Married for 25 years and if I don’t do things they don’t get done. I work p/t so am happy to take on brunt of cooking, shopping, hwork but I also sort out the house, finances, days out, holidays, kids etc. He says he earns the money but that just makes feel like the paid help. It’s like having an extra child and I’m so tired of being the adult all the time. Does anyone else have a husband who thinks his only job in the marriage is to put money in the bank account ( and we’re not talking millions here!).