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Would you eat something homemade in the office?

251 replies

Noschky · 11/12/2025 12:19

husband has a small business. During the festive period I tend to drop off sweet treats as a way of showing appreciation. I have always bought these treats in the past from bakeries/ supermarkets etc. This year I’m on maternity leave and thought it might be name to bake something myself. I’m a decent baker.

im just concerned that some people can be a bit funny about homemade goods due to hygiene concerns. I am a type A clean freak.

but should I just not bother or will something homemade be seen as a nice gesture?

OP posts:
SaySomethingMan · 13/12/2025 20:24

I never eat homemade stuff. I thank people and ask questions/praise them but I never actually eat any.

Colleagues seem to love home made stuff though

Bloozie · 13/12/2025 20:26

I would. Especially if I knew it was made by a hygiene freak.

Sowhat12345 · 13/12/2025 20:29

Absolutely...would love it. I would not be put off in any way

MollyMollyMandy33 · 13/12/2025 20:34

ThejoyofNC · 11/12/2025 12:27

Not a chance unless I'd been in the house where they were made.

The amount of people on Mumsnet alone who think it's fine to put dog bowls in the dishwasher is enough to make me not even consider it.

I do this every night. And the cats bowls too.
We are really grim

daisychain01 · 13/12/2025 20:38

ThejoyofNC · 11/12/2025 12:27

Not a chance unless I'd been in the house where they were made.

The amount of people on Mumsnet alone who think it's fine to put dog bowls in the dishwasher is enough to make me not even consider it.

What a very strange comment.

we are talking about a very hygienic OP, not the whole of mumsnet. And you wouldn't be eating it anyway!

nomas · 13/12/2025 20:40

Yes, my colleagues are all capable adults, I happily eat their baked goods.

Fizbosshoes · 13/12/2025 20:41

Ive never discovered what the "correct" way to wash pet bowls is, for those squeamish about everyone elses hygeine. Ive seen complaints about doing in the sink and also in the dishwasher....so where is the ideal place? Maybe the bath??🤣 (obvs joking!) I guess just having pets at all is a step too far for some....

IstillloveKingThistle · 13/12/2025 20:47

Mapletree1985 · 13/12/2025 20:11

All the more for me!

Fill your boots! 🥾 😁

IstillloveKingThistle · 13/12/2025 20:50

daisychain01 · 13/12/2025 20:38

What a very strange comment.

we are talking about a very hygienic OP, not the whole of mumsnet. And you wouldn't be eating it anyway!

Not a strange comment at all. A sensible comment I’d say. Every person has differing levels of personal hygiene.
Some people can be clean in themselves, capable, kind, intelligent yada yada but their level of hygiene when it comes to food prep/ cooking in their own homes and kitchens is utterly lacking.

Ilovelblue · 13/12/2025 20:58

Where I used to work (I am retired now), we would do sales of homemade cakes two or three times a year for charity and they were a sellout every single time. If people were funny about homemade cakes, they just didn't take part.

flatfootedfred · 13/12/2025 21:12

If the people you work with have such questionable hygiene standards I’d be much more worried about day to day exposure from door handles and work surfaces etc than cake.

Gettingbysomehow · 13/12/2025 21:17

No thanks, I don't know if the baker has washed their hands properly or what the state of the home is like. If pets sit on the kitchen prep areas etc. I've seen too many disgusting homes on the district to trust anyone.

Mocoboco · 13/12/2025 21:28

The "you can't eat at everybody's house" meme is only posted by people that don't really understand the cleansing power of 180C heat lol. I would eat home made stuff

FunnyOrca · 13/12/2025 21:33

I’m so jealous you have time to bake on mat leave! 😭

I’m in the newborn trenches. Can I ask how old your baby is?

JustYourAveregeMillennialMam · 13/12/2025 22:05

My director’s wife often sends in cakes she’s baked. She made us a lovely Christmas cake this week 😂
I think in an office where you all know eachother, you know who’s cooking is safe to eat and who’s you’re best off giving a miss 😂

UsernameMcUsername · 13/12/2025 22:12

I'd scoff the lot. But I'm a regular church goer and we're forever having bring'n'share lunches / cake at tea & coffee time / charity coffee mornings. I've literally never met anyone who was odd about this kind of stuff outside Mumsnet.

Gettingbysomehow · 13/12/2025 23:37

Mocoboco · 13/12/2025 21:28

The "you can't eat at everybody's house" meme is only posted by people that don't really understand the cleansing power of 180C heat lol. I would eat home made stuff

Followed by grubby hands putting the goods into containers and licking their fingers. No thanks.

Ifoott · 14/12/2025 08:05

Definitely!! I used to have terrible OCD and would avoid anything homemade in the office. But I missed out.
you could always do both. A homemade treat plus a store bought, or the option of either.
you could make the store bought option gf and or vegan so everyone is covered !

Toriekidd · 14/12/2025 08:26

I work for a large international bank, homemade always wins on our floor (approx 100 people), we have so many staff members from different countries that we often have people bring stuff made by thier parents/families then flown across the world and on our desks in less than 24hours.. never thought about it but we actually never have anything shop bought... homemade for the win!

Daughter1234 · 14/12/2025 21:53

I’m happy to eat at friends or families houses but at work it would depend on who made it tbh and I’m sorry to say I’d never buy any cake sold at the school fair or whatever as I’d have no idea who’d made it. I’m funny like that 😅

Mokel · 15/12/2025 07:30

At a former job, a colleague made some cakes and they smelt musty. No idea how they got that smell.

She gave me a curry to take home and chicken had bits of pink plus had some hairs in it. I love curries but I could tell that I should not eat it. Colleague is Hindu and her DD doesn’t eat spicy food.

Placed curry in a public bin.

LetMeGoogleThat · 15/12/2025 09:41

StevieJG · 13/12/2025 20:09

Before 'one' pops up? I presume by 'one' you mean someone with an opinion of their own? I think if someone prefers to be politely careful about what they eat, they are perfectly entitled to do so. I'm another 'one' by the way!

'One' being a straight into the bin post on a home-made food thread, it's a MN tradition. Obviously you'll have an opinion, otherwise don't post on AIBU where it's literally the question asked. And perhaps don't take comments on an anonymous forum so seriously, the emoji gives the lighthearted clue 🙄

MyObservations · 15/12/2025 10:10

I think you're being hard on yourself. In all my jobs people have brought in home-made food to share and it is always appreciated. In my opinion, just go for it and well done for the thought 😉

Clonakilla · 15/12/2025 10:33

Depends who made it! Sometimes for hygiene reasons, sometimes because not everybody’s assessment of their own baking skill is accurate! I’m always intrigued by those who insist homemade is ‘always’ better….:…nope.

TriesNotToBeCynical · 16/12/2025 14:51

Anyone who has actually worked in a factory is really not going to believe that industrially produced food is cleaner than homemade.