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AIBU to claim UC with a 'high' income

444 replies

Loriclimbs · 28/11/2025 19:15

I am very conflicted about lifting the two-child cap. I know many would benefit from it but it would lead us back to more abuse of the system. I, however, have three children myself. I have gratefully received UC in the past but as my income has grown I am currently no longer eligible.

With the addition of my youngest child, I will now be eligible for approximately £200 per month. I an a higher rate tax payer abd Icurrently pay over £1200 in income tax alone per month. I have to repay the majority of the child benefit I receive.

AIBU to claim what I am entitled to?

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Covidwoes · 28/11/2025 20:09

Am I right in thinking you can’t claim UC if you own a property?

BettysRoasties · 28/11/2025 20:10

Holdonforsummer · 28/11/2025 20:05

Well that’s interesting as I just played around with the entitledto.com calculator again: I pretended I earned £68k, owned my own home with a mortgage, and had three kids aged 8,6 and 4 paying £1500 a year for childcare. This did not give me ANY universal credit entitlement. I wonder if you have other factors?? I think it’s really dangerous to whip up wrong information about this sort of thing as it opens the door to people wanting to vote for Reform at the next election.

Change it to a rented a house you’ll likely then be entitled.

Coffeeandbooks88 · 28/11/2025 20:11

BarkItOff · 28/11/2025 20:05

But I do have children with disabilities and I still work. Except I’ve just found out I’m better off not working! It shouldn’t be the case that people get more money not working.

And when those children are grown your entitlement will be very low or ended whilst you have no job.

BettysRoasties · 28/11/2025 20:11

Covidwoes · 28/11/2025 20:09

Am I right in thinking you can’t claim UC if you own a property?

You can buy your mortgage won’t count so if you have a 1k mortgage they won’t pay a penny towards it. 1k rent and they will
pay towards it.

RaininSummer · 28/11/2025 20:12

Covidwoes · 28/11/2025 20:09

Am I right in thinking you can’t claim UC if you own a property?

Only if you dont live in it as then it's basically a capital asset.

Coffeeandbooks88 · 28/11/2025 20:12

Covidwoes · 28/11/2025 20:09

Am I right in thinking you can’t claim UC if you own a property?

Yes you can if you live in it.

BarkItOff · 28/11/2025 20:12

Needmorelego · 28/11/2025 20:07

Yes but my point was if your children didn't have disabilities but you decided to stop working you wouldn't be entitled to it.
Not all parents of children with disabilities can work so there needs to be this system.

Yes there needs to be this system I agree. But they should not be getting MORE than you get working full time! I’ve just found out I would get £400 a month more not working. And I’m not working a minimum wage job either. I’m a full time NHS professional. Benefits are clearly too high if I’m better off not working.

feellikeanalien · 28/11/2025 20:13

And yet once the children turn 18 or leave full time education all this money will stop. Where that leaves a single mum who still has to be a full time carer for a disabled adult child who will never be able to work is basically up shit creek.

As a single person over the age of 25 there is an allowance of £393. If you rent you are unlikely to have your full rent covered because of LHA. You will also have the full amount of Carers Allowance deducted from your UC. The Carers Element of UC is lower than the amount payable in Carers Allowance so that will also be deducted from your £393.

Although the child will be able to claim UC in their own right that will never make up for what has been lost by them no longer being included in the parent's claim. Oh and to top it all the amount which they will be able to claim for their disability in UC is being cut by 50% from next April. And the government are thinking of stopping it all together if they are under 21.

But hey, all those disabled people and carers raking it in.

And they won't have a high income to fall back on. But go on, have a laugh about how you can claim all this money from the government. Excuse me if I don't join in.

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/11/2025 20:14

BarkItOff · 28/11/2025 20:02

I’ve just ran our family through the calculator. Both work, combined income of 54K. 1 disabled child at home plus 1 disabled adult child. Entitled to nothing.

Ran the same details except this time said that I didn’t work. And now I’m entitled to £2.4K a month!!! Which is more than I take home from my wages.

Why would anyone work in this economy?

Do you have savings?

KaleidoscopeSmile · 28/11/2025 20:14

FroddyLoop · 28/11/2025 20:07

Lol

I don't know why you're "lol"ing - great comeback by the way. She's right

Needmorelego · 28/11/2025 20:14

BarkItOff · 28/11/2025 20:09

I put down the amount of rent we pay. Currently we get no help towards it. I leave work and it’s paid for me! Along with council tax, plus I get UC and carers allowance.

I don’t begrudge people who can’t work due to disabled children getting help but they shouldn’t be getting MORE than you get in work! The benefits I would get leaving work are more than I get paid working for the NHS in a job that I need a degree to do! And further savings not counted I would no longer be paying to park at work, or paying my NMC fee and wouldn’t have to pay back my student loan.

I’ve clearly made the wrong choice.

But presumably via your job you are paying towards a pension?
I only get the "pension credits" due to claiming Carers Allowance so when I am finally retirement age I am probably going to be a bit doomed (😬).
If you stopped working you'd get the UC but lose paying into a pension.
I think anyway 🤔

Coffeeandbooks88 · 28/11/2025 20:15

The calculators aren't reliable.

EasternStandard · 28/11/2025 20:15

Katemax82 · 28/11/2025 19:26

My husband earns 72k we get UC

I mean I don’t see why you wouldn’t if it’s available to you but that is higher than I thought for claiming.

BarkItOff · 28/11/2025 20:16

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/11/2025 20:14

Do you have savings?

Not above £5K no, it asked me that on the calculator.

We barely make ends meet. We can afford to live but no extras, and I had to cancel my NHS pension as I couldn’t afford it anymore.

BarkItOff · 28/11/2025 20:17

Needmorelego · 28/11/2025 20:14

But presumably via your job you are paying towards a pension?
I only get the "pension credits" due to claiming Carers Allowance so when I am finally retirement age I am probably going to be a bit doomed (😬).
If you stopped working you'd get the UC but lose paying into a pension.
I think anyway 🤔

No I don’t have a pension. Can’t afford the NHS contributions. My retirement plan right now is die!

Needmorelego · 28/11/2025 20:17

BarkItOff · 28/11/2025 20:16

Not above £5K no, it asked me that on the calculator.

We barely make ends meet. We can afford to live but no extras, and I had to cancel my NHS pension as I couldn’t afford it anymore.

Oh well forget what I said about pensions then 🙁

aCatCalledFawkes · 28/11/2025 20:17

Hmm I'm high rate tax payer, have two children and I think this year will be the first year that I will have to pay back some child benefit so not sure how you qualify?

Fairyladyonwheels · 28/11/2025 20:18

I have friends who don't work who get more money then me! I work full time. Crazy. After tax and everything my workless neighbours do better then me. 1 neighbour was bragging they had a new car paid by pip. My car is 20 years old. I am doing everything wrong and according to the calculator I woukd get more money not working, discounted council tax, freebie, free childcare on top. Wtf!

RealReginaPhalange · 28/11/2025 20:19

Katemax82 · 28/11/2025 19:26

My husband earns 72k we get UC

How? My husband and i bring 60k, two kids. We are entitled to nothing

RedRiverShore5 · 28/11/2025 20:20

Claim it, the government don't think twice about claiming all their perks, taxpayers pay for most their stuff.

FroddyLoop · 28/11/2025 20:20

KaleidoscopeSmile · 28/11/2025 20:14

I don't know why you're "lol"ing - great comeback by the way. She's right

She’s not. And I am not arguing on mumsnet, I just laugh and move on 😂

Needmorelego · 28/11/2025 20:21

BarkItOff · 28/11/2025 20:17

No I don’t have a pension. Can’t afford the NHS contributions. My retirement plan right now is die!

That does suck.

Signalbox · 28/11/2025 20:22

Claim what you are eligible for. They will take it back from you in another way at some point in the future.

Fraudornot · 28/11/2025 20:23

This is just utterly ridiculous that higher rate tax payers are claiming and those with disabilities are being vilified. And being told just to claim it whereas those with disabilities are castigated. Mumsnet is a very strange place