Hi this is long but I will try to keep this short .
i was coming up 7 weeks Pregant and had a miss carriage which started two days ago. Still on going now. So I will have to go to the hospital at one point soon.
i stayed home when I started bleeding . He was up his but I could tell by the texts he drank as soon as I left . Usual thing unfortunately. I text him to say I started bleeding and that I was sorry . Asking him is he ok ect . He didn’t reply for an hour and again I could tell he was pissed . The living situation has caused me a lot of stress constantly up and down between two houses because his dog is an absolute nightmare and every single day rips his whole house apart . He was making plans for her to go with somone who doesn’t work and we would move in together but again iv heard this multiple times .
also since finding out I was pregnant it’s been constant stress due to him leaving , taking drugs being horrible . So an abortion was on my mind for a while .
so after I text him no reply for an hour . I do reply to what he says then the text after that was I promise il give you the stabilty you need very soon . In an odd way it upset me because I should have had it long ago and again hes drunk talking . I get up for work at 4 am and assumed maybe he would phone me . I had nothing . Until 10-30 . And again no phone call just a text . And it all just really upset me . I asked him why hasn’t he phoned and he said he’s been sleeping. In other words he was up all night drinking and taking drugs . He phoned me and straight away had a go asking what I was having a go at him for and what exactly did I expect him to do . I knew it would be this way. And the sad thing is when I seen the blood I honestly didn’t want to tell him . I said If it was the other way around I would have at least if phoned you , asked you if you needed anything , even would have come down to see you . Or even offered to walk the dog , my dog so I didnt have to come home at 8 am to walk him in pain and rush back to work .
this all annoyed him even more . He started shouting . I always put him down , he was tired . Sorry hes not this perfect person . I said I don’t need perfect just Some one who cares . Anything goes wrong or he does something bad and I get upset and this is how it goes every single time . He put the phone down . Phones me back an hour later i can tell hes either took something or drank again and hes flipping out . So I end the call just said I don’t need this . He texts me loads of abuse ending it and telling me to go find someone else and to F off . So iv blocked him on everything because I honestly don’t need this right now . And I. Not heard from him since and I won’t unless I appologise . I really need to know if I have caused all this ? Im so stressed and sad . Thankyou