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Think I saw my fetch on the way to the train station this morning so aibu to ask mumsnetters attuned to such things

16 replies

Pavementworrier · 28/12/2025 08:02

If this is definitely a bad sign?

(I have never seen a ghost of any kind before, was sure I saw a woman sitting on a wall and started bracing myself to pass her as thought she'd probably be odd sitting on the dark like that but when I got to where I'd seen her she was gone - and on reflection she looked very like me)

(I know plenty of people will think this is silly so please don't feel the need to tell me so!)

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Owly11 · 28/12/2025 08:04

What is a fetch? Sounds intriguing.

user1476613140 · 28/12/2025 08:04

A fetch?

ThePoshUns · 28/12/2025 08:06

I don’t know what you mean by fetch.
I used to work nights and often thought I’d seen a person but got closer to find it was a postbox or road furniture.

SleafordSods · 28/12/2025 08:06

I don’t understand the term either.

CrowMate · 28/12/2025 08:07

According to Google: Long Life: Conversely, some reports suggest that a sighting in the morning is a sign of a long and prosperous life.

Pavementworrier · 28/12/2025 08:07

An apparition who looks exactly like the person it resembles (doppelgänger)

Some people think it's a harbinger of the person's death

Again I am not a ghost seeing person so this is a new one on me

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Pavementworrier · 28/12/2025 08:08

CrowMate · 28/12/2025 08:07

According to Google: Long Life: Conversely, some reports suggest that a sighting in the morning is a sign of a long and prosperous life.

I saw that too, I am going to have to go with it I think!

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Nevermind17 · 28/12/2025 08:11

I see all kinds of things that aren’t there. Your brain can play amazing tricks. You might see something that resembles a part of something else, and your brain can add in all the missing details automatically. I saw a red parrot on a bush in my garden, eyes, big yellow beak, the works. When I walked over, I could see it was just a red flower. The yellow beak was nowhere to be seen!

I wouldn’t worry about your impending death OP.

Pavementworrier · 28/12/2025 08:13

Nevermind17 · 28/12/2025 08:11

I see all kinds of things that aren’t there. Your brain can play amazing tricks. You might see something that resembles a part of something else, and your brain can add in all the missing details automatically. I saw a red parrot on a bush in my garden, eyes, big yellow beak, the works. When I walked over, I could see it was just a red flower. The yellow beak was nowhere to be seen!

I wouldn’t worry about your impending death OP.

Yes generally that's my take on the supernatural but I am sure i saw her and I walked right past where she was sitting (on a wall as though she was waiting for someone). I even had a look around to make sure she wasn't hiding and waiting to leap out.

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PersephoneParlormaid · 28/12/2025 08:15

I was convinced there was a tortoiseshell cat sitting under next doors car, I even smiled at it. Next morning it was still there, except it wasn’t a cat, it was dried leaves on a piece of a hedge that had blown under their car.

ThePoshUns · 28/12/2025 08:17

Every time I approach a certain junction I’m convinced there is a young girl sat on the pavement hunched over. It’s a temp rpas sign held down by a sand bag.

Pavementworrier · 28/12/2025 08:17

PersephoneParlormaid · 28/12/2025 08:15

I was convinced there was a tortoiseshell cat sitting under next doors car, I even smiled at it. Next morning it was still there, except it wasn’t a cat, it was dried leaves on a piece of a hedge that had blown under their car.

A meowrage is so disappointing

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Satsuma55 · 28/12/2025 08:17

Pavementworrier · 28/12/2025 08:07

An apparition who looks exactly like the person it resembles (doppelgänger)

Some people think it's a harbinger of the person's death

Again I am not a ghost seeing person so this is a new one on me

Looks like the person it resembles?

😂, well, yeah.

TonyTheImpala · 28/12/2025 08:20

Our brains like to make patterns, particularly familiar ones.

Alwaystired23 · 28/12/2025 08:21

If it was dark, I would say your mind was playing tricks on you. As a pp has said, your brain will try to fill in the gaps. There's a tabby cat at the bottom of my garden, it's actually a bit of a tree stump my dh needs to get rid of. But every time, despite knowing it's there my brain thinks for a split second it's a cat.

WinterBerry40 · 28/12/2025 08:22

I sit with the window to the left of me when I watch t.v. . Out of the corner of my eye I often see someone walking on my path outside the window .
When I properly turn my head to look , no-one is there . I think it's just your brain playing tricks on you.

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