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AIBU to claim UC with a 'high' income

444 replies

Loriclimbs · 28/11/2025 19:15

I am very conflicted about lifting the two-child cap. I know many would benefit from it but it would lead us back to more abuse of the system. I, however, have three children myself. I have gratefully received UC in the past but as my income has grown I am currently no longer eligible.

With the addition of my youngest child, I will now be eligible for approximately £200 per month. I an a higher rate tax payer abd Icurrently pay over £1200 in income tax alone per month. I have to repay the majority of the child benefit I receive.

AIBU to claim what I am entitled to?

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2x4greenbrick · 28/11/2025 20:41

BarkItOff · 28/11/2025 20:02

I’ve just ran our family through the calculator. Both work, combined income of 54K. 1 disabled child at home plus 1 disabled adult child. Entitled to nothing.

Ran the same details except this time said that I didn’t work. And now I’m entitled to £2.4K a month!!! Which is more than I take home from my wages.

Why would anyone work in this economy?

Something has gone wrong with your online calculator calculations. They aren’t always reliable. If comparing like for like circumstances, because of the work allowance and earnings taper, a claimant would not receive more UC when not working than they would in UC and earnings if they were working.

If you want to give more information, I will do a manual calculation. To do that, I would need to know:
Monthly income after tax, NI and pension contributions.
Whether your adult child is still a qualifying young person or not.
What rate DLA and PIP DC get.
If you rent. And if so, if it is council/housing association (and if so, what your rent is and if you have any spare bedrooms) or private rental (if so, what is your LHA 3 bed rate).
If you have any childcare costs.
If either of you receive carer’s allowance.

I appreciate you might not want to divulge that information, though.

Starconundrum · 28/11/2025 20:42

CeciliaMars · 28/11/2025 19:26

This whole system is bloody crazy.

Whats crazy is the stagnation of wages that has led to UC topups that are necessary.

If you're entitled to it claim it.

Sarah2891 · 28/11/2025 20:42

arethereanyleftatall · 28/11/2025 19:44

Am I the only one who could claim but doesn’t? It feels wrong to me as I don’t need it.

Nope. I could claim a certain benefit but I don't.

Outside9 · 28/11/2025 20:42

Boohoo

Needmorelego · 28/11/2025 20:44

BarkItOff · 28/11/2025 20:33

What about once those children are in school?

My disabled child is in school. I work. My partner works from home and has had to make career choices in order to manage the needs of the children such as this.

I don’t begrudge people with disabled children getting help. I’m just shocked to find that as someone with disabled children that if I left my £34k a year job I would be paid MORE in benefits. That’s on top of the DLA and PIP my children already get btw.

It's because wages are too low.
Unfortunately 🙁

arethereanyleftatall · 28/11/2025 20:44

I’ve just been playing around on the link. It’s farcical. I have a job where I can work as many hours or little hours as I like as I’m in demand. I have settled on 20 hours and £30k as it suits me. It has never occurred to me to even look in to benefits.
on the calculator if I work less hours, I’ll just get basically exactly the same amount in UC!! It’s bat shit!

Statsquestion1 · 28/11/2025 20:45

Sarah2891 · 28/11/2025 20:42

Nope. I could claim a certain benefit but I don't.

Edited

I just don’t understand this tbh, if you are entitled to it then claim it and do something with it. Save for your dc or give to charity. I’m in Ireland and our child benefit is not means tested. We bring in over 120k. I save the child benefit for university costs. Why not?!

justwaitingformyturn · 28/11/2025 20:46

Claim it, you might as well get something back.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 28/11/2025 20:46

Boeufsurletoit · 28/11/2025 20:41

I don't understand how this can be possible. I'm a single parent working full time on under 40k with 2 children, and last time I looked I wasn't eligible.

Do you rent? Are your children NT?

Jenkibubble · 28/11/2025 20:47

Shinyandnew1 · 28/11/2025 19:40

Can someone explain how higher rate tax earners get Universal Credit? I thought UC was for those in a lower income?

Is it only if you have children/high childcare costs? Or a child with additional needs?

It’s not a one size fits all - depends on many factors .
When son was under 18 I received UC on my earnings until I reached 30k then it stopped !
No rent as have a mortgage
No carer / disabilities etc

Loriclimbs · 28/11/2025 20:47

justwaitingformyturn · 28/11/2025 20:46

Claim it, you might as well get something back.

This is my mum's opinion. See it as a bit of my own tax being returned.

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Stillpoor · 28/11/2025 20:48

I couldn`t care about it if i tried.
I have said on many threads have more kids get more money who cares.
I dont have to look after them when they are born, yes i may suffer via paying more taxs to pay for their kids.
But given the choice to have kids or pay more taxs i choose tax.

Moonlightfrog · 28/11/2025 20:49

feellikeanalien · 28/11/2025 20:13

And yet once the children turn 18 or leave full time education all this money will stop. Where that leaves a single mum who still has to be a full time carer for a disabled adult child who will never be able to work is basically up shit creek.

As a single person over the age of 25 there is an allowance of £393. If you rent you are unlikely to have your full rent covered because of LHA. You will also have the full amount of Carers Allowance deducted from your UC. The Carers Element of UC is lower than the amount payable in Carers Allowance so that will also be deducted from your £393.

Although the child will be able to claim UC in their own right that will never make up for what has been lost by them no longer being included in the parent's claim. Oh and to top it all the amount which they will be able to claim for their disability in UC is being cut by 50% from next April. And the government are thinking of stopping it all together if they are under 21.

But hey, all those disabled people and carers raking it in.

And they won't have a high income to fall back on. But go on, have a laugh about how you can claim all this money from the government. Excuse me if I don't join in.

This is the situation I am in. Last dc came off my claim in September. I now have 2 adult DC’s at home, both with disabilities, one who needs 24 hour care. My UC has been cut by £800 a month, my payment now leaves me with £300 a month after my rent being paid. It takes a while to to put in a claim for UC, one of my DC’s had been waiting for a work assessment since June to claim limited work capacity. It’s taken 3 months to sort my youngest DC’s claim. If I go back to work I can not care for dd2 unless she goes to day service (when she finished education in September), they will take all her UC to pay for day service…..if we can even get her a place.

Now with the talk of halving limited work capacity payments from April disabled people who can’t work will have even less money…..less money to pay for social care of the need it.

I wouldn’t claim if I didn’t need too, I wish I could survive without UC because dealing with them are a nightmare. They can call you up to look at your bank statements at any time.

I find it hard to believe that someone earning 75k can claim. It would mean them having under 16k in savings.I am guessing they live in an area where rent is really high? UC will only pay a certain amount for the size of property needed, but I guess if you need a 5 bed house (have 4+ dc over a certain age) and live in London where rent prices are high then you might be entitled to UC.

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 28/11/2025 20:50

BarkItOff · 28/11/2025 20:33

What about once those children are in school?

My disabled child is in school. I work. My partner works from home and has had to make career choices in order to manage the needs of the children such as this.

I don’t begrudge people with disabled children getting help. I’m just shocked to find that as someone with disabled children that if I left my £34k a year job I would be paid MORE in benefits. That’s on top of the DLA and PIP my children already get btw.

They're isn't necessarily a 'once those children are in school' though, that's why we're in the tricky financial situation we're in.

DS didn't go to school for about a year due to EBSA and, at that point undiagnosed but highly suspected, autism. He was moved to a small unit in a different school, technically the LA would have provided a taxi, but realistically, with his problems with transitions, irregular hours, and often distressed state on leaving school, DH would have to take him and pick him up. We managed to get him to 70% attendance.

He went to secondary school, again transitions were still an issue, as was increasing anxiety, so DH needed to be free to take him. Then the anxiety kicked in again (just when we'd got the LA to pay travel costs), months not in school followed, now we're back to an hour at the end of the day. How can DH work any normal kind of job around that? So he's monetised his hobby which ultimately means long hours and a shitty hourly rate, but he can work as and when he can, and still take DS to school and then sit and wait for him for an hour (school is 20mins drive away so no point coming home).

Heartbreaksally · 28/11/2025 20:50

Im a single parent of 3 kids, work 60 hours a week, currently not entitled to UC, but once the cap is lifted I will be entitled due to the 3rd child element and contributions to their childcare pushing above the amount my earning reduces it by. Although when I look at it, the amount of UC id receive is the same as what I'm already saving with tax free childcare, which I cant use at the same time so i'll actually financially be the same

Needaglowup · 28/11/2025 20:51

@BarkItOff that dont sound right , with 2 children on high rate that premium alone should be nearly £900, do you rent ?if so add that on ,if you don’t , your work allowance is over £ 600 before they take off the 55 p in every pound .Plus x2 children, plus couples allowance, I’d put your details through the UC calculator again

User79853257976 · 28/11/2025 20:52

BettysRoasties · 28/11/2025 19:40

Rent can tip you over, high childcare costs and if someone in the household
has a disability you can earn quite a bit and get uc.

Do high mortgage payments count? So we could move to a house we can’t afford and then just claim UC?

Pricelessadvice · 28/11/2025 20:52

No children. I earn 24k a year working self employed 5 days a week with no time off all year. Have to live with family due to a medical condition that means I can’t live alone. Obviously I pay rent and towards bills but as a result of being with family, I’m not entitled to anything. Don’t think I can claim PIP because I can dress and wash myself/do my own personal care.

I haven’t had a holiday for 23 years.

How can a household earning over 70k a year be entitled to anything??

I’ll just keep plodding on until I die..!

2x4greenbrick · 28/11/2025 20:53

What about once those children are in school?

Some parents of disabled DC sleep when their DC is in school because their DC doesn’t sleep much at night. Some disabled DC have lots of appointments &/or hospital admissions &/or meetings. Some parents need to do things they are unable to do when their disabled DC are at home such as paperwork, phone calls, laundry, etc. Some disabled DC aren’t in school/aren’t in school full-time. There are numerous other reasons why some carers cannot work even in school time.

UserFront242 · 28/11/2025 20:54

User79853257976 · 28/11/2025 20:52

Do high mortgage payments count? So we could move to a house we can’t afford and then just claim UC?

UC does not pay for mortgages. Only interest for a time and it is a loan

Minty25 · 28/11/2025 20:54

Sarah2891 · 28/11/2025 20:42

Nope. I could claim a certain benefit but I don't.

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Not everyone wants to claim means tested benefits. It brings you under scrutiny, they can check oyrur bank accounts. I do benefit checks for older people and many won't claim for things like pension credit unless they are desperate as it's too invasive, you've got to constantly update them if savings change etc.

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 28/11/2025 20:56

So everyone who is encouraging the OP to claim is happy for wealthy pensioners to accept the winter fuel allowance?

bizkittt · 28/11/2025 20:57

It’s disgusting that a family earning over 70k can claim UC. Imagine the damage labour will cause in the next 5 years

BettysRoasties · 28/11/2025 20:58

User79853257976 · 28/11/2025 20:52

Do high mortgage payments count? So we could move to a house we can’t afford and then just claim UC?

They won’t pay for a mortgage.

Winter2020 · 28/11/2025 20:59

Icantpeopleanymore · 28/11/2025 19:49

I'm a teacher on 42k a year, two disabled children, one who gets DLA, I get approximately £500 a month UC. I rely on it, it allows me to work part time so I can be home for my daughter who is out of school, but when she turns 16 next year if she doesn't get PIP it'll stop, along with her DLA. We would lose 1k a month, I'll manage but petrol to get to work will be tricky, food will have to be reduced massively, (we already never get takeaways or anything fancy, Aldi shop once a week and batch cooking) we won't be able to put the heating on to stay comfortable. No holiday and very reduced outgoings.

On the face of it I earn well, I'm a professional with a good career...but without it life would be much harder than it needs to be. Even if she got PIP, at 19 UC would stop and I'm still housing her and she's very unlikely to get a job or go off to uni. I'll have to work full time and I don't know how we will manage.

The system isn't crazy, it's helping people like me and my daughter. Without it she'd be home every day for 10 hours alone, when she was self harming and in burnout it would have been dangerous to leave her, so I reduced my hours and UC topped my earnings up.

I do extra tutoring in the holidays, for 6 full days of work I earn about £600...which UC takes back through reductions so I'm actually working for 8 hour days plus prepation of about 2 hours for less than £50 a day. But it's something extra so I do it. I'm trying to reduce my benefit burden.

So if you're entitled then you should get it, the way it's worked out is for a reason. I've paid tax and worked since I was 16, 33 years.. I've done my bit and now I need the help, that's what it's for.

Won't you be able to help your daughter claim universal credit in her own name and then if you need to you can charge her some rent?