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Suspect Cheating

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JumpupandDown21 · 09/12/2025 14:58

Can anyone please help advise who's been in a similar situation. My husband recently went away on a trip. He brought a bag with him and I know he's put additional condoms in there. If I bring it up with him, I know he will just say it was from when we were together so Ive no 'concrete' proof. I'm sahm at the moment. Where do I go from here?

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PopcornKitten · 09/12/2025 17:08

How do you know? Are you 100% sure he put them there? Any other behaviour changes that are making you suspicious?

Pigeonsandgiraffees · 09/12/2025 17:13

Book an appointment with a solicitor.

OR, stay with a man you don't trust.

Personally, I'd go for option 1 to help me plan my exit because life is so damn short.

JumpupandDown21 · 09/12/2025 17:26

Frequent trips away. I have a very strong feeling they were added to the bag but I know if I broach it he'll say it was from when we were together.

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ToKittyornottoKitty · 09/12/2025 17:36

JumpupandDown21 · 09/12/2025 17:26

Frequent trips away. I have a very strong feeling they were added to the bag but I know if I broach it he'll say it was from when we were together.

What do you mean by a very strong feeling? Do you know if he put them in there? What else makes you think he’s cheating?

IdyllicLandscape · 09/12/2025 20:03

Watch and learn. See what other information you can gather. He will deny it if you confront him, so if you're suspicious it's all you can do really. Then make your decision accordingly.

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