Why is Holly Ramsay covered with a tablecloth?

[ellyoctober]

Oh the arrogance of I’ve got TO KEEP MY DRESS from hoi polloi

I don’t think the aunt would have spoke out without the mother’s approval, to be honest.

And it seems his mother has been causing issues long before the hen.

She wasn’t happy that her extended family members were not invited to the engagement party, she confronted Gordon Ramsay about it at the party and made a bit of a scene.

She was also planning on wearing white to the wedding - despite absolutely no one apart from the bride being dressed in white yesterday. Apparently Adam offered to take her shopping for another outfit, but she didn’t show up.

And who knows what else has happened.

Even if she hasn't been paid, the fact she is going to the press is bad enough

Agree it’s all v hard to defend.

Yes I wouldn’t speak to family members who couldn’t hold their shit so to speak.

who knows what else they might sell or give away.

The whole flying the flag in distress and the publicised text message is just hammering more nails into the coffin of her relationship with him and it is very sad. I suspect she’s in an echo chamber now and has a journalist egging her on

as for discussing what HR is wearing etc - she’s an influencer! This is how she makes her money!!

Might the flag have been there before?

I’m glad you put this as I saw a news clip today and couldn’t belive people would actually take time away from their families to stand outside a church and watch random non celebs getting married especially on Christmas Day. Which brings me to WhoTF is so arrogant to get married Christmas Day and expect people to give up their Christmas family Christmas just for them.

It wasn’t Christmas Day is was Saturday

Bath during Xmas markets is horrific. Why are people eye rolling?

Maybe. But they turned it upside down to be ‘in distress’

Ahhh I had it in my head it was Christmas Day, apologies. Still think they are arrogant knobs anyway.

Tell me you've lost track of what day it is without .......😂

So that’s entirely different from the scenario that you painted at the beginning and the scenario that this Olympic champion has been brought up under.
You are literally trying to nail your colours to their mast which makes no sense whatsoever
I hope therapy works out well for you.

You didn’t invite either mum, neither did my DD or DDIL. I was fine with that too. Seems divisive to include one mum perhaps?

Its obviously a celebrity show off wedding.
How many of Adam's school friends were there?
How many from his swimming clubs?

The Beckhams are her dad's friends. No wonder Brooklyn broke off otherwise he would have been expected to go as well. The whole brand out together.

I know its possibly normal to have a few of your parents friends there but not the whole family.

When I got married a couple of my parents good friends came. They did not bring their children.

Its bloody awful, this brand thing and we must go everywhere together.
Brooklyn has seen sense.

Why is it divisive to invite friends family and people you love?

Would you invite someone who dislikes you to what’s meant to be a fun time?

Would you say mil deserves to be in the delivery room if mum is?

The hen is about the brides comfort and fun. Not about appeasing someone else’s feelings.

I wouldn’t invite my mil even if I did invite my mum.

I don’t know when in-laws actually started expecting to be invited to the hens/stags of their child’s future husband/wife. Weird.

I don’t know the rest but I did see some swimming people mentioned in the paper 😅

Tbf the Ramsay kids and beckham kids spent a lot of time together so are most likely friends

Or reframe that- the Beckham and Ramsay kids have grown up together. Tana and Victoria are best friends so although it’s not a given, it’s likely their kids are friends.

FYI, I didn’t have any school friends at my wedding. It’s not a character flaw.

Just to play Devils Advocate here - I had my parents friends at my wedding - with their kids too. We all know each other really well having spent lots of time together as families so it seemed natural and normal to want them all there. For some people it happens like that.

Anthia Turner all over again.

Did they though? It wasn’t obvs inverted, might aways have been incorrectly hung & press hyping up.

This

Why? A hen do is for the bride’s close friends and family. I’ve never been to a hen with a MIL present, and only a couple with the mother. It’s simply not true that brides who are close to their mothers have to invite MILs to their hen - that would be weird and completely change the vibe.

You just like arguing for a reaction. On loads of threads