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Getting paid £3513.72 tax free per year for each 3rd, 4th or more child if on UC

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WishingIwasyoungerandslimmer · 26/11/2025 20:02

Is this really reasonable? For those working and just missing the eligibility criteria for Universal Credit, is it fair to them?

When would anyone working and just gettig by, be able to get an additional take home pay amount of £3513.72 per year for each child that you have? Have three children? Here's £10541.16. Got 4? That's £14054.88 . Have 5? Here's £17568.60. These figures are tax free amounts so the extra pay needed will be a lot more.

Did those calling for the two child cap to be lifted not understand the amounts of money that will be handed out if lifted?

Doesn't it just disincentivise parents from moving off Universal Credit into work or for those in work to try and get better paid jobs?

Isn't it a slap in the face for couples having to limit their family size to one or two children and to have to both work full time to support them through paid labour and paying taxes?

Surely if the government felt forced to scrap the two child cap, why not instead have reduced rates for each subsequent child? Apart from food, other costs will be less as the each new child has the use of older siblings old clothes, baby equipment etc.

The two child cap was popular for the majority of the country. It was popular with those that would have liked to have more children but cannot afford to do on the wages/salary they receive. Now over the next few years as it gets harder and harder to get by for those in work but not receiving benefits, the resentment will grow and grow. While those recipients of the UK's welfare state's largesse are saying, thank you very much, no need now for me to try and find work or work harder.

OP posts:
billandtedsexcellentadventure · 26/11/2025 22:08

I know someone who is onto her 6th child. Never worked a day in her life. Draining resources like calling ambulances for her sick children because she doesn’t drive to take the children to walk in centres and out of hours gp. I would put money on her having a 7th knowing that this cap has been lifted. I stuck at 2 children because I receive nothing other than child benefit. The same other mom used to tell me I was cruel putting my child in breakfast club. Yet I had to do I could work. It just feels like working mothers are comstantly
beinf penalized.

Btowngirl · 26/11/2025 22:11

WishingIwasyoungerandslimmer · 26/11/2025 22:04

It's not about mothers hating other mothers and their children.

It is about fairness to the working mother having to make a hard choice and not having the much wanted second or third child because they realise they cannot afford it on their current take home pay. All while the mother on benefits decides this is what they want knowing they will get extra funds to pay for its upbringing. They are not doing it to get the extra money, they just want an extra child no matter what, but they will be able to fund it courtesy of the welfare state.

Both have choices but only one can act on it. Why is it the worker that is expected to rein in her desire and make the sensible choice, but not the one on benefits.

Fairness is needed but it appears to be going out the window if not gone already.

This is so idealistic talking about fairness. What about the unfairness of children being born into poverty? Or the unfairness of children being born in war torn countries? Arguing what is or isn’t fair is limitless, but when it comes to children surely the choice should be what’s right not what’s fair.

Gingertam · 26/11/2025 22:18

sciaticafanatica · 26/11/2025 21:18

I think if you work and don’t play the system and are responsible for your life choices then you are screwed over to support people who don’t take responsibility or can’t be arsed working

Totally agree. I think Labour have made a big mistake here. I've heard a number of work colleagues say they won't vote for them again because of this. I also don't think it takes children out of poverty anyway. I'm sure in lots of cases the money doesn't even reach the child.

ivyleafgeranium · 26/11/2025 22:19

There is also the “trickle up” argument. If you give money to those that don’t have much they will spend it. They won’t stick it in a cash ISA! So even if they do spend it on vapes and takeaways it helps grow the economy. If the economy grows we all benefit. That’s the theory anyway.

thewintergarden · 26/11/2025 22:20

Gingertam · 26/11/2025 22:18

Totally agree. I think Labour have made a big mistake here. I've heard a number of work colleagues say they won't vote for them again because of this. I also don't think it takes children out of poverty anyway. I'm sure in lots of cases the money doesn't even reach the child.

Agree. I don't want to see children go hungry.
But far too often the money doesn't get anywhere near the child.
Do decent breakfasts and lunches at school. Food vouchers or maybe packed evening meals to take home

But I don't see why so many middle earners should be squeezed from every angle to pay for the feckless who want to order dominos 5 times a week and vape their way through the rest of their benefits.

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 26/11/2025 22:26

£1835 is the benefit cap, if you work less than 16 hours a week, that isn't being lifted. £292.81 per child £400.14 for a single adult over 25. £1097 rent for a 3 bedroom house (lha in Ashford kent). Even if you are a single parent with 2 children you are getting hit with the cap, you would not get any extra for a third child because the benefit cap (not 2 child cap) comes into play

ihaterain2024 · 26/11/2025 22:27

CraftyGin · 26/11/2025 21:31

But those kids are unlikely to be paying your pension in the future.

Those kids will end up on benefits just like their parents as they know nothing better.

Whistonia · 26/11/2025 22:30

Sartre · 26/11/2025 20:08

There’s zilch evidence the cap prevented poor people from having more than two children. All it was successful at was driving those kids into more poverty. It was a cruel cap, directed at the ‘feckless’ poor who people for some reason think just sit around having children to get more benefits. I’m sure a few people like this do exist but they’re few and far between. Plus I just don’t think children should ever suffer.

And the costs to the tax payer of children living in poverty are far greater than the cost of removing the two child cap.

matresense · 26/11/2025 22:33

The benefit cap had no impact on absolute poverty - it really wasn’t Dickensian - it also didn’t apply to children already born when the cap came in. The effect it had was on relative poverty - ie do you live in a family that earns less than 60 per cent of median wage. I think that people do have to understand this - in some cases, this could be the consequence of having two parents who don’t work more than 18 hours a week between them, topped up by benefits. Should they add another child into the mix? If you get a “good enough” level of support by doing the bare minimum, will people be incentivised to work?

Joeninety · 26/11/2025 22:34

I see these sorts of people everywhere on my daily travels, and it makes me feel sick.

Coffeeandbooks88 · 26/11/2025 22:36

Joeninety · 26/11/2025 22:34

I see these sorts of people everywhere on my daily travels, and it makes me feel sick.

From just looking at them you can tell?

Joeninety · 26/11/2025 22:37

Coffeeandbooks88 · 26/11/2025 22:36

From just looking at them you can tell?

Indeed, from a mile away.

thewintergarden · 26/11/2025 22:39

Whistonia · 26/11/2025 22:30

And the costs to the tax payer of children living in poverty are far greater than the cost of removing the two child cap.

But that has to be balanced against the huge costs of having a vast chunk of the population that is disincentivised to work. And the further costs of having a core workforce that is demoralised and demotivated

juggleit · 26/11/2025 22:43

Holluschickie · 26/11/2025 20:06

Are these figures really right?
But assuming they are, do people really have kids to get benefits?
I have 2 DC and I wouldn't have any more if you paid me a million.

😂😂😂

Volpini · 26/11/2025 22:50

Holdonforsummer · 26/11/2025 21:15

This is lifted from the Guardian today looking at whether hypothetically people stand to lose or gain in today’s budget: ‘The Smith family have three children and live in a rented flat in the Midlands. Jack works 35 hours a week in a distribution centre and is paid the NLW. His partner Mia isn’t working. After tax and NI his take-home pay is £1,627 a month. This is topped up with a monthly universal credit and child benefit payment totalling £1,457.
Under the two-child cap parents could only claim universal credit or tax credits for their first two children. The decision to abolish this rule , and the uprating of benefits, mean the family should be able to claim £304 a month for their third child. They will also benefit from the 2026 uplift in the NLW.’ I read this to mean that this hypothetical family are now going to get more in UC than if the mum were working full time at the minimum wage. How on earth is that incentivising work? Their combined income with his salary and their new monthly UC amount will be £3381 (including the uplift for their 3rd child) It would take one salary of £52k to get that after tax. How on earth is that fair?

I work f/t and earn £75000 - my monthly take home pay is £4100 (after pension contribution deductions and paying for private health care benefit.) I have two kids (and fortunately a husband who works ft.)
I thought I was doing alright!!! Now I’m not so sure!!!!

Volpini · 26/11/2025 22:55

Jimpson · 26/11/2025 21:19

I’m a single parent of three children earning a similar wage to ‘Jack’ and get nowhere near that amount in UC. Maybe that isn’t that families whole story?

Thanks for updating with this because I was thinking „surely that can’t be right?“
I dontsay that from a place of judgement - was simply wondering about the accuracy.

Joeninety · 26/11/2025 23:07

Volpini · 26/11/2025 22:50

I work f/t and earn £75000 - my monthly take home pay is £4100 (after pension contribution deductions and paying for private health care benefit.) I have two kids (and fortunately a husband who works ft.)
I thought I was doing alright!!! Now I’m not so sure!!!!

So in effect even the poorest of society get over £3000 clear a month now ? It's totally ridiculous imo.

SpottyAardvark · 26/11/2025 23:09

I voted for this government. I also went out canvassing for my local Labour candidate. I was delighted when they were elected and I wanted them to succeed, but they have been a massive disappointment in so many ways.

This economically illiterate budget is the last straw. You don’t need an economics degree to understand that when you tax something, you get less of it. In last year’s budget, Reeves taxed jobs. Then, unsurprisingly, unemployment increased. This time, she has taxed work. I wonder what the result will be?

By the same economic logic, when you incentivise something, you get more of it. Reeves is incentivising people who live on benefits to produce more children they can’t afford to support. I wonder what the result will be?

I’m out and I won’t be voting Labour at the next election.

Jade3450 · 26/11/2025 23:09

Holdonforsummer · 26/11/2025 21:33

I don’t think it is stoking up hatred. I think what is happening is that middle earners see low earners taking home the same as them once UC has been included: it makes the nurses, midwives, teachers etc wonder why they are working so hard.

This is comparing apples and oranges though.

The people this thread is complaining about - those claiming UC for multiple children while not working - aren’t potential teachers, nurses or midwives who’ve simply opted out. They don’t have a degree of job prospects, nor the wherewithal or intelligence to get any.

Why? Because they might have grown up in poverty themselves, with poor or no parenting, they have low intelligence, possible abuse or exposure to additions, undiagnosed dyslexia or other issues, or simply because they had no guidance, no one to fight their corner.

It’s very, very hard to break out of that cycle.

AliceMaforethought · 26/11/2025 23:18

This budget is an absolute joke. Absolutely before anyone starts saying that Reform are better, they agreed with lifting the cap! The cap was more or less the only thing the Tories brought in that wasn't insane. This nonsense is enough to have me vote Conservative next time.

x2boys · 26/11/2025 23:18

Dollymylove · 26/11/2025 20:36

Are you sure your sums are correct OP?
Child benefit £26.05 a week for the first child.
17.25 a week for each subsequent child

It's nothing to do with child benefit ,
It's the child element of universal credit.

Negroany · 26/11/2025 23:21

It was pretty unpopular when it was introduced so I'm not sure how it has suddenly become popular.

BellesAndGraces · 26/11/2025 23:21

Imissgoldengrahams · 26/11/2025 20:48

I have four dc.
Never had more children than "necessary" to ever gain benefits.
Shit upbringing meant I was never going to get a job that pays beyond min wage. Been on job seekers, income support and now UC and probably will be on it for life sadly.
And this is after moving from a retail position, to a management position within an NHS building so I have tried to better myself, have tried to earn more as I hate being reliant on benefits but lifting it is a good thing imo.

So why did you have 4 children, instead of the 1 child have because I couldn’t afford more?

Harpertron · 26/11/2025 23:22

How do we know the children will benefit from it? It may just go in the parent/s pockets?! The country didn't want this but as usual, tax payers have to pay for it.

thewintergarden · 26/11/2025 23:23

Jade3450 · 26/11/2025 23:09

This is comparing apples and oranges though.

The people this thread is complaining about - those claiming UC for multiple children while not working - aren’t potential teachers, nurses or midwives who’ve simply opted out. They don’t have a degree of job prospects, nor the wherewithal or intelligence to get any.

Why? Because they might have grown up in poverty themselves, with poor or no parenting, they have low intelligence, possible abuse or exposure to additions, undiagnosed dyslexia or other issues, or simply because they had no guidance, no one to fight their corner.

It’s very, very hard to break out of that cycle.

I disagree. I know people doing exactly those types of jobs who opt to work minimum hours to get UC

I have offered people promotions with FT hours and they have chosen to stay in their lower graded PT job because they are better off.