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AIBU that now is the time for us to get behind Kemi?

553 replies

StarlightRobot · 27/11/2025 16:02

Rachel Reeves has broken her promise that new taxes would not be levied on working people. She hasn’t followed through with her promise to prioritise growth. She failed to deliver welfare reform. It is clear that the current government is now led by the newly elected backbenchers. Labour are punishing those of us who work and save, taxing our pensions and making life more expensive for working families. She is making it more difficult for employers to hire staff and graduates in particular are suffering from a lack of opportunity due to her policies.

Keir Starmer failed to get any support for welfare reform from his backbenchers and is coasting politically.

Both Rachel and Keir have shown that political survival means more to them than delivering a budget that grows the economy and helps those of us who work hard and aspire for more. I feel that they hate people like me and my family- we are professionals on two good wages with children, not rich, middle class, trying to improve our lives, prepare for our futures while trying to pay the bills. There is literally nothing in this budget which would help people like me, only punishment (or a ‘contribution’ as Rachel Reeves described it in her budget speech).

Yes, the tories screwed up massively under Boris and Truss. But everything that Kemi is saying about the autumn budget is spot on. Kemi also stood up for women at a time when Labour was gaslighting women across the country in relation to trans issues.

The conservatives have a huge amount of work to do to rebuild trust and develop their policies. But if they don’t gain public support we are risking the chaos of a Reform government. AIBU to say that now is the time to get behind Kemi?

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ilovesooty · 30/11/2025 19:32

Nanalovesnature · 30/11/2025 18:25

Are the people who are against Kemi and still pro labour here on MN people who are in receipt of benefits. I don't know anyone in real life who isn't full of rage for the labour party and even more so after Wednesday's budget and all the lies. It is surprising to me reading people here who are in support of labour. I can only imagine that they are some of the many people taking it in on benefits.

Never claimed benefits in my life. Well, not until the state pension.

twistyizzy · 30/11/2025 19:32

CurlewKate · 30/11/2025 19:24

I think it’s a perfectly normal piece of hyperbole. In the same way that people say “I could strangle X person. I probably wouldn’t say it, but it doesn’t bother me if other people do.

What did the police say when you reported it?

In any case, MN agree with me that it's not acceptable. You may want to reflect on that.

twistyizzy · 30/11/2025 19:33

ilovesooty · 30/11/2025 19:32

Never claimed benefits in my life. Well, not until the state pension.

Public sector worker?

Papyrophile · 30/11/2025 19:33

Yes, I appreciate that I am a Tory and that I generally disagree with most of the MN left. But if none of your MP's have ever even tried to succeed in business, then why would people who have small companies, or bigger ones, take you seriously? They do not know anything about keeping a business going.

tinytemper66 · 30/11/2025 19:34

No. Just that.

ilovesooty · 30/11/2025 19:36

twistyizzy · 30/11/2025 19:33

Public sector worker?

I was for a period of my life, yes. What has that got to do with being on benefits?

CurlewKate · 30/11/2025 19:36

EasternStandard · 30/11/2025 19:25

What are you talking about with police?

A poster said it was a death threat. If I saw a death threat the police would be my first port of call.

twistyizzy · 30/11/2025 19:38

CurlewKate · 30/11/2025 19:36

A poster said it was a death threat. If I saw a death threat the police would be my first port of call.

Stop misquoting me. I never said it was a death threat, read my post.
I said "you are supporting the killing of an MP just because you disagree with her?".
I didn't say they made a death threat.
Your comprehension is poor.

Papyrophile · 30/11/2025 19:40

Until public sector pensions are defined contribution based, rather than final salary related, a Labour government will continue to savage DC pensions. Easy and cheap to attack, and without any fear of backlash!

EasternStandard · 30/11/2025 19:41

CurlewKate · 30/11/2025 19:36

A poster said it was a death threat. If I saw a death threat the police would be my first port of call.

No she didn’t. You’ve jumped to that in your own posts.

Mnhq have deleted it anyway so they agree

Legolava · 30/11/2025 19:41

Papyrophile · 30/11/2025 19:40

Until public sector pensions are defined contribution based, rather than final salary related, a Labour government will continue to savage DC pensions. Easy and cheap to attack, and without any fear of backlash!

The only people supporting Labour right now are retired public sector workers or those in receipt of welfare.

twistyizzy · 30/11/2025 19:43

Legolava · 30/11/2025 19:41

The only people supporting Labour right now are retired public sector workers or those in receipt of welfare.

As proven yet again. Ex/current public sector workers with great pensions (compared to majority of private sector workers) and rely on the state for employment.

Legolava · 30/11/2025 19:44

EasternStandard · 30/11/2025 19:41

No she didn’t. You’ve jumped to that in your own posts.

Mnhq have deleted it anyway so they agree

They are arguing semantics. Saying something like that, even in jest, would definitely be an offence under the malicious communications act. That’s why MNHQ had to delete it. Some might want to remember that piece of legislation when hurling abuse at people for having differing opinions.

PandoraSocks · 30/11/2025 19:44

Papyrophile · 30/11/2025 19:40

Until public sector pensions are defined contribution based, rather than final salary related, a Labour government will continue to savage DC pensions. Easy and cheap to attack, and without any fear of backlash!

Most PS pension schemes are DC now.

MyLimeGuide · 30/11/2025 20:06

PandoraSocks · 30/11/2025 18:33

People who are able to work should do so, I have no argument with that. However, I would imagine being a parent of disabled children could be very much a full time job. I am happy for my taxes to go towards supporting those families.

Yeah everyone is happy to help support disabled ppl.

PandoraSocks · 30/11/2025 20:09

MyLimeGuide · 30/11/2025 20:06

Yeah everyone is happy to help support disabled ppl.

This is really not the case, sadly. For example, have you seen some of the MN threads about the Motability scheme?

PandoraSocks · 30/11/2025 20:14

PandoraSocks · 30/11/2025 19:44

Most PS pension schemes are DC now.

Just correcting myself slightly here. I think most public sector pension schemes are now some form of career average/DC schemes. Final salary PS pension schemes are mostly are no longer open to new members AFAIK.

HPFA · 30/11/2025 20:19

Papyrophile · 30/11/2025 19:40

Until public sector pensions are defined contribution based, rather than final salary related, a Labour government will continue to savage DC pensions. Easy and cheap to attack, and without any fear of backlash!

That's extremely difficult to do. Almost all public sector pension schemes don't put contributions in a pot.

Set up a DC scheme and you have to invest all those contributions which means a big black hole in your current finances.

The coalition government tried to do this and couldn't manage it .

Kirbert2 · 30/11/2025 20:29

MyLimeGuide · 30/11/2025 20:06

Yeah everyone is happy to help support disabled ppl.

You've clearly missed some threads on here because that isn't the case at all.

HellsBalls · 30/11/2025 20:44

The Tories are now an irrelevance, at least for a generation.
Reform would seem to be incompetent, however they are scaring Labour into being more right wing than the Tories were over their 14 year reign.
If Labour can fix the NHS, law & order, and the bug bear of immigration, they should win easily next election.

LittleBowSheep · 30/11/2025 21:12

TheignT · 29/11/2025 08:20

It was interesting to hear Aysha Azarikas take on it. She said when it came out that Badenoch had hacked Harriet Harman's emails (I think it was emails could have been some other internet account) she contacted zHH begging her to let it go as she was just a young black female MP. HH accepted it.

Shame she wasn't torn to shreds like she does to others.

Totally agree.

How she didn't have her arse kicked for that is beyond me. She is not fit for public office in any capacity. For the Tories to elect her as their party leader just tells me all I need to know about their ethics.

StarlightLady · 30/11/2025 21:22

TheignT · 29/11/2025 08:20

It was interesting to hear Aysha Azarikas take on it. She said when it came out that Badenoch had hacked Harriet Harman's emails (I think it was emails could have been some other internet account) she contacted zHH begging her to let it go as she was just a young black female MP. HH accepted it.

Shame she wasn't torn to shreds like she does to others.

This.

lt wasn’t Baroness Harman’s emails, she hacked her website and altered the content; a criminal offence.

LittleBowSheep · 30/11/2025 21:30

twistyizzy · 30/11/2025 19:33

Public sector worker?

What's wrong with being a public sector worker?

Legolava · 30/11/2025 21:39

LittleBowSheep · 30/11/2025 21:30

What's wrong with being a public sector worker?

Nothing - I am one. On the whole, they are generally ignorant of what is going on in the real world. Especially retired ones on pensions that the rest of us can only dream of. All the while, the public sector is falling apart and the unions just keep kite flying and not really helping our cause. They are sheltered from a lot of the pain and uncertainty that has been inflicted on the private sector. That impacts everyone. The only people I see supporting Labour fall into two categories at the moment. My colleagues can’t stand them. They are losing the support of the current crop of PS workers.

BIossomtoes · 30/11/2025 21:41

ilovesooty · 30/11/2025 19:32

Never claimed benefits in my life. Well, not until the state pension.

Same.