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Hair salon alleging I haven’t paid

293 replies

wellbugger · 19/12/2025 09:25

Posting here purely for traffic.

I had my hair done last weekend. Their card machine was down. The stylist charged me over the app. I checked my bank in front of her and showed her that the money had left my account.

They’ve called me today to say that on their end, the money hasn’t come through. I’ve sent a screenshot of my bank which clearly shows that the money due has left my account and gone to them.

AIBU to think this is their issue now? I’ve paid, if they’re having issues with their app that’s not my problem

OP posts:
12345abcdefg · 19/12/2025 18:27

OP, I don't suppose you're in North East Scotland? Just very similar happened to me recently.

Rhubarb24 · 19/12/2025 18:34

LittleBitofBread · 19/12/2025 18:08

Yes, they'd look very silly if they called the police. That's the OP's nerves talking I think.

Tbh, I'd be the same as OP 😬

Keepingthingsinteresting · 19/12/2025 18:41

wellbugger · 19/12/2025 10:05

I have an appointment tomorrow that I have to go to, so I screwed. They’ve not answered my screenshots yet

You aren’t screwed. If you paid through their app, using their payment details and it has left your account you have paid. It is unfortunate it hasn’t landed in their account that, but it has left yours and there is nothing you can do.

They cannot call the olive or make you pay,though I expect they will apply pressure to try and get you too as they want the money and would rather you bear the risk that’s them. I would not pay again,I would show them the app and that the funds have left your account stand say you cannot pay again but if the funds come back you will contact them to pay in a different way (by which time hopefully their card system in working again).

They may not be happy about it,but it is not your fault or problem and they will have to be patient. You can’t pay what you don’t have

outerspacepotato · 19/12/2025 18:44

wellbugger · 19/12/2025 12:56

I’ve contacted my bank again and they confirmed it’s rescheduled Fresha. I’ve given them the transaction number but they’re saying they’re too busy to chase and it would be best if I just paid again!

They can't be bothered to chase your payment so they think you should pay again?

That sounds like fraud.

Cancel that appointment. Do not go. Do not pay again. You have proof the money left your account and the bank confirmed it. It's up to them to do the legwork from here on.

I wouldn't use them again, they sound like their business is a mess and they're shady AF.

Funnywonder · 19/12/2025 19:10

I think you should definitely go to your appointment OP. I’m the least confrontational person in the world and I’d be there with bells on, safe in the knowledge that I had everything I needed to prove that I had paid. Your active involvement in this is over, unless the money bounces back to you. It is their problem to solve. Even if they did call the police (unlikely) you still have your proof. I reckon they’d be sympathetic to the fact that you no longer have the money available in your account and that you certainly don’t have the money to pay twice until it’s sorted.

Funnywonder · 19/12/2025 19:12

Just to add, I think sometimes stuff gets sorted out more amicably in person, rather than via terse messages lacking any tone.

Luxio · 19/12/2025 19:13

I reckon they’d be sympathetic to the fact that you no longer have the money available in your account and that you certainly don’t have the money to pay twice until it’s sorted.

I admire your optimism but nothing in any of the OPs dealings with them thus far suggests they will be sympathetic.

Funnywonder · 19/12/2025 19:18

Luxio · 19/12/2025 19:13

I reckon they’d be sympathetic to the fact that you no longer have the money available in your account and that you certainly don’t have the money to pay twice until it’s sorted.

I admire your optimism but nothing in any of the OPs dealings with them thus far suggests they will be sympathetic.

I meant the police would be sympathetic, in the very unlikely event they are called, as has been suggested by a couple of posters. In reality the police probably couldn’t give enough of a rat’s arse to turn up.

TheMorgenmuffel · 19/12/2025 19:38

Don't say you cant afford to pay again.
Say you have no obligation to pay twice because of a fault with their system.
Don't say anything that gives the impression you agree this is your problem to solve.

RoamingToaster · 19/12/2025 19:39

I’m not confident or confrontational but I’d still go. Maybe the owner won’t be as scary as you think they’ll be. If you go in with bank statements printed etc to show them or ready on your phone then what can they do? Just practice what you’ll say if they try to get you to pay again. Just say as it has come out your bank it’s now between them and the app they asked you to pay with. It’s them who told you to pay that way. So I don’t see how it’s your problem.

cardibach · 19/12/2025 19:46

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 19/12/2025 15:51

And you are absolutely free to do this in a supermarket, when you can just leave the goods. It's a bit trickier when, as in this case, you've received the service.

And paid for it. If it’s left my account I will not be paying a second time until my bank confirm that it’s bounced back.

menopausalfart · 19/12/2025 19:47

If you're sure it's left your account, turning up tomorrow isn't going to solve anything. They're going to need to sort their end. Just send them a message and say if the money returns to your account, you have no issue in paying them again.

Magsbd · 19/12/2025 19:50

It is definitely not your problem as the transaction has come off your bank account. They will need to take ur up with their bank, who presumably provided their payment machine.

RoamingToaster · 19/12/2025 19:55

menopausalfart · 19/12/2025 19:47

If you're sure it's left your account, turning up tomorrow isn't going to solve anything. They're going to need to sort their end. Just send them a message and say if the money returns to your account, you have no issue in paying them again.

Her appointment tomorrow is to check her hair extensions.

JustMyView13 · 20/12/2025 05:11

I would still go to your appointment because you’ve done nothing wrong. I’d say to the owner very directly - you have paid using a debit account and the funds have left your account,, you do not physically have the money. Your bank have advised that it’s with Fresha. There isn’t anything more you can do from your side. They should contact Fresha. You will monitor your account and if the money is returned to you, you’ll be more than happy to instigate another payment. However, as it stands, Fresha have the money.
Whatever you do, do not pay again because otherwise you’ll have a battle to get the money back and your bank will say you’re at fault for making the payment twice (on different days).

CombatBarbie · 20/12/2025 05:22

wellbugger · 19/12/2025 09:44

I’m just panicking as if I go down tomorrow and they try to say I’ve not paid they could end up calling the police etc., and I cannot afford to pay double

They are not going to call the police lol you can prove you have paid.

Forty85 · 20/12/2025 07:09

Maybe the manager should be using her time more wisely to contact the app that she has chosen to take her business funds, who are failing to provide the service paid for, rather than speaking to you.

Ive found this online - The issue of a missing payment to the salon a week after you were charged should be resolved by contacting Fresha's customer support directly at [email protected]. While Fresha acts as a commercial agent for the salon to collect payment, the contract for the services is between you and the salon, and Fresha will mediate to resolve payment disputes.

It also says you can use the in - app help and support option, I would do this. I'd be letting the salon know that the whole situation has been far too stressful as a customer and that I'm not happy with the way they have dealt with this. Your debt to them was discharged the moment you made payment via the app. Which was their chosen payment method. They have terrible business acumen, bunch of dicks.

AngelicKaty · 20/12/2025 10:23

Luxio · 19/12/2025 19:13

I reckon they’d be sympathetic to the fact that you no longer have the money available in your account and that you certainly don’t have the money to pay twice until it’s sorted.

I admire your optimism but nothing in any of the OPs dealings with them thus far suggests they will be sympathetic.

I think @Funnywonder was referring to the police being sympathetic rather than the salon owner, but the police wouldn't be involved because this is a civil matter, not a criminal one.

Funnywonder · 20/12/2025 10:25

TheMorgenmuffel · 19/12/2025 19:38

Don't say you cant afford to pay again.
Say you have no obligation to pay twice because of a fault with their system.
Don't say anything that gives the impression you agree this is your problem to solve.

This is an excellent point.

Flutterbees · 20/12/2025 12:51

Go to the appointment tomorrow (you’re entitled to have your extensions checked). Push back on the salon; insist that they prove you haven’t paid. You’ve got evidence that shows the money has left your account and gone to the App that the salon asked you to use. The ball is in their court now, insist that they resolve the issue and stop harassing you.

HomeTheatreSystem · 20/12/2025 13:33

@wellbugger google "fresha app and Payment issues" . The issues you report are known issues with the app. The business should have been aware of this and tried to resolve it with Fresha at their end rather than putting the onus on you to resolve. Unprofessional behaviour by them.

Fairyladyonwheels · 20/12/2025 15:12

Hope you manage to get it sorted.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 20/12/2025 15:21

What did you do @wellbugger?

wellbugger · 20/12/2025 15:30

ToKittyornottoKitty · 20/12/2025 15:21

What did you do @wellbugger?

Went down, showed all the screenshots again. Miraculously it was resolved when I did that.

Hmmmm

OP posts:
Luxio · 20/12/2025 15:31

wellbugger · 20/12/2025 15:30

Went down, showed all the screenshots again. Miraculously it was resolved when I did that.

Hmmmm

I'm really pleased you had a positive ending but I agree with your hmmmm it seems mightily suspect that this couldn't be resolved by the same screenshot yesterday....

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