My ex left me 3 months ago , he wont be seeing the children on christmas day but will proberly call and face time them , the children are happy to spend it with me and my family this year ( the first time in 17years ) ..
Its xmas eve tomorow and hes shown no sign of communicating with me about maybe seeing them tomorow .
Do i contact him ? .
He sees them every other weekend supervised due to him drinking alcohol during our marrige and i just cant trust him .
He spoke on the phone with the kids yesterday and my eldest didnt want to talk after feeling awkward as he was clearly under the influance .
I have a fun evening planned tomorow and im not to botherd about him seeing them , i wont chase him and if he doesnt show willing to see them i wont push it ...
Please dont tell me im.a bad mum , im trying to keep my kids from being sad and myself