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If you're really fed up of all "your" money going to benefits ....

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Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 27/11/2025 10:18

We really need to be campaigning for more council homes. One of the biggest payouts is housing benefit because of the extortionate private rent costs.

That single mum topping up with UC to bring her to over 100k? (supposedly) Wouldn't happen if her rent wasn't >£2000pcm for a 1 bed flat.

Build a 3 bed house for £300,000 (presumably less with large contracts). Charge £500 rent, they'd make the money back in 50 years even without increases. And houses last more than 50 years!

I know I've read several comments over the years from people saying this. RTB was the worst etc. So why hasn't it happened? Upfront cost. It would cost the government a hell of a lot upfront, despite the astronomical gain further down the line. But if they're not in power when the gains start to show, they get none of the glory. And that's what it boils down to. Elected governments only want something they can boast about within their term. Who cares if it benefits the country in the long run? If it doesn't benefit them short term, it doesn't matter.

Same with education. Better funding will result in more people in work, out of poverty and out of crime in 20 years time. It's the best use of money possible! But no.

SEN funding. Early intervention can prevent children getting to crisis point and keep the gap from widening so they have a chance of staying in school, getting qualifications and contributing to society in the future. Not funding SEN effectively is pretty much cutting off a section of society and forcing them to spend their lives on benefits. Funding could give them a chance. But no.

How many health conditions could be improved by early treatment so people don't end up out of work and incapacitated on benefits?

You've got to spend money to make money...

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Hedgehogbrown · 27/11/2025 11:17

All of these people getting annoyed are the same people who will be annoyed if their house doesn't triple in value over the next few years and who will probably inherit a really expensive house that their parents paid a pittance for. Then they don't want other people getting their extortionate rent subsidised. Landlords just up the rent to what the threshold is to get the most money, and they make people live in shit holes.

Hedgehogbrown · 27/11/2025 11:19

happystar123 · 27/11/2025 10:47

£2000 a month will be in an expensive part of the country. No way should hosing benefit be paying for expensive rentals. Housing in a lot of the north west will be under £1000 a month, they should be relocated there.

😂 😂 what, all poor people should be relocated up north? Who is going to serve your coffee and clean your office? Idiot.

TheGirlWhoWantedToBeGod · 27/11/2025 11:19

I find it crazy that taxes being spent on benefits is the thing people zero in on.

Our taxes go towards a huge amount of things, and benefits are a small proportion of this. What about all your tax that goes towards the criminal justice system and maintaining prisons? Personally I’m a lot more annoyed that my taxes need to be spent on the (mostly men!) people who break the law.

So instead of bitching about single mothers, maybe get angry about the amount of men committing serious crimes.

The narrative of single mothers being demonised is exactly that - a narrative.

Xmasdemon · 27/11/2025 11:22

There could be a cap to housing benefit to discourage poorer people living in cities

stretchytiger · 27/11/2025 11:23

I worked on new build social housing for a council in London. They were originally going to be family houses with a social tenure - but because of Right to Buy they had to be changed to intermediate/ shared ownership. Otherwise all the time, effort, fees and construction cost we expended would have been wasted if they were then bought up and taken out of circulation for the social tenants who needed them. Right to Buy should be abolished in England as it has been in Scotland and Wales.

Xmasdemon · 27/11/2025 11:24

Wait actually, I think it is capped ?

Kitmanic · 27/11/2025 11:24

Xmasdemon · 27/11/2025 11:22

There could be a cap to housing benefit to discourage poorer people living in cities

Where the poor people work is? Cleaning, retail, hospitality, hospital, delivering packages. Who's going to all that if you clear the poor out of the cities?

Isekaied · 27/11/2025 11:24

CurbsideProphet · 27/11/2025 10:51

I don't think that moving every private renting family out of the SE to the NW of England is really the answer to rocketing rental costs.

Agree

We're part of the UK as well. Not just a dumping ground for people the South don't want.

We got our own issues. And house prices increasing. Don't need more upward pressure.

Sort your people where they are based rather than dumping your issues to a different part of the country.

Isekaied · 27/11/2025 11:26

GehenSieweiter · 27/11/2025 10:51

'Other people's taxes' pay for lots of things though, including pensions for lots of people who don't need them.

Pensions for people who don't need them???

Are these the people who have paid into the pension scheme??

I guess pensions should only ve reserved for people who have never paid into the scheme- obviously they need it more 🙄

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 27/11/2025 11:26

LakieLady · 27/11/2025 10:52

In the long term, building council (or housing association) homes is cost neutral.

The money borrowed to build the homes is repaid from the rental income. Once it's paid off, most of that rental income can be used to build more homes (after deducting a bit for maintenance and management costs).

RTB fucked that right up, along with strict controls on councils borrowing money for capital projects.

As per my p.p, Labour had 13 years in which to repeal,or modify RTB. But they chose not to.
Also worth remembering that at the time it was introduced, housing was considerably cheaper, compared to incomes.

Also, RTB had already been in effect to some extent. Around 10 years ago a dd bought an ex council home which had been bought by the previous owners in 1971, well before Thatcher.
She paid almost exactly 100 times what they did.

Yes, we had a good old nose on the Land Reg to find that out!

GehenSieweiter · 27/11/2025 11:28

Isekaied · 27/11/2025 11:26

Pensions for people who don't need them???

Are these the people who have paid into the pension scheme??

I guess pensions should only ve reserved for people who have never paid into the scheme- obviously they need it more 🙄

Nobody has 'paid in' to any 'scheme' regarding the state pension.

Daisy12Maisie · 27/11/2025 11:28

I completely agree.
I have a flat that I rent out (not out of choice I used to live there then had to move in with family in a different area due to a bereavement.) I am putting it on the market as soon as I can but there have been constant maintenance issues I have had to sort out first.
As a private landlord it has been horrendous. I make a loss every month then there are continual issues with the flat. It has caused me an unbelievable amount of stress. I just want rid of it but I can’t sell it until the issues are sorted.
I regularly read things about rich landlords but they must be those without a mortgage. I have a mortgage on the flat and it’s basically a nightmare and a money pit. I am desperately hoping to get the current issues sorted within the next 3 months and get it on the market. I will have to take out a loan to sell it.
Landlords have been hit hard by tax changes so mortgages are no longer considered an expense. So a lot of landlords will be making a loss unless they are mortgage free.
As a result most landlords will be desperate to sell and the houses for rent will end up just being owned by companies. So the rents will go up and up and up. So it’s a scary time to be renting. I hope lots more council houses are built so people can be offered secure, affordable housing.

If there end up being hardly any rentals due to the changes to how landlords are taxed etc then it is concerning where people are going to live.

I know my son will need to move around the country for various placements as he qualifies in his profession and I think if there is a shortage of flats to rent then he will just have to rent a room in someone’s house. I think more people will end up renting out any spare rooms so that will help the housing crisis.

TeenagersAngst · 27/11/2025 11:28

WorriedRelative · 27/11/2025 11:03

Ok so here's a scenario for you.

A nice respectable married couple have four kids living in private rented accommodation. He works in retail on a low salary, she works in a care home on minimum wage. They manage without professional child care by working different shifts so one is available when the kids aren't at school or using nursery free hours.

Then Dad is hit by a car while walking to work. He's killed. He doesn't have life insurance. She has to reduce her hours as she has no help with child care, then she gets fired for taking too much time off work because the kids are struggling with school due to bereavement.

She's left claiming benefits.

Does she feed and clothe two children adequately and drop the other two off at the workhouse because she can't afford to feed them or should she scrimp on care so all four suffer?

Benefits are a safety net for people in difficult times. Yes some people are drug addicts, drunks, or just plain feckless but we shouldn't plunge innocent children into poverty because a bad parent might spend the money badly. We should prop up the decent people (not just for the benefit of the children but because it is also good for the economy) and then look at how we deal with the problem families as a separate issue.

The mother on the other thread who was taking home £6k per month (£3200 in benefits) was not down on her luck. She had three children as a single mother with a Brazilian father knowing she would be in this situation.

She's from the US, living in London.

GehenSieweiter · 27/11/2025 11:29

Xmasdemon · 27/11/2025 11:22

There could be a cap to housing benefit to discourage poorer people living in cities

Yes, I'd love to see how the rich folk cope with no cleaners, bus drivers, nurses, teachers, childminders, shop staff, and so on......

WorriedRelative · 27/11/2025 11:29

CautiousLurker2 · 27/11/2025 11:14

There are apparently more than 1m unoccupied/abandoned homes in England and 120000 odd in Wales. No need to rely on new builds entirely.

A large proportion of these existing homes could be subject to a compulsory purchase order, or simply repossessed if the owner/inheritor has not been present or traced within a 5 year period. They’d cost a bit - perhaps even a lot - to do up and make inhabitable but it would be cheaper and quicker than building from scratch - and stimulate the growth in trades such as plumbing, electrics and plastering etc. Appreciate many may be in areas where there are no jobs now, but just as many will likely not be - and then new home building can be focused on areas where there lots of jobs but no affordable housing.

I think a tax on uninhabited homes would help too.

Holycowhowmuch · 27/11/2025 11:29

Id rather 8M£ a day was spent on giving our children decent homes, properly cooked (on site) school dinners, nursery places and cherished.
I do not want to spend £8M a day on random boat arrivals 34,000 this year the eyewatering costs are not mentioned but we cant do everything for everyone. Our children are our future they should be prioritised.

surreygirly · 27/11/2025 11:30

CatsAreCool222 · 27/11/2025 10:21

Totally agree. Plus state run free childcare

It is not free I pay for it in tax

Xmasdemon · 27/11/2025 11:30

Probably Jeremy Corbyn would have sorted this out

BarbieShrimp · 27/11/2025 11:32

Isekaied · 27/11/2025 10:30

I think people dont realise that people earning high amounts have the same costs.

They have high rent and mortgage costs.

They aren't rolling in it either despite earning ' so much' according to some.

But it's OK to tax them further?

I'm a high earner and... what?

Isekaied · 27/11/2025 11:33

GehenSieweiter · 27/11/2025 11:28

Nobody has 'paid in' to any 'scheme' regarding the state pension.

No just been working and paying their taxes and NI contributions- how🙄 dare they get paid a state pension.

Obviously people who didn't do that deserve pension payments more.

gamerchick · 27/11/2025 11:34

happystar123 · 27/11/2025 10:47

£2000 a month will be in an expensive part of the country. No way should hosing benefit be paying for expensive rentals. Housing in a lot of the north west will be under £1000 a month, they should be relocated there.

Excellent idea. Let's ship out all those minimum wage workers to cheaper parts of the country and the minted ones can fend for themselves. They don't need shops and whatnot do they?

TopPocketFind · 27/11/2025 11:34

888casino · 27/11/2025 10:24

Scraping the two child limit is a joke. I’m not perfect got pregnant at 15 fave birth at 16 but 4+ kids and expecting other peoples taxes to pay is surely taking the piss? I think two kids was a reasonable cap at a push they could have raised it to 3. Shit happens but how did you not learn your lesson the third time
I mean seriously? Raising taxes for THIS?? I doubt many people will vote labour again.
Im fine with my money going on someone’s two or even three children but you can’t deny 4+ is taking the piss

The policy will be partly paid for by raising taxes on Britain’s gambling sector, is that also an issue for you?

MintDog · 27/11/2025 11:34

The big issue for me is that CB should be based on household income.

thatsalad · 27/11/2025 11:35

Xmasdemon · 27/11/2025 11:22

There could be a cap to housing benefit to discourage poorer people living in cities

There already is a cap. And that makes no sense, because cities are where jobs are, and a lot of poor people work, they just work in such low paid jobs that it needs to be topped up by benefits.

In addition to that, what about people in cities who are not poor, but just lost their job and need help until they find one? How does it makes sense for them to not be able to pay their rent, so they have to move out of cities, where there are very little jobs?

CautiousLurker2 · 27/11/2025 11:35

BarbieShrimp · 27/11/2025 11:32

I'm a high earner and... what?

Think you missed the sarcasm - PP was implying that high earners have proportionally higher living costs and therefore not much more disposable income than anyone else and thus it seems egregious to tax them more on top (esp given they already also pay proportionally more tax).

Unless you want to pay more tax than you already do?