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Why is Holly Ramsay covered with a tablecloth?

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ellyoctober · 27/12/2025 14:39

Oh the arrogance of I’ve got TO KEEP MY DRESS from hoi polloi

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Roobarbtwo · 27/12/2025 18:44

Slovenlyandblubbing · 27/12/2025 18:42

Did you get married in Bath Abbey though?

They apparently paid extra cash to have it shut off from the public even after they left - that screams entitled to me

Middlemarch123 · 27/12/2025 18:50

BellaVita · 27/12/2025 15:43

He maybe a foul mouthed chef - but that is all for tv. Honestly, he is such a lovely guy and very sincere.

Our son (28) passed away on the 29th June from a Glioblastoma. When he was first diagnosed June 2022 and after his first craniotomy and treatment, DS started to watch an episode of Hell's Kitchen every evening. He worked his way through all of the series. I wrote to Gordon's PA to ask when the next series would be out. I didn't hear anything for a while and wasn't even sure if my email had arrived or if it had even got to the correct person.

Anyway...after about two months I received a reply apologising for the delay but also saying it's difficult to pin Gordon down. Attached to the email was a lovely personal video to DS from Gordon, he also invited us and DS's friends over to Connecticut for the filming of the up and coming season which was June 2024. We kept in touch as the visit to the states was dependent on DS's scan which was due in the April (this was about the November 2023), unfortunately the scan showed new growth and DS was literally in for another craniotomy within the week. He was unable to fly for so many weeks after and we sadly couldn't fly to the states.

Last December 2024, we were guests at Restaurant Gordon Ramsay and also Lucky Cat/Bar and Grill over two evenings. DS's friends came with us. We were treat like kings and queens. They could honestly not do enough for us.

Am not sure why I have told you all of the above...you certainly didn't need to know it all, but I think the moral of the story is don't judge...😊

With regards to the groom and his mother - we only have one side of the story (hers)...

Bless you @BellaVita .
I know a close friend who worked with GR, was in one of his London kitchens. Said he was a firm but fair boss, who gave 100% and expected 100% back. He said he learned so much from him. My friend is now a top chef, he says he owes it all to GR. Most of all he said GR was a family man, and was understanding and very compassionate when my friend was going through an unexpected family bereavement. I have always got the impression that he is a lovely guy too.

BettysRoasties · 27/12/2025 18:50

Roobarbtwo · 27/12/2025 18:43

A lot of sacrifices - much more than a lot of parents. Adam may look back on this decision and regret it in time

Or maybe she will look back and regret whatever she said to make it so she was not longer invited to his wedding.

Though really the person who caused the biggest fallout was the sister who posted it all publicly again calling out Holly rather than her own nephew. Then mummy peaty started posting and selling stories.

NothingLeftToInheritDarlings · 27/12/2025 18:50

Dartmoorcheffy · 27/12/2025 15:23

Bath Abbey is right in the middle of the shops. To be honest I don't understand why they couldn't have hired a huge country house with a marriage licence and done all this in privacy. All this just screams pretentious attention seekers.

Maybe she wanted a church wedding? You can't have that in a huge country house as they are not licensed for that. There are about 3 venues in the south of England that have a parish church in the same place (we just booked one of them and there was only 1 date left in 2027!).

Roobarbtwo · 27/12/2025 18:52

BettysRoasties · 27/12/2025 18:50

Or maybe she will look back and regret whatever she said to make it so she was not longer invited to his wedding.

Though really the person who caused the biggest fallout was the sister who posted it all publicly again calling out Holly rather than her own nephew. Then mummy peaty started posting and selling stories.

Again - I'm on Caroline's side over this - and not going to argue about it

cockandbullstories · 27/12/2025 18:53

The only reason I've heard about this wedding is because of the fallout with Adam and his mother.

NothingLeftToInheritDarlings · 27/12/2025 18:56

PodMom · 27/12/2025 15:33

You also I thought had to have a valid reason to marry in bath Abbey, so to be a parishioner, have a family connection. Guess money talks 🤷‍♀️

Or you can go to a service once a month for 6 months - easily done - we had to do it as my parents had moved out of the parish where we wanted to be married. And if you're "famous" (I for one must admit I wouldn't have known who either of them was), if you turn up in jeans and plain top pretty much no-one would have known who they were.

BellaVita · 27/12/2025 18:57

Middlemarch123 · 27/12/2025 18:50

Bless you @BellaVita .
I know a close friend who worked with GR, was in one of his London kitchens. Said he was a firm but fair boss, who gave 100% and expected 100% back. He said he learned so much from him. My friend is now a top chef, he says he owes it all to GR. Most of all he said GR was a family man, and was understanding and very compassionate when my friend was going through an unexpected family bereavement. I have always got the impression that he is a lovely guy too.

That’s so nice to read and confirms what I have always thought about GR ❤️

EmmaStone · 27/12/2025 19:02

I popped into Bath this afternoon, and walked past the Abbey, there was a stunning flower arch over the main door which was being dismantled and they were giving bouquets from the flowers out to passers-by, which I thought was a nice thing to do.

PodMom · 27/12/2025 19:14

Middlemarch123 · 27/12/2025 18:50

Bless you @BellaVita .
I know a close friend who worked with GR, was in one of his London kitchens. Said he was a firm but fair boss, who gave 100% and expected 100% back. He said he learned so much from him. My friend is now a top chef, he says he owes it all to GR. Most of all he said GR was a family man, and was understanding and very compassionate when my friend was going through an unexpected family bereavement. I have always got the impression that he is a lovely guy too.

Not sure he’s much of a family man, he has an unusual arrest record/behaviour in public toilets for that. Maybe he’s a changed man I guess. But good to hear he’s a nice boss.

alexisccd · 27/12/2025 19:16

JackGrealishsCalves · 27/12/2025 18:04

I know it well as my ds is at Bath Uni.
Probably the worst location they could have chosen bearing in mind the footfall around there.
Ds is so glad he is still at home for Xmas and doesn't have to be anywhere near Bath centre!

is your DS actually commenting on being happy he’s not in Bath town centre today as it’s so busy? Is he my Great Aunt Deirdre? I simply can’t imagine my uni age kids spending even a moments thought on this.

Roobarbtwo · 27/12/2025 19:18

PodMom · 27/12/2025 19:14

Not sure he’s much of a family man, he has an unusual arrest record/behaviour in public toilets for that. Maybe he’s a changed man I guess. But good to hear he’s a nice boss.

He was arrested for assault apparently. The indecency claims are apparently unsubstantiated

LeticiaMorales · 27/12/2025 19:19

Roobarbtwo · 27/12/2025 19:18

He was arrested for assault apparently. The indecency claims are apparently unsubstantiated

He was with mates after a drunken night out. There was some "high jinks" in a public toilet in Green Park (I think).

Bankiebabe · 27/12/2025 19:20

Because they would sell their soul for money. Can’t buy class.

InterIgnis · 27/12/2025 19:20

Roobarbtwo · 27/12/2025 18:31

I actually feel quite sorry for Caroline Peaty. She must have made huge sacrifices when her son was young -, re his training - and there have been comments that Peaty got his head turned by the Ramsays.

Not excusing anything that happened where Adam got threats from his own brother but apparently it all started over a text that Caroline sent Holly over family being excluded from the engagement party

Caroline apparently has or had an active role in helping Peaty with his son. She was looking after him the weekend of the hen night but isn't good enough to go to the wedding

I don't think he treated his ex Eri very well either and he acknowledged that

I'm on his mums side on this one

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Did she sacrifice for him though, or for the kudos of having an Olympian for a son? Someone being a good stage parent isn’t the same thing as being a good parent.

Caroline Peaty is one that’s going out of her way to make a public drama over this, along with the brother who was arrested for sending death threats. She’s throwing a pity party for herself via the daily mail and bleating about wanting reconciliation, yet at the same time she’s running to the tabloids and flying flags half mast in an attempt to overshadow the wedding. It’s twattish behavior, and it’s entirely understandable that he’s cut her off.

LeticiaMorales · 27/12/2025 19:20

alexisccd · 27/12/2025 19:16

is your DS actually commenting on being happy he’s not in Bath town centre today as it’s so busy? Is he my Great Aunt Deirdre? I simply can’t imagine my uni age kids spending even a moments thought on this.

I know! What uni lad even notices how busy town centres are?! 😀

canuckup · 27/12/2025 19:27

I'd edge my bets that girl is hard work

hollytheheroic · 27/12/2025 19:29

InterIgnis · 27/12/2025 19:20

Did she sacrifice for him though, or for the kudos of having an Olympian for a son? Someone being a good stage parent isn’t the same thing as being a good parent.

Caroline Peaty is one that’s going out of her way to make a public drama over this, along with the brother who was arrested for sending death threats. She’s throwing a pity party for herself via the daily mail and bleating about wanting reconciliation, yet at the same time she’s running to the tabloids and flying flags half mast in an attempt to overshadow the wedding. It’s twattish behavior, and it’s entirely understandable that he’s cut her off.

You don't know they're going to turn out to be Olympians when you have to take them to the pool at 5am at aged ten, of course she did it to give him an opportunity as most parents would. But that doesn't mean he owes her anything in return. He could however treat her with respect and it doesn't look like there's been much of that here.

Americano75 · 27/12/2025 19:33

Family man? He had a seven year affair.

Roobarbtwo · 27/12/2025 19:36

hollytheheroic · 27/12/2025 19:29

You don't know they're going to turn out to be Olympians when you have to take them to the pool at 5am at aged ten, of course she did it to give him an opportunity as most parents would. But that doesn't mean he owes her anything in return. He could however treat her with respect and it doesn't look like there's been much of that here.

I think Peaty is insufferable and he obviously hurt his ex Eri a lot. He's found his level with the Ramsays as far as I'm aware.

hivizzz · 27/12/2025 19:38

I know her, we had some overlap a few years ago. We never “clicked” - she’s not my kind of person and I’m not hers - but equally, I have nothing bad to say about her. She was always sweet, polite, and down to earth, maybe even a bit shy/withdrawn (although that obviously could have changed since then). Quite a few posters accusing her of being attention seeking etc. but I honestly never got that feeling from her, either in person or by reputation. She looks genuinely happy in the photos - as she should be on her wedding day - and that’s all that should matter. At the end of the day she’s just a person like the rest of us, and I think a lot of posters would do well to remember that.

gogomomo2 · 27/12/2025 19:39

I know lots of people who went to see them going in and several people who were working in some way (I know people who work there) it was quite an event apparently

BettysRoasties · 27/12/2025 19:42

She looked quite nervous by accounts in the paper rather than some stuck up arrogant type brimming with confidence.

I doubt either of them thought their wedding itself would become such a circus of paps and people. Without public feuds and such.

He should have been the one helping his little one get sorted though rather than letting everyone else from a tiktok video I’ve seen shared.

InterIgnis · 27/12/2025 19:43

hollytheheroic · 27/12/2025 19:29

You don't know they're going to turn out to be Olympians when you have to take them to the pool at 5am at aged ten, of course she did it to give him an opportunity as most parents would. But that doesn't mean he owes her anything in return. He could however treat her with respect and it doesn't look like there's been much of that here.

That doesn’t mean she wasn’t doing it for herself. Talent and potential is evident from early on, and he was put on that particular track.

What she’s choosing to do now doesn’t deserve respect.

Cat1202 · 27/12/2025 19:46

I thought it all looked very sad, if they want privacy with all their money go somewhere private and she can arrive in her dress and let everyone see it. This isn’t what marriage is about surely?