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Does this sound like the flu?

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Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:06

Yesterday evening I started feeling ‘off’ - achy limbs, fatigue and couldn’t get warm, chills etc. I just thought I’d sit with it and see how it progressed. I ate my tea and just lay down on the sofa all evening.
I woke in the night feeling really really cold again, shivering. I had a hot water horror in my bed and my DP in there too. So another persons body heat. I took my temperature using an oral thermometer- it said 36.1 (I do have a low body temp). So it wasn’t anywhere near a fever, I did it three times and the same result.
I went back to bed and went back to sleep.
This morning I had breakfast (kind of low appetite but forced down something) , dropped my DS at his swimming lesson in the car then went for a short walk to get some air.
Still felt a bit achy in my knees etc but not too bad but getting these waves of fatigue on and off.

Now this evening the feeling of cold/chills and aching has come back. I keep sneezing and have a tickle/dry throat and keep needing to cough.

And then this extreme fatigue, falling asleep on the sofa which is unlike me.

I’m so paranoid about this super flu!

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Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:06

Oh and my temp this evening is 36.7

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Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:06

*bottle not horror!

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TidyCyan · 20/12/2025 17:07

You've obviously got some sort of virus. Kindly - does it matter what it is?

grinchmcgrinchface · 20/12/2025 17:08

Doubt youll be better in time for christmas, kindly your sick it doesn’t matter what it is.

Grammarninja · 20/12/2025 17:14

You don't have a temp so hopefully it's just a cold/cough and the rundown feeling that comes with this time of year. Keep an eye on your temp.
Night sweats and waking feeling frozen are common at a certain age (I'm, 43). Seems to only happen to me in winter or when I'm stressed out.

Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:16

@grinchmcgrinchface Do you really think? It’s 5 days away so I was hoping I might be?
We are seeing my side of the family this year (we alternate) so I’ll be gutted if we miss out -and my 7 year old DS will be disappointed too.

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Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:17

@Grammarninja I’m 37 but I am due on my period on Christmas Day !

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Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:18

@TidyCyan I have OCD and ADHD so I tend to fixate and obsess, so yes it does really 🫣

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gamerchick · 20/12/2025 17:19

Whatever it is it's a lurgy. You might feel better by Christmas but probably not 100% can you go to bed and sleep through it dosed up with nightnurse?

TidyCyan · 20/12/2025 17:20

Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:18

@TidyCyan I have OCD and ADHD so I tend to fixate and obsess, so yes it does really 🫣

But you can't do anything differently whether it's a cold, flu or other virus. It's not like COVID versus a cold where you were supposed to isolate and so on. If you feel well enough, go and see your family next week.

Grammarninja · 20/12/2025 17:22

Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:17

@Grammarninja I’m 37 but I am due on my period on Christmas Day !

I was sweating up a storm in certain situations at 37, sadly!

Endofyear · 20/12/2025 17:26

Sounds like some sort of virus, rest as much as you can, take painkillers, drink plenty. Hopefully you'll be on the mend in a few days! It doesn't sound like full blown flu - you would very probably not be able to get out of bed!

Growlybear83 · 20/12/2025 17:27

You’ve clearly got a bug of some sort, but if you had caught flu, you wouldn’t have been able to get out of bed, let alone take your son swimming or go for a walk.

Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:35

I’m taking lots of vitamins in the hopes I can sort of ward it off before it gets any worse!

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vanillalattes · 20/12/2025 17:37

Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:35

I’m taking lots of vitamins in the hopes I can sort of ward it off before it gets any worse!

It doesn't work like that.

Bulbsbulbsbulbs · 20/12/2025 17:39

It's hard to tell I think. I've had a virus for 15 days now. I'm still feeling awful, terrible cough. I've tried to work out by checking my symptoms and it could be flu, a very bad cold or Covid!

A few years ago I got pneumonia so I kind of want to know what it is I've got in case I am at risk of getting it again.

I know I'm pissed off with it.

Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:41

@vanillalattes Oh I thought taking a lot of vitamin c might help or is that an old wives tale?

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ConnieHeart · 20/12/2025 17:43

Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:41

@vanillalattes Oh I thought taking a lot of vitamin c might help or is that an old wives tale?

It won't help, in fact it could have side effects

AllPlayedOut · 20/12/2025 17:45

Growlybear83 · 20/12/2025 17:27

You’ve clearly got a bug of some sort, but if you had caught flu, you wouldn’t have been able to get out of bed, let alone take your son swimming or go for a walk.

That is a myth. Flu can range from mild to severe and can also be asymptomatic.

BeKhakiReader · 20/12/2025 17:46

If it really matters to you to know, you can get test strips for flu, like the Covid ones.

Heathotstuff · 20/12/2025 17:47

I got this constant low grade fever and wipes out but no other flu symptoms

Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:48

Weirdly I have no fever at all. It’s so odd. But the chills/aches only?

My DS and DP are fine.

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vanillalattes · 20/12/2025 17:48

Lozenges · 20/12/2025 17:41

@vanillalattes Oh I thought taking a lot of vitamin c might help or is that an old wives tale?

It can help prevent you from getting a cold but once you're already infected then it's not likely to make any difference.

AhBiscuits · 20/12/2025 17:51

It's just a virus of some kind. I would say not flu

I know that there are different severities of flu, but when I got it I suddenly started shaking uncontrollably at my desk and my lips went blue. I somehow dragged myself home to bed and barely left it again for 4 days. I was sweating and shaking and then it turned into pleurisy. I couldn't walk up the stairs without sitting and gasping for breath afterwards. It was a month before I was fully recovered.

springintoaction2 · 20/12/2025 17:53

You have a cold - not flu.

Fingers crossed better for Christmas!