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Megan and Harry - what goes on there?

22 replies

DireStraights · 28/12/2025 21:54

seriously - what is ACTUALLY going on here?
To burn through this many staff, something has to be fundamentally broken. But what?
Theory 1: They’re impossibly demanding bosses - unrealistic expectations, constant changes, no boundaries between work and personal life
Theory 2: Staff are being put in ethically compromising positions - asked to lie, spin stories, or do things that conflict with their professional integrity
Theory 3: The “workshy” rumors are true - maybe the staff are actually expected to do all the heavy lifting while the principals don’t pull their weight but still expect results and publicity
Or is it something else entirely? Bad chemistry? Impossible to please? A revolving door that’s now self-perpetuating because nobody good wants to touch it?
What do you think ? Have you seen this pattern elsewhere? What makes the most sense?

Harry and Meghan lose 11th publicist in five years

www.thetimes.com/article/fbd98014-a3b6-4fd6-a4f4-5daf4da04578?shareToken=8dc7b92426cddf02b56a67d27843299e

OP posts:
TheGrimSqueakersFlea · 28/12/2025 21:55

Try asking on the royal family board

Endofyear · 28/12/2025 22:38

No idea and don't really care either 😂

LadyTable · 28/12/2025 22:45

I have no idea.

Are you this mentally invested in everyone else's lives or just theirs?

It's not really healthy and I have no idea what your AIBU question even is.

PullTheBricksDown · 28/12/2025 23:07

1 and 3 seem pretty close together. Seems like they have unrealistic expectations, and, ironically, don't like taking the advice they are paying for.

Jc2001 · 28/12/2025 23:35

Never understood why people are so invested in other people's lives. Seriously.

tartyflette · 28/12/2025 23:39

TheGrimSqueakersFlea · 28/12/2025 21:55

Try asking on the royal family board

Are posters there really likely to know?

pizzaHeart · 28/12/2025 23:40

tartyflette · 28/12/2025 23:39

Are posters there really likely to know?

👏👏👏

TheGrimSqueakersFlea · 28/12/2025 23:51

tartyflette · 28/12/2025 23:39

Are posters there really likely to know?

No, but it keeps royal family shite off aibu. Or were you just trying to be bitchy?

Jc2001 · 29/12/2025 00:05

tartyflette · 28/12/2025 23:39

Are posters there really likely to know?

They probably care marginally more than people on the AIBU thread.

Sweetiedarling7 · 29/12/2025 00:19

The consensus appears to be that MM is a terrible boss. Accusations of bullying behaviour have been frequent both initially in the UK and years on in the US.

TeaRoseTallulah · 29/12/2025 00:29

I'm here for the drama OP,I love a bit of royal gossip !

PickAChew · 29/12/2025 00:31

tartyflette · 28/12/2025 23:39

Are posters there really likely to know?

No, but at least people can hide that board and not come across this ghoulish tripe if they're not interested.

arbielle · 29/12/2025 00:35

I don’t know but I do feel sorry for them and the rest of the family. Things are worse than ever all around.

Radionowhere · 29/12/2025 00:36

I think they want to have royal type profiles and expect a publicist to make that happen. Unfortunately for them they're becoming less and less relevant so that's become something of an impossible task and they need the the money to maintain the lifestyle so they're getting a bit desperate. If they'd actually wanted a quiet life away from the spotlight they'd be fine.

NautilusLionfish · 29/12/2025 00:40

maybe working for H&M is good for the CV and so people working for them are head hunter or go on to bigger things because they boost CVs
Also we dont know the typical PR staff turnover for people like H&M so without that benchmark we cant say whether thus is unusual

BoxesBoxesEverywhere · 29/12/2025 00:42

tartyflette · 28/12/2025 23:39

Are posters there really likely to know?

No, but they're just as obsessed and sometimes come across a little bit unhinged so would fit on there better.

chunkyBoo · 29/12/2025 01:36

I think it’s 1&2, also 3 if by work shy, you mean H&M!

they oooze drama and toxicity, must be a shitty place to work! Also meghans big 2025 has just thrust her into number 1 most hated ‘sleb along with Harry at number 5

Katflapkit · 29/12/2025 01:54

I think she is someone who lovebombs a new employee at the beginning but turns on them quickly. I think he is hapless. Intellectually, I imagine she can run rings around him so he probably sits back.and let's it happen without much input.

As they keep making the same gaffes, over exposure, cringe worthy material/content and tone deaf interviews, they are clearly not taking on advice or expert opinion.

They really need to shut up shop, stop doing interviews, television shows, fashion shows, the opening of envelopes. If they step out of the limelight to raise their family for a few years behind the scenes, I think there will be more respect for them.

Camilla turned the tables and public opinion.

Genevieva · 29/12/2025 02:21

Theory 4:
It is a dead mend job that people apply for for the wrong reasons and jump ship as soon as they get something better.

slashlover · 29/12/2025 03:20

Theory 4 - KP has released so many lies to the media that there's nothing which can be done to rehab their image. (Remember when certain journalists admitted that some of their stories were leaked from the palace?) Journalists want to stay on the RFs good side.

M&H on this thread alone have been called terrible bosses, bullies, desperate, work shy, toxic based on...what?

Let's not forget this old favourite comparing media stories about Catherine vs Meghan. For example, Catherine's bouquet had lily of the valley which signifies the return of happiness, her bouquet was full of hand picked blooms. Meghan's bouquet had lily of the valley which is deadly to children and dangerous to Charlotte.

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/ellievhall/meghan-markle-kate-middleton-double-standards-royal

Here Are 20 Headlines Comparing Meghan Markle To Kate Middleton That Might Show Why She And Prince Harry Are Cutting Off Royal Reporters

Over the years, Meghan has been shamed for the same things for which her sister-in-law, Kate, has been praised.

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/ellievhall/meghan-markle-kate-middleton-double-standards-royal

catpigeon · 29/12/2025 05:20

Well I do know someone vv close to the BP media machine and the comment is that the PoW is as bonkers as the rest of them. And very very lazy.

tartyflette · 29/12/2025 20:36

TheGrimSqueakersFlea · 28/12/2025 23:51

No, but it keeps royal family shite off aibu. Or were you just trying to be bitchy?

Sceptical, rather than bitchy, I'd say😉

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