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Thread 20 : To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film?

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DisappointedReader · 04/12/2025 01:24

The Observer's original exposé: The real Salt Path: how a blockbuster book and film were ...

First thread: To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film? | Mumsnet

Links to threads 2-16, the other 20 Observer articles and videos to date, Raynor Winn/Sally Walker's statement, our timeline and sources can all be accessed in the OP and first few posts of Thread 17: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5403285-thread-17-to-feel-disappointed-after-reading-this-in-the-observer-about-the-author-and-her-husband-from-the-salt-path-book-and-film?

Thread 18: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5422393-thread-18-to-feel-disappointed-after-reading-this-in-the-observer-about-the-author-and-her-husband-from-the-salt-path-book-and-film?

Thread 19: www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5437058-thread-19-to-feel-disappointed-after-reading-this-in-the-observer-about-the-author-and-her-husband-from-the-salt-path-book-and-film?

New posters joining us in the genuine spirit of our civil discourse are welcome. It would be helpful to get the background from at least some of the Observer exposé items before posting.
To all - Please be extremely cautious when it comes to naming or implicating people and addresses not in the public eye or with no direct connection to the story, and around the understandable health speculations, especially where details are unclear or still emerging. Remember, even Hollywood rabbits attract the odd flea. Please do not engage with drive-by scolders and ploppers who seem to have their own agenda and seek to derail. Avoid @'ing and quoting them as - from experience - this will only encourage them back to the threads. Over five months we have done amazingly well together for 19 very interesting, very serious and very silly threads so far. I can't be here as much as I'd like so all help with keeping our discussion walking along in our usual reasonable and respectful fashion is very welcome.

Keep to the path. No saltiness. May the fudge and cider be with you.

Up and coming:

  • Salt Path: A Very British Scandal, Monday 15th December 9pm Sky Documentaries and NOW
  • Sunday Papers Live, The Real Salt Path with Chloe Hadjimatheou, Sunday 7th December (see image below for tickets and further details)
  • Observer Newsroom: The Real Salt Path Story, Thursday 8th January 2026 6.30-7.30pm. More information and to book via this link observer.co.uk/our-events/the-real-salt-path-story
Thread 20 : To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film?
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LiftAndLetLift · 15/12/2025 09:49

RoyalCorgi · 15/12/2025 09:47

I once saw her at a literary festival, and when asked about Moth's condition, she mentioned that, as a result of Moth's story, there were plans for a research project into whether walking could help reverse his particular neurological condition. Looking back now, I'm just aghast that she could actually let that go ahead knowing the whole thing was a pack of lies.

I wonder if pathological liars like her, actually start believing themselves.

faffadoodledo · 15/12/2025 09:51

They’ve spun so much out of it haven’t they? Someone mentioned Arvon tutorships. Things like that xlcouod have gone to more deserving and authentic writers. It’s a tough gig, writing. But yep she gobbled those things up too

Groundsel · 15/12/2025 09:56

RoyalCorgi · 15/12/2025 09:47

I once saw her at a literary festival, and when asked about Moth's condition, she mentioned that, as a result of Moth's story, there were plans for a research project into whether walking could help reverse his particular neurological condition. Looking back now, I'm just aghast that she could actually let that go ahead knowing the whole thing was a pack of lies.

Oh, I’d assume that the research project was equally fictional.

Or that someone in the medical field had said ‘How interesting’ when told about the Miraculous Salt Path cure and politely agreed that there might be something worth investigating there.

But for all we know, that person could have been a nephrologist or a cancer researcher they met at a party.

RainyTuesdaysAndSunnyWednesdays · 15/12/2025 09:58

Just watching now and she found 'Grant'! No massage took place and they had not heard of Simon Armitage, he was not happy about the portrayal.

Groundsel · 15/12/2025 09:59

RainyTuesdaysAndSunnyWednesdays · 15/12/2025 09:58

Just watching now and she found 'Grant'! No massage took place and they had not heard of Simon Armitage, he was not happy about the portrayal.

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Really??? 😀

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 15/12/2025 10:00

faffadoodledo · 15/12/2025 09:51

They’ve spun so much out of it haven’t they? Someone mentioned Arvon tutorships. Things like that xlcouod have gone to more deserving and authentic writers. It’s a tough gig, writing. But yep she gobbled those things up too

I'd be puzzled how someone with such average writing skills could be offered an Arvon gig, to be honest.

Uricon2 · 15/12/2025 10:09

RainyTuesdaysAndSunnyWednesdays · 15/12/2025 09:58

Just watching now and she found 'Grant'! No massage took place and they had not heard of Simon Armitage, he was not happy about the portrayal.

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We need a jawdrop emoji, we really do

Aussiebornandbred · 15/12/2025 10:09

RainyTuesdaysAndSunnyWednesdays · 15/12/2025 09:58

Just watching now and she found 'Grant'! No massage took place and they had not heard of Simon Armitage, he was not happy about the portrayal.

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Oh please please please let us know about the doco. I know you need to concentrate now, but once you’ve finished watching?

Groundsel · 15/12/2025 10:11

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 15/12/2025 10:00

I'd be puzzled how someone with such average writing skills could be offered an Arvon gig, to be honest.

I think they like to have some tutors with a high profile, and tbh, the calibre of their writing is probably not that relevant in the scheme of things for a short course. Even teaching skills aren’t necessarily all that relevant for what would probably be a series of walks to take notes with SW talking about experiential writing with all your senses etc. I’m assuming that the actual tutoring (reading the students’ work) would be done by another writer.

I mean, it’s not that you don’t get some serious, committed writers doing Arvon courses, but friends who’ve tutored on them also say a surprising number of people have never read any of the tutors’ work, and have just rocked up thinking ‘I’ve always thought I had a book in me.’

Uricon2 · 15/12/2025 10:12

Aussiebornandbred · 15/12/2025 10:09

Oh please please please let us know about the doco. I know you need to concentrate now, but once you’ve finished watching?

I'm going to try to watch this afternoon (OK, I should be wrapping the present mountain but) Between us we'll get everything.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 15/12/2025 10:16

Groundsel · 15/12/2025 10:11

I think they like to have some tutors with a high profile, and tbh, the calibre of their writing is probably not that relevant in the scheme of things for a short course. Even teaching skills aren’t necessarily all that relevant for what would probably be a series of walks to take notes with SW talking about experiential writing with all your senses etc. I’m assuming that the actual tutoring (reading the students’ work) would be done by another writer.

I mean, it’s not that you don’t get some serious, committed writers doing Arvon courses, but friends who’ve tutored on them also say a surprising number of people have never read any of the tutors’ work, and have just rocked up thinking ‘I’ve always thought I had a book in me.’

Sigh. Yes, I think you're probably right and Arvon would be thinking of the profile rather than the ability - which is almost even sadder when you think about how much money these courses can cost. That they can charge a lot of money for someone to be 'tutored' by someone whose writing ability is average and whose teaching ability is unproven, just because they've been publicly popular and been on TV a lot, does not say wonderful things about them, to be honest.

Aussiebornandbred · 15/12/2025 10:18

Uricon2 · 15/12/2025 10:12

I'm going to try to watch this afternoon (OK, I should be wrapping the present mountain but) Between us we'll get everything.

Thank you SOOOO much

HatStickBoots · 15/12/2025 10:25

😱😲🙊🙀😧🫨😬

@Uricon2 will these do?

Groundsel · 15/12/2025 10:39

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 15/12/2025 10:16

Sigh. Yes, I think you're probably right and Arvon would be thinking of the profile rather than the ability - which is almost even sadder when you think about how much money these courses can cost. That they can charge a lot of money for someone to be 'tutored' by someone whose writing ability is average and whose teaching ability is unproven, just because they've been publicly popular and been on TV a lot, does not say wonderful things about them, to be honest.

I gather their admin can be difficult to deal with (at least, I assume there are different admin for the different houses — I’ve certainly heard of some being uncooperative and inflexible), and that it doesn’t pay particularly well for a week living in, running workshops, offering individual sessions where you have read students’ work, giving readings etc at night and doing communal cooking. Especially if you’re travelling from a distance — some of the houses are pretty remote.

Moniack Mhor is no longer Arvon affiliated, but it’s a hell of a long way from anywhere. You have to get yourself to Inverness, and it’s still a longish drive from there.

It may be that there isn’t a queue of writers wanting to teach for them?

Anyway, back to the documentary. Is ‘Grant’ at least a pink-faced bald wine merchant with a gorgeous wife, nanny and PA, even if no massage took place and TW did not recite ‘The boy stood on the burning deck’ to people who believed him to be SA? Is nothing true??

DaisyMiller84 · 15/12/2025 10:43

Does anyone have a link to where I can read Chloe’s latest article in the Observer? It’s hidden behind a paywall

HatStickBoots · 15/12/2025 10:44

I can’t get over how she bludgeons her critics into submission by emotionally recounting all the things she supposedly has to do with Tim on a daily basis, or rather “Moth”. There is no proof of any of it other than she says it’s true. You have to buy her books to read about it. You have to read about her reactions to his “illness”, her sobbing and anger and fist shaking melodrama. How much of that material was just sourced from reading blogs and articles written by other people and what she did was imagine how her reactions would be, such as a method actor might submerse themselves into a role by living it in their mind first, then acting it out for the cameras. I’m talking about actors, but writers of fiction who draw on life experiences (themselves and other people’s) do something similar? So now I’m thinking that she has no right to shout at her critics and especially CH’s findings that they have taken away “hope” because what she’s written isn’t even real.

Uricon2 · 15/12/2025 10:46

DaisyMiller84 · 15/12/2025 10:43

Does anyone have a link to where I can read Chloe’s latest article in the Observer? It’s hidden behind a paywall

@SimoArmo posted a working link at 9.58 AM yesterday. @Aussiebornandbred copied and pasted the whole thing in a series of posts a little before that.

Peladon · 15/12/2025 10:47

On the Arvon coirses, to be fair one thing SW does know about is how to publish a best-selling book. How much of that knowledge she would actually share with her students, and whether her students would be able to follow her model, is a different matter.

Uricon2 · 15/12/2025 10:50

HatStickBoots · 15/12/2025 10:44

I can’t get over how she bludgeons her critics into submission by emotionally recounting all the things she supposedly has to do with Tim on a daily basis, or rather “Moth”. There is no proof of any of it other than she says it’s true. You have to buy her books to read about it. You have to read about her reactions to his “illness”, her sobbing and anger and fist shaking melodrama. How much of that material was just sourced from reading blogs and articles written by other people and what she did was imagine how her reactions would be, such as a method actor might submerse themselves into a role by living it in their mind first, then acting it out for the cameras. I’m talking about actors, but writers of fiction who draw on life experiences (themselves and other people’s) do something similar? So now I’m thinking that she has no right to shout at her critics and especially CH’s findings that they have taken away “hope” because what she’s written isn’t even real.

I agree @HatStickBoots . Her reactions are not based on real events (being a carer, living with the terminal diagnosis of a loved one, nay even being homeless and starving as purported) so they ring like a cracked bell, especially when coupled with her love of melodrama and tin ear for dialogue. She is cosplaying her own life.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 15/12/2025 10:53

Peladon · 15/12/2025 10:47

On the Arvon coirses, to be fair one thing SW does know about is how to publish a best-selling book. How much of that knowledge she would actually share with her students, and whether her students would be able to follow her model, is a different matter.

My argument against that (sorry, I've just found ANOTHER thing to be annoyed about, you're going to have to rub me down with a cool fudge bar in a minute), is that NOBODY knows how to write a bestseller. Being a best seller is in the lap of the Gods, it is the readers who make your book best selling. All she can do is describe how she writes what she writes, her methods etc and from then on it's down to the marketing department and hoping that you've caught the zeitgeist.

She might be able to talk generally about her own writing, but I really don't think she was in any position to 'teach' anything.

Rant over. Pass the cider.

SimoArmo · 15/12/2025 10:56

Groundsel · 15/12/2025 08:30

Some people do automatically default to ‘They’re just jealous’ as a way of deflecting criticism or perceived dislike from others, though. There doesn’t need to be any grounds whatsoever. It’s a self-protecting belief that makes other people the problem.

You see it on Mn all the time.

‘Waah! Some mum didn’t talk to me at the school gate!’
‘Never mind, she’s probably just jealous (of your good looks/wealth, popularity etc).’

I mean, if the families had both said at the time ‘Sure, Sally, we’re absolutely fine with you stealing large sums of money from your mum/our mum and dad — you crack on’, and then changed their minds years later, sure.

But it caused huge upset at the time, and presumably was only down to the fact that neither SW’s mother not TW’s parents wanted to press charges (probably because of TW’s terminal illness and SW being likely to be sent to prison, or possibly descending into serious mental illness if they believed in her ‘voices’) that no one reported it then.

Both families must have been watching the rise of SW and TW as media darlings who’d made a killing out of being beloved plucky underdogs and victims of their own trusting, unworldly natures, with mounting disbelief. When CH first published her story, at least one of the families contacted her immediately, but it took some time to find documentary corroboration, and to put ‘Anne’’s documentation together with stories from the other side of the family, in a way that took it beyond rumour/family gossip, all of the three victims of the theft being dead.

I agree. My take is I think the "just jealous" argument is really only something that comes from people who have no capacity to understand any alternative, the principle one being that many of us in the world care about truth, integrity, fairness and the idea people are harmed by others' actions (i.e theft, giving false hope) - actions that have seen those committing them become heroes and ambassadors and reap the rewards of success.

Speaking out against them is not jealousy. It is morality. But many simply cannot see beyond the "be kind" mantra.

nothingtoseehereatall · 15/12/2025 10:57

Side note: journalism isn’t “hidden behind a paywall” as some kind of sneaky attempt to do you out of reading material. Journalism - like that done by Chloe Hadjimatheou - costs money. If you can, please pay for it. Or it will disappear. Lots of people on this thread bemoan that interviewers haven’t challenged the story before - that’s because (one reason anyway) they were not investigative journalists. Investigative journalism is really bloody expensive so if you value it, pay for it.

oh and another side note: couple of people questioning why no response from her agent. Wouldn’t be surprised if said agent dropped her a while ago anyway.

DreamyHiker · 15/12/2025 10:58

LiftAndLetLift · 15/12/2025 09:49

I wonder if pathological liars like her, actually start believing themselves.

Pretty much says this at the end of the documentary.

Groundsel · 15/12/2025 10:59

Uricon2 · 15/12/2025 10:50

I agree @HatStickBoots . Her reactions are not based on real events (being a carer, living with the terminal diagnosis of a loved one, nay even being homeless and starving as purported) so they ring like a cracked bell, especially when coupled with her love of melodrama and tin ear for dialogue. She is cosplaying her own life.

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Her favourite mode appears to be declaiming ‘You’re wrong!’ to authority figures or those with power — she tells both the judge and consultant they’re wrong multiple times at the start of TSP, and I think TW tells ‘Cooper’s barrister he’s got it wrong too. And obviously Chloe H is wrong, and any readers who doubt her are wrong.

Can you imagine her in the police station when she was arrested for the Hemmings theft? ‘You’re so WRONG!’

Like they don’t hear that one a lot.

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