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AIBU to claim UC with a 'high' income

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Loriclimbs · 28/11/2025 19:15

I am very conflicted about lifting the two-child cap. I know many would benefit from it but it would lead us back to more abuse of the system. I, however, have three children myself. I have gratefully received UC in the past but as my income has grown I am currently no longer eligible.

With the addition of my youngest child, I will now be eligible for approximately £200 per month. I an a higher rate tax payer abd Icurrently pay over £1200 in income tax alone per month. I have to repay the majority of the child benefit I receive.

AIBU to claim what I am entitled to?

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Orangine · 28/11/2025 19:17

The system is wrong, not you

BlueSkies2026 · 28/11/2025 19:19

I really don't care. At the end of the day we all end up paying for a system we can't afford e.g. in reduced public services.

Minty25 · 28/11/2025 19:21

Does the calculation include childcare costs? If so YANBU.

ThisMustBeMyDream · 28/11/2025 19:22

Absolutely not unreasonable to claim it.

NotrialNodeal · 28/11/2025 19:25

Sorry am i understanding this correctly? You earn enough money to have to pay £1200 in tax each month and yet you would be eligible to receive £200/month via UC?

CeciliaMars · 28/11/2025 19:26

This whole system is bloody crazy.

RaininSummer · 28/11/2025 19:26

Clicked wrong button. If you are entitled then claim . You don't make the rules. I do disagree withe the removal of the cap on the whole though.

Katemax82 · 28/11/2025 19:26

NotrialNodeal · 28/11/2025 19:25

Sorry am i understanding this correctly? You earn enough money to have to pay £1200 in tax each month and yet you would be eligible to receive £200/month via UC?

Edited

My husband earns 72k we get UC

NotrialNodeal · 28/11/2025 19:27

Katemax82 · 28/11/2025 19:26

My husband earns 72k we get UC

How? Genuinely don't understand?! How would you be eligible? How much do you get? TIA!

UserFront242 · 28/11/2025 19:28

If you are eligible then claim it. I hope it makes things a bit easier for you.

BettysRoasties · 28/11/2025 19:30

As a reminder. As of September all children whose parents get universal credit will also get free school meals.

Isekaied · 28/11/2025 19:31

Claim it

No one will government you a medal for not claiming it.

Katemax82 · 28/11/2025 19:33

NotrialNodeal · 28/11/2025 19:27

How? Genuinely don't understand?! How would you be eligible? How much do you get? TIA!

I didn't believe it at first when we were told we could claim it by a financial advisor...we rent, we have 2 autistic kids who I claim carers for so we get
The couples element
Housing
Child element (for 2 of our 4 kids at the moment)
Disabled child element
Carers element
They take off what I get carers allowance, about £79 a month in previous carers allowance overpayment and 55% of my husband's monthly wage that's over £414
On an average month if my husband earns about 3800 we get about 580
My husband gets paid every 4 weeks so once a year they calculate 2 paydays in one assessment period so they think he's earned too much and we don't get anything for 2 months. One of my kids is nearly 20 so we won't get any extra for him in April but will fit our 4th child

FroddyLoop · 28/11/2025 19:35

It’s the governments fault you are entitled to it. Claim it. Pensioners who are millionaires are still taking their state pension.

Coffeeandbooks88 · 28/11/2025 19:36

How are you going to be eligible if your income is too high?

Loriclimbs · 28/11/2025 19:37

BettysRoasties · 28/11/2025 19:30

As a reminder. As of September all children whose parents get universal credit will also get free school meals.

I hadn't realised that! That would be even better, I'm paying £45 a week now!

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Coffeeandbooks88 · 28/11/2025 19:38

BettysRoasties · 28/11/2025 19:30

As a reminder. As of September all children whose parents get universal credit will also get free school meals.

I will be £50 a month better off.

ManchesterGirl2 · 28/11/2025 19:39

The rules seem odd but if you're eligible, you have the right to claim.

mamagogo1 · 28/11/2025 19:39

how is anyone on over £40k eligible? We didn’t even get child benefit let alone uc, I no suspect it’s because we actually had a mortgage not paying rent?

BettysRoasties · 28/11/2025 19:39

Loriclimbs · 28/11/2025 19:37

I hadn't realised that! That would be even better, I'm paying £45 a week now!

Yup and again you can get lots of discounted entry to places if you are on UC as well. Whipsnade zoo, London zoo, lots of historical places and a few aquariums.

I had no idea till one of the school mums was telling me after her summer holiday adventures.

Shinyandnew1 · 28/11/2025 19:40

Can someone explain how higher rate tax earners get Universal Credit? I thought UC was for those in a lower income?

Is it only if you have children/high childcare costs? Or a child with additional needs?

Cebello · 28/11/2025 19:40

FML 🤦‍♀️

NotrialNodeal · 28/11/2025 19:40

Katemax82 · 28/11/2025 19:33

I didn't believe it at first when we were told we could claim it by a financial advisor...we rent, we have 2 autistic kids who I claim carers for so we get
The couples element
Housing
Child element (for 2 of our 4 kids at the moment)
Disabled child element
Carers element
They take off what I get carers allowance, about £79 a month in previous carers allowance overpayment and 55% of my husband's monthly wage that's over £414
On an average month if my husband earns about 3800 we get about 580
My husband gets paid every 4 weeks so once a year they calculate 2 paydays in one assessment period so they think he's earned too much and we don't get anything for 2 months. One of my kids is nearly 20 so we won't get any extra for him in April but will fit our 4th child

Thank you!

Katemax82 · 28/11/2025 19:40

We won't be claiming free school meals though. My kids won't eat them

BettysRoasties · 28/11/2025 19:40

Shinyandnew1 · 28/11/2025 19:40

Can someone explain how higher rate tax earners get Universal Credit? I thought UC was for those in a lower income?

Is it only if you have children/high childcare costs? Or a child with additional needs?

Rent can tip you over, high childcare costs and if someone in the household
has a disability you can earn quite a bit and get uc.

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