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Bf is a pest

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Kiki19930 · 29/12/2025 03:10

My long distance bf is 23 I’m 35 been together a year and half
each time I see him sometimes a week apart or 2.

first day after being apart, each time soon as we alone he will keep trying to have sex and it is each time and it feels he won’t stop till he gets it then it’s done
but I’m feeling like I don’t want to straight away and I feel strong on this
we fell out other night he was mean with words

I can’t just forget it
so any advice

OP posts:
Yellowshirt · 29/12/2025 03:16

Dump him. He's an immature pushy, sex pest.
He has no respect for you or even the most basic manners. Aim higher. You want a gentleman

Katflapkit · 29/12/2025 03:16

He's a sex pest. It's totally normal to get the ick with a sex pest

DahlsChickenz · 29/12/2025 04:45

Break up. Not only is his behaviour totally inappropriate and disrespectful, the age gap is huge and he's very young. There is absolutely nothing good or worth fighting for here.

Silverbirchleaf · 29/12/2025 05:06

Ditch him. Hes young and he’s taking advantage of you. He’s not respecting you. There’s no long term future in this.

Growuppeople · 29/12/2025 05:07

lol 😂

Millytante · 29/12/2025 05:12

Mother of God 🙄

Teanbiscuits33 · 29/12/2025 05:36

I’m around the same age as you, and I can’t imagine finding a 23 year old man attractive. You’re both adults and everyone’s different I guess, but I would find it odd! To be fair, even when I was 23 I wouldn’t have dated most 23 year old men 🤣

Generally speaking, women mature faster than men and with you being 12 years older anyway, that will be even more profound! Nobody likes a pest and he’s coming across really immature and like he doesn’t see you as a person but a sex doll! Get rid of him.

Aplstrudl · 29/12/2025 07:12

This must be a joke. Why do you think a 23 is with an older woman….you're a booty call, not a relationship.

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