AIBU to think donut in face is not funny

[MuffWat]

We were out for DD birthday meal. She received a free donut for her bday with whipped cream and sprinkles on top. As she took her first bite, husband decided to shove it in her face. Donut fell out of her hand - cream all over her dress, me, the chair....
I did not find this at all funny. Am I being a miserable cow? I just can't see why anyone would do that in a restaurant for your child's birthday

I hate this and why does it always so often seem to be grown men doing to women and children - most often men doing to their brides with wedding cake.

My 10 year old is of the same opinion and I'm not surprised your daughter was in shock. What an absolutely dick of a thing to do. Its not funny. Tell him.

horrible and nasty. “funny” doesn’t even come into it. poor little(?) girl. I hope you can make it up to her and replicate the doughnut and let her eat it without husband there. does he normally waste food? and create washing? I’d be having stern words YANBU