03/01/2026 12:38

Bit of a random thing to be shocked about. My kids would probably know because some of them have velvet dresses, but I don't exactly see it as a harbinger of doom not to know...

TheMoth · 03/01/2026 13:00

Does anyone remember the furore over the aqa language paper about 10 years ago? Think it was an article about waste and pictured a swede wrapped in plastic. Idea being, of course, that a swede has its own packaging. So, so many kids didn't get it, because they had no idea what a swede was.

To be fair, I'm not sure my own kids would know what one was.

HelloDenise · 03/01/2026 13:15

TheMoth · 03/01/2026 13:00

Does anyone remember the furore over the aqa language paper about 10 years ago? Think it was an article about waste and pictured a swede wrapped in plastic. Idea being, of course, that a swede has its own packaging. So, so many kids didn't get it, because they had no idea what a swede was.

To be fair, I'm not sure my own kids would know what one was.

I thought it was the same thing as a turnip.

Raiseaglassforeverynote · 03/01/2026 13:32

HelloDenise · 03/01/2026 13:15

I thought it was the same thing as a turnip.

A swede is also known as a Swedish turnip so it’s become known as a swede in some places and turnip in others (or as rutabaga in the US). Swedes are different from white turnips though as shown in the image below, so clarification is sometimes needed if you’re in a place (as I am) where swedes are usually just called turnips.

To be shocked that not even one y4 child knew the meaning of the word velvet?
eastegg · 03/01/2026 14:02

Watchoutfortheslowaraf · 03/01/2026 10:14

My daughter is an avid reader but prefers modern books. Therefore hasn’t come across the word velvet in any way other than a red velvet cake. Not knowing one word does not necessarily mean all the children do not read.

I think if you take an individual child the point gets a bit lost. Of course a child could read lots and still not know the word. But they’re more likely to. And across bigger samples of children, the link starts to show.

TheKeatingFive · 03/01/2026 14:14

eastegg · 03/01/2026 14:02

I think if you take an individual child the point gets a bit lost. Of course a child could read lots and still not know the word. But they’re more likely to. And across bigger samples of children, the link starts to show.

Are they? Only if it's the type of word featured frequently in children's books. Which I would argue is not the case.

eastegg · 03/01/2026 16:08

TheKeatingFive · 03/01/2026 11:31

I don't think it denotes lack of reading at all. If you think of the type of books 8/9 year olds are exposed to nowadays, particularly boys, velvet is unlikely to feature very prominently.

Velvet wouldn’t need to ‘feature prominently’ for the word to be used. I’ve kind of made this point in the post you’ve quoted. It could easily be used descriptively about lots of things.

TheKeatingFive · 03/01/2026 16:10

eastegg · 03/01/2026 16:08

Velvet wouldn’t need to ‘feature prominently’ for the word to be used. I’ve kind of made this point in the post you’ve quoted. It could easily be used descriptively about lots of things.

Well it could, but equally modern day children could read very widely without coming across it in any significant way at all.

eastegg · 03/01/2026 16:12

TheKeatingFive · 03/01/2026 14:14

Are they? Only if it's the type of word featured frequently in children's books. Which I would argue is not the case.

Why would it need to be used frequently? It could be used once to describe, say, an animal’s fur, and stick in the child’s mind.

I’m only really saying that reading widens vocabulary, and this is especially going to show with words that aren’t encountered so much in everyday life, just like this one.

Rhaenys · 03/01/2026 16:14

It’s surprising to me due to how popular velvet sofas are these days.

TheKeatingFive · 03/01/2026 16:14

eastegg · 03/01/2026 16:12

Why would it need to be used frequently? It could be used once to describe, say, an animal’s fur, and stick in the child’s mind.

I’m only really saying that reading widens vocabulary, and this is especially going to show with words that aren’t encountered so much in everyday life, just like this one.

Because if they only come across it once or twice it may not stick.

I just don't get the focus on one specific word. It's not a useful indicator of anything.

Raiseaglassforeverynote · 03/01/2026 16:15

The Velveteen Rabbit is still a classic.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 03/01/2026 16:22

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 02/01/2026 20:12

I’m going to ask my similar aged child when I’m out the bath. I have a feeling they’d also have no clue.

He kind of knew. At first he thought it was a flower, then started talking about cloth and fabric and then described it pretty well.

Supergirl1958 · 03/01/2026 17:05

mrpenny · 03/01/2026 00:41

I’ve been teaching for over forty years. What’s scary about teaching vocabulary????? It’s always been our job. Bizarre comment

Did you read my post correctly?

Im talking explicit teaching of vocabulary and not just topic or book specific. Even basic vocabulary, (I’m in EYFS think big/little…you’d be surprised how many kids don’t understand the definition of these words!!!) it’s increased all over the curriculum and there is more of a focus on it than ever before!

Not a bizarre comment but thankyou! I suspect you knew what I meant too but chose to be deliberately mean!

Supergirl1958 · 03/01/2026 17:08

@mrpenny and I also didn’t say teaching vocabulary was scary, I said it’s scary how basic we have to go and yet despite low attainers on entry still have to achieve higher percentages of children meeting age related expectations, which I suspect you knew too!

Lasnailinthecoffin · 03/01/2026 19:30

PalmTreesandPinaColada123 · 01/01/2026 17:16

To be fair, who wears velvet anymore? Why would they know such a random word?

I wear velvet, particularly round Christmas and New Year. It's very warm and feels luxurious.

HugglesAndSnuggles · 03/01/2026 19:34

I don’t think it’s particularly shocking really OP. Velvet isn’t a particularly popular fabric anymore so the word probably just isn’t used as much anymore. Now I think about it, I can’t remember the last time I said it, or even thought about it prior to this thread.

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