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If you're really fed up of all "your" money going to benefits ....

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Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 27/11/2025 10:18

We really need to be campaigning for more council homes. One of the biggest payouts is housing benefit because of the extortionate private rent costs.

That single mum topping up with UC to bring her to over 100k? (supposedly) Wouldn't happen if her rent wasn't >£2000pcm for a 1 bed flat.

Build a 3 bed house for £300,000 (presumably less with large contracts). Charge £500 rent, they'd make the money back in 50 years even without increases. And houses last more than 50 years!

I know I've read several comments over the years from people saying this. RTB was the worst etc. So why hasn't it happened? Upfront cost. It would cost the government a hell of a lot upfront, despite the astronomical gain further down the line. But if they're not in power when the gains start to show, they get none of the glory. And that's what it boils down to. Elected governments only want something they can boast about within their term. Who cares if it benefits the country in the long run? If it doesn't benefit them short term, it doesn't matter.

Same with education. Better funding will result in more people in work, out of poverty and out of crime in 20 years time. It's the best use of money possible! But no.

SEN funding. Early intervention can prevent children getting to crisis point and keep the gap from widening so they have a chance of staying in school, getting qualifications and contributing to society in the future. Not funding SEN effectively is pretty much cutting off a section of society and forcing them to spend their lives on benefits. Funding could give them a chance. But no.

How many health conditions could be improved by early treatment so people don't end up out of work and incapacitated on benefits?

You've got to spend money to make money...

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Isekaied · 27/11/2025 12:00

The government can't afford for house prices to fall.

They are causing them to go up.

Every single scheme that helps people who can't afford to buy a house without all the extra help the government is giving is just contributing to house price inflation.

It's not just the fact that the council houses were sold.

Cheap mortgages. Stamp duty changes. Right to buy. LISA. Mortgage

Reducing LTV requirements.

Banks increasing salary multiples to calculate amount to be loaned.

Increasing loan lengths etc.

These all inflate house prices.

Like I said before. They can't afford for house prices to fall. And they won't let them.

In covid when less houses are being sold and properties were on sale for ages and then prices were being reduced slightly, people were speculating house prices may fall significantly.

They made stamp duty changes and house sales boomed again.

Keroppi · 27/11/2025 12:01

I am no economist and terrible with numbers but I like to imagine slashing taxes and encouraging people to spend and buy would be good. I suppose then it's hard to retax after
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GentleOlive · 27/11/2025 12:01

So your answer to an out of control benefits system is to throw more public money at the problem?

We don’t have a housing crisis because there aren’t enough councils houses. We have a housing crisis because there aren’t enough homes full stop. Supply and demand.

The taxpayer does not need to spend any more money on this. There simply needs to be cheaper to build more homes to have more on the market and lower prices.

That, and a bit of personal responsibility from people who have kids they cannot afford, expecting other people to pay for them. They could learn a thing or two from people paying for this about how to have only the kids you can afford.

TheignT · 27/11/2025 12:03

crackofdoom · 27/11/2025 10:33

The vibe I'm getting from younger people (probably millennial now tbh) is a great deal of bitterness that they're having to work so hard and not be able to afford somewhere decent to live.

But their anger isn't directed towards poor people claiming benefits. It's directed to older generations who have profited from the housing boom yet consistently vote for policies that further impoverish the young.

I'm 72 and vote labour. Can I have some way of opting out of the criticism of what I'm supposed to do but don't,?

exse24Londoner · 27/11/2025 12:05

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 27/11/2025 10:18

We really need to be campaigning for more council homes. One of the biggest payouts is housing benefit because of the extortionate private rent costs.

That single mum topping up with UC to bring her to over 100k? (supposedly) Wouldn't happen if her rent wasn't >£2000pcm for a 1 bed flat.

Build a 3 bed house for £300,000 (presumably less with large contracts). Charge £500 rent, they'd make the money back in 50 years even without increases. And houses last more than 50 years!

I know I've read several comments over the years from people saying this. RTB was the worst etc. So why hasn't it happened? Upfront cost. It would cost the government a hell of a lot upfront, despite the astronomical gain further down the line. But if they're not in power when the gains start to show, they get none of the glory. And that's what it boils down to. Elected governments only want something they can boast about within their term. Who cares if it benefits the country in the long run? If it doesn't benefit them short term, it doesn't matter.

Same with education. Better funding will result in more people in work, out of poverty and out of crime in 20 years time. It's the best use of money possible! But no.

SEN funding. Early intervention can prevent children getting to crisis point and keep the gap from widening so they have a chance of staying in school, getting qualifications and contributing to society in the future. Not funding SEN effectively is pretty much cutting off a section of society and forcing them to spend their lives on benefits. Funding could give them a chance. But no.

How many health conditions could be improved by early treatment so people don't end up out of work and incapacitated on benefits?

You've got to spend money to make money...

when I saw your headline I thought you were complaining about people getting benefits & I was ready for a bit of a rant..... reading your rant & I completely agree.

Obviously I blame Thatcher of the Right to Buy which may have helped a lot of people but councils didn't maintain a housing stock because it didn't sit with the Thatcherite concept of capitalism. Those with money could be rewarded with more & those without could only blame themselves. This position was embraced by Johnson who couldn't give money to his wealthy friends quickly enough. Given half a chance Farage will also run with this idea leaving those without with even less & the poverty/wealth gap growing

Grammarnut · 27/11/2025 12:05

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 27/11/2025 10:18

Sorry. That turned into a bit of a rant. Didn't mean to!

It was, but I agree with you. People used to plant trees for their grandchildren and governments do things that benefitted the future. Now everything must be an instant hit or they won't do it.

Xmasdemon · 27/11/2025 12:06

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 27/11/2025 11:50

Just out of curiosity, I googled the LHA for Kensington and Chelsea (I presumed that would be the highest). £704.22 pw, not month, per week, for a 4 bed. £497.10 PW for a 3 bed. £412.86 for a 2 bed. And £331.39 for a 1 bed.

Wow. That is crazy rent money

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 27/11/2025 12:07

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 27/11/2025 11:47

@Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits ,
”That single mum topping up with UC to bring her to over 100k? (supposedly) Wouldn't happen if her rent wasn't >£2000pcm for a 1 bed flat.”

I have recently seen on another thread someone asking how their elderly, vulnerable mother was going to manage to pay an additional £2500.00 per year because the house she bought decades ago had become worth more than 2 million pounds. Mumsnet has an awful lot of politically left contributors and the lack of empathy for this lady’s predicament was typically harsh and unsympathetic with many posters suggesting that if she couldn’t afford it she should move.

I live in a relatively affluent part of the country close to London and as it happens rent out 7 one bedroom properties not one of the rents is in excess of £1250.00 per month. I can only imagine that a rent of more than £2000.00 per month for a one bedroom flat must be for a property in central London. You can commute to central London from where I live in 35 minutes. If our hard earned taxes are being used to house people in such expensive areas that has to stop because the exchequer can’t afford it. Surely if it is acceptable to suggest that an elderly, vulnerable person should be forced to move if they can’t afford to pay this new tax then it follows that there should be a cap on how much housing benefit your single mother gets and if that means she can’t live in an expensive area then so be it.
The money we are leaching in benefits in this country is a mill stone around our necks and needs addressing urgently but this useless government will never do so.

The thing with central London rents and HB claimants, is that some people do need to be local. If you're a nurse/carer and have night shifts, even zone 4 isn't reliable. You can't rely on night shift workers for the country's capital, being married to a wealthy partner able to afford London housing costs.

Normal 9-5, yes fair enough. DH has always commuted daily from outside M25 with only train strikes and snow to mitigate. But then, you can't really have a policy to say we'll only pay London rents for night shift workers.

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Jellycatspyjamas · 27/11/2025 12:08

GentleOlive · 27/11/2025 12:01

So your answer to an out of control benefits system is to throw more public money at the problem?

We don’t have a housing crisis because there aren’t enough councils houses. We have a housing crisis because there aren’t enough homes full stop. Supply and demand.

The taxpayer does not need to spend any more money on this. There simply needs to be cheaper to build more homes to have more on the market and lower prices.

That, and a bit of personal responsibility from people who have kids they cannot afford, expecting other people to pay for them. They could learn a thing or two from people paying for this about how to have only the kids you can afford.

Much of the cost of building new homes though is the cost of the land, and people are so wedded to the idea of property/land as an investment that they aren’t going to sell it off cheaply.

Government incentives to use brown field sites and repurpose existing buildings will go some way to increasing land availability. The other thing though is it’s not government who ultimately decide, it’s local authorities who have many competing pressures. There would need to be a clear commitment to building and a will to be unpopular in decision making for anything to change.

I do think there’s a need for decent social housing - secure tenancies and flexibility in the system which would reduce the hold of private landlords.

AnxietySloth · 27/11/2025 12:10

I'm a lifelong Labour voter from a diehard Labour voting family and I will not vote Labour again.

I'm sick of working hard and sacrificing my family size to what I can afford so I can pay for other people's laziness and kids.

Jellycatspyjamas · 27/11/2025 12:11

Isekaied · 27/11/2025 12:00

The government can't afford for house prices to fall.

They are causing them to go up.

Every single scheme that helps people who can't afford to buy a house without all the extra help the government is giving is just contributing to house price inflation.

It's not just the fact that the council houses were sold.

Cheap mortgages. Stamp duty changes. Right to buy. LISA. Mortgage

Reducing LTV requirements.

Banks increasing salary multiples to calculate amount to be loaned.

Increasing loan lengths etc.

These all inflate house prices.

Like I said before. They can't afford for house prices to fall. And they won't let them.

In covid when less houses are being sold and properties were on sale for ages and then prices were being reduced slightly, people were speculating house prices may fall significantly.

They made stamp duty changes and house sales boomed again.

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In fairness house owners don’t want house prices to fall either, because they’ll feel the hit on their on paper wealth. Or find themselves in negative equity and not be able to sell their home without retaining significant debt.

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 27/11/2025 12:12

GentleOlive · 27/11/2025 12:01

So your answer to an out of control benefits system is to throw more public money at the problem?

We don’t have a housing crisis because there aren’t enough councils houses. We have a housing crisis because there aren’t enough homes full stop. Supply and demand.

The taxpayer does not need to spend any more money on this. There simply needs to be cheaper to build more homes to have more on the market and lower prices.

That, and a bit of personal responsibility from people who have kids they cannot afford, expecting other people to pay for them. They could learn a thing or two from people paying for this about how to have only the kids you can afford.

Yes, as with anything.

You need a car to get to work. Do you go for a short term solution and pay for a taxi? Or go for a long term solution and buy a car, which is a hell of a lot more expensive, but works out cheaper in the long run.

Upfront cost for long term gain is beneficial.

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GentleOlive · 27/11/2025 12:13

Jellycatspyjamas · 27/11/2025 12:08

Much of the cost of building new homes though is the cost of the land, and people are so wedded to the idea of property/land as an investment that they aren’t going to sell it off cheaply.

Government incentives to use brown field sites and repurpose existing buildings will go some way to increasing land availability. The other thing though is it’s not government who ultimately decide, it’s local authorities who have many competing pressures. There would need to be a clear commitment to building and a will to be unpopular in decision making for anything to change.

I do think there’s a need for decent social housing - secure tenancies and flexibility in the system which would reduce the hold of private landlords.

There is no shortage of land in this country. What makes land expensive is if it allowed to be built on. Allow more land to be built on and watch cost of building come down.

And try not to bring in 11.3 million more net immigrants over the next 25 years, like in the last 25.

And have people take responsibility for kids they choose to have. Although ship already sailed yesterday.

Xmasdemon · 27/11/2025 12:14

I agree that everyone should be able to have a car. But why can't the government regulate private rent ? What would happen ?

GentleOlive · 27/11/2025 12:16

Xmasdemon · 27/11/2025 12:14

I agree that everyone should be able to have a car. But why can't the government regulate private rent ? What would happen ?

What happened in Edinburgh. Rents get even more expensive.

Socialism has never, ever worked. Anywhere.

Isekaied · 27/11/2025 12:16

Xmasdemon · 27/11/2025 12:14

I agree that everyone should be able to have a car. But why can't the government regulate private rent ? What would happen ?

As posted above.

If people aren't getting a return or if there is too much regulation then they will just sell and use other investments.

Which again just reduces properties available to rent and increases competition for rentals.

Also you're just left with the huge corporations that let properties and the problems that come with them. Again they will only do it of there is a profit for them.

Council doesnt have enough properties to house everyone who needs it.

GentleOlive · 27/11/2025 12:17

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 27/11/2025 12:12

Yes, as with anything.

You need a car to get to work. Do you go for a short term solution and pay for a taxi? Or go for a long term solution and buy a car, which is a hell of a lot more expensive, but works out cheaper in the long run.

Upfront cost for long term gain is beneficial.

What you are saying is short term. Building houses is not rocket science. Countries build entire cities in months. Unfortunately that takes smart people to be in charge.

Baconbuttymad · 27/11/2025 12:17

GentleOlive · 27/11/2025 12:01

So your answer to an out of control benefits system is to throw more public money at the problem?

We don’t have a housing crisis because there aren’t enough councils houses. We have a housing crisis because there aren’t enough homes full stop. Supply and demand.

The taxpayer does not need to spend any more money on this. There simply needs to be cheaper to build more homes to have more on the market and lower prices.

That, and a bit of personal responsibility from people who have kids they cannot afford, expecting other people to pay for them. They could learn a thing or two from people paying for this about how to have only the kids you can afford.

Yes! Too many people having kids they can’t afford and then needing bigger houses which they can’t afford.
A family of 3 can get a 2 bed flat for example which is much cheaper to run and bills would be cheaper etc.

Baconbuttymad · 27/11/2025 12:18

GentleOlive · 27/11/2025 12:17

What you are saying is short term. Building houses is not rocket science. Countries build entire cities in months. Unfortunately that takes smart people to be in charge.

Yes like China (more efficient)

HPFA · 27/11/2025 12:19

AnxietySloth · 27/11/2025 12:10

I'm a lifelong Labour voter from a diehard Labour voting family and I will not vote Labour again.

I'm sick of working hard and sacrificing my family size to what I can afford so I can pay for other people's laziness and kids.

Did putting kids into poverty over the last fourteen years lower our overall tax bill?

Or have the long-term costs of children being raised in poverty actually meant we were all worse off in the long run?

Xmasdemon · 27/11/2025 12:19

HPFA · 27/11/2025 12:16

It's odd how in countries like Norway and Sweden where children are properly supported families don't generally have "more kids than they can afford".

In fact Norwegians are now worried about a falling birthrate:

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2025/may/17/rethink-what-we-expect-from-parents-norway-grapple-with-falling-birthrate

In the next 25 years our government will be paying people to have kids

VegBox · 27/11/2025 12:19

WorriedRelative · 27/11/2025 11:03

Ok so here's a scenario for you.

A nice respectable married couple have four kids living in private rented accommodation. He works in retail on a low salary, she works in a care home on minimum wage. They manage without professional child care by working different shifts so one is available when the kids aren't at school or using nursery free hours.

Then Dad is hit by a car while walking to work. He's killed. He doesn't have life insurance. She has to reduce her hours as she has no help with child care, then she gets fired for taking too much time off work because the kids are struggling with school due to bereavement.

She's left claiming benefits.

Does she feed and clothe two children adequately and drop the other two off at the workhouse because she can't afford to feed them or should she scrimp on care so all four suffer?

Benefits are a safety net for people in difficult times. Yes some people are drug addicts, drunks, or just plain feckless but we shouldn't plunge innocent children into poverty because a bad parent might spend the money badly. We should prop up the decent people (not just for the benefit of the children but because it is also good for the economy) and then look at how we deal with the problem families as a separate issue.

It is exceptionally foolish to have 4 children if you can't afford the very modest cost of life insurance or work in a professional role where it's offered as a standard benefit. Frankly, nobody should be having 4 kids unless they are very wealthy, as the impact of job loss etc is so catastrophic.

MO0N · 27/11/2025 12:20

I'm extremely unhappy that my taxes have been used to line the pockets of landlords allowing them to inflate the price of property such that the ordinary people cannot afford a roof over their heads.

Isekaied · 27/11/2025 12:20

Xmasdemon · 27/11/2025 12:19

In the next 25 years our government will be paying people to have kids

If only they would have done it earlier I would have had more kids if I could have afforded it.

But couldn't afford it.

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