I've not felt pretty, sexy or attractive in a very long time and I don't know what I can do to ever make me feel like that again

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feeling really low.

have not felt sexy, attractive or pretty in a very long time now. I go out with DH and see my friends, so I am not stuck at home. I work FT, have DC, hobbies, exercise a lot, so there is a lots going on in my life but ....

no sex from DH does not help. He has ED and refuses to address it, let alone speak about it ever.

I am 53

Buy him a packet of viagra and suggest he tries it. But it doesn't always work.
Or separate.

I think this is a zero sex life problem, you seem clearly fulfilled in other areas of your life with friends and kids and exercise and hobbies.

You need to have a full and frank discussion with your DH that it’s his choice whether to address his ED but that, if he doesn’t, you are unwilling to be celibate for the rest of your life and you will leave. He may not realise just how much this is affecting you and hopefully needs a kick up the bum to have an awkward conversation with his GP