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Getting paid £3513.72 tax free per year for each 3rd, 4th or more child if on UC

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WishingIwasyoungerandslimmer · 26/11/2025 20:02

Is this really reasonable? For those working and just missing the eligibility criteria for Universal Credit, is it fair to them?

When would anyone working and just gettig by, be able to get an additional take home pay amount of £3513.72 per year for each child that you have? Have three children? Here's £10541.16. Got 4? That's £14054.88 . Have 5? Here's £17568.60. These figures are tax free amounts so the extra pay needed will be a lot more.

Did those calling for the two child cap to be lifted not understand the amounts of money that will be handed out if lifted?

Doesn't it just disincentivise parents from moving off Universal Credit into work or for those in work to try and get better paid jobs?

Isn't it a slap in the face for couples having to limit their family size to one or two children and to have to both work full time to support them through paid labour and paying taxes?

Surely if the government felt forced to scrap the two child cap, why not instead have reduced rates for each subsequent child? Apart from food, other costs will be less as the each new child has the use of older siblings old clothes, baby equipment etc.

The two child cap was popular for the majority of the country. It was popular with those that would have liked to have more children but cannot afford to do on the wages/salary they receive. Now over the next few years as it gets harder and harder to get by for those in work but not receiving benefits, the resentment will grow and grow. While those recipients of the UK's welfare state's largesse are saying, thank you very much, no need now for me to try and find work or work harder.

OP posts:
BringBackCatsEyes · 27/11/2025 07:24

thewintergarden · 26/11/2025 23:51

Not now... She can just pop out another child instead.... And then their house will be overcrowded and she'll get a priority place on the waiting list for a big council house. ...

At one point she will not be able to have another child (menopause). They’re going to golden aren’t they…..15 children to support, required to find work in order not to lose UC. It’s not what I would want in my 50s.

HellsAngel81 · 27/11/2025 07:27

Onesmallnoserighthere · 27/11/2025 06:39

So it's literally just morals then, and not because you know life on benefits is quite shit?

My sister (mentioned above) has quite a cushy live on her benefits. Between her and her partner, they earn more money than me per year (as a 20+yrs qualified veterinary nurse who has always worked full time over that period).

They certainly have way more monthly disposable income than me, and have been able to splurge on numerous pets and holidays.

Im not saying that is the same for everyone on benefits, but this is the truth regarding my sis.

HelenaWaiting · 27/11/2025 07:29

Holluschickie · 26/11/2025 20:06

Are these figures really right?
But assuming they are, do people really have kids to get benefits?
I have 2 DC and I wouldn't have any more if you paid me a million.

No they are not. The OP has chosen to ignore the existence of the overall benefit cap for the purpose of getting people riled up.

BringBackCatsEyes · 27/11/2025 07:29

TheFairyCaravan · 27/11/2025 07:20

If they said “fuck this” jacked it all in, threw caution to the wind and decided to have another child, who is going to pay their mortgage? Benefits don’t, not that I think they should.

Children are a privilege not a right. If you are in a low paid job, it’s absolutely right that the government should help you but that help should be finite. If you’re already struggling to pay for the two children you have then it’s completely irresponsible to add anymore into the mix.

When I was facing having to claim UC (redundancy) there is no way I could have kept my home long term. It would not be enough to pay my mortgage (£500, 2 bed) and bills and support my son.
I don’t know if I missed something but I can’t think why someone would choose that.

CeeJay81 · 27/11/2025 07:34

WonderingWanda · 27/11/2025 00:00

People with disabled children are unlikely to go rushing out to have more kids just so they can explore that fact, have you any idea the impact of raising a child with a disability? Providing constant care or dealing with a life threatening medical condition is exhausting.

Maybe but one of the parents could be on pip. I have a friend with 6 kids. She gets high rate mobility. Her partner is her carer. The last child was conceived after she became disabled. Shes still young enough to have another, wouldn't suprise me if they did.

Onesmallnoserighthere · 27/11/2025 07:57

HellsAngel81 · 27/11/2025 07:27

My sister (mentioned above) has quite a cushy live on her benefits. Between her and her partner, they earn more money than me per year (as a 20+yrs qualified veterinary nurse who has always worked full time over that period).

They certainly have way more monthly disposable income than me, and have been able to splurge on numerous pets and holidays.

Im not saying that is the same for everyone on benefits, but this is the truth regarding my sis.

Edited

Sounds great, why don't you quit your job and earn more by living like she does? Why don't you do that for your family if it would increase their standard of living?

GentleOlive · 27/11/2025 07:59

Onesmallnoserighthere · 27/11/2025 07:57

Sounds great, why don't you quit your job and earn more by living like she does? Why don't you do that for your family if it would increase their standard of living?

Like someone upthread said, presumably for the same reason the benefits claimant doesn’t leave benefits and get a job to pay her way. After all, it’s not cushy being on benefits. Apparently.

Onesmallnoserighthere · 27/11/2025 08:06

GentleOlive · 27/11/2025 07:59

Like someone upthread said, presumably for the same reason the benefits claimant doesn’t leave benefits and get a job to pay her way. After all, it’s not cushy being on benefits. Apparently.

What's the "same reason", surely they would be opposite and contradictory reasons?

RobustPastry · 27/11/2025 08:19

WishingIwasyoungerandslimmer · 27/11/2025 00:57

A child doesn't have to have a serious life limiting disability for the overall Universal Credit benefit cap to apply to the family. If a parent or just one child under 18 receives PIP (Personal Independence Payment), then the benefit cap does not apply to the family's benefits.

Could this be also a factor in the exponential rate of PIP claims? Remember PIP can be claimed for ADHD, for those anywhere on the autism spectrum, for those with anxiety, depression and so on if the affect of the condition impacts enough on their day to day living.

Oh please. Just stop it with your ableist and shit stirring. It’s very, very, notoriously difficult to get PIP. It’s a 40 page form, there are assessments to go through with an official, you have to prove what you can and can’t do.

PIP’s not given just because you have a diagnosis, it’s only given if that diagnosis seriously affects your life. Many people who get PIP use the money to help them to stay in their jobs.

Do you know that PIP also has the lowest fraud rate of all UK benefits. It has an actual 0% fraud rate. If you want to find people who are lying about their situation to claim benefits or avoid paying tax, look elsewhere. Disabled people have enough shit to deal with already.

Universal Credit (for example) has a fraud rate of over 10% and much more significantly we all know about the billionaire owned goal corps who refuse to pay proper tax in the UK.

https://www.benefitsandwork.co.uk/news/zero-percent-fraud-rate-for-pip,-dwp-figures-show

I’m sorry to pick out this one example to quote because I I know it’s a very commonly held view, it’s just so depressing seeing people being sneered at for daring to continue to live in bad financial situations beyond their control.

Zero percent fraud rate for PIP, DWP figures show

Get the benefits you're entitled to: help with personal independence payment (PIP), universal credit (UC), employment and support allowance (ESA),disability living allowance (DLA). Claims, assessments, reviews, appeals.

https://www.benefitsandwork.co.uk/news/zero-percent-fraud-rate-for-pip,-dwp-figures-show

RobustPastry · 27/11/2025 08:29

I think trying to lift kids out of poverty is a very good thing to spend taxpayer’s money on.

ivyleafgeranium · 27/11/2025 08:37

BringBackCatsEyes · 26/11/2025 23:42

Wow, there's some broad stereotyping about people on low incomes there.
Maybe people on low incomes are not in a position to invest their money, but perhaps they spend it on clothing, or food, or their homes.

Indeed - I was responding to an earlier poster who said they will spend it on vapes etc. I’m sure they will spend it on food clothes etc but my ( or the economists) point is that because they won’t do what the government don’t want us doing ( save in cash ISAs- restricted in case you didn’t notice) it should grow the economy. How much, is questionable. I am very aware of the issues regarding poverty, benefits and stigma as I work in that field.

Kitte321 · 27/11/2025 08:46

I’m torn on this having been outraged when it was first announced.
The studies (having looked for the opposite) clearly show that it removes children from poverty. My question would be whether that is on a metric basis on whether it really improves outcomes.
I think the better route would be funded sure starts centres and early years funding (state run) so that you know that the support is reaching the right place.
But as I said, in torn.

Jade3450 · 27/11/2025 09:01

sciaticafanatica · 27/11/2025 06:25

@Jade3450 so how is giving the irresponsible adults of these children more money actually helping those children?
you have described part of my childhood.
my mother did not spend the money she received on her children.

I agree.

I was responding to a poster who implied that many of the people this will affect are educated professionals who choose not to work and have more babies instead. Unfortunately it’s a lot more complicated than that.

Imagine you’re a young woman who has grown up in difficult circumstances and as a result has three children by different men, no qualifications and low intelligence. She lives on benefits, has no family help and doesn’t get maintenance from any of the kids’ dads.

Even if she took on a minimum wage job (which, believe me, are not that easy to find) AND managed to find local childcare to cover her hours, she would get reduced payments due to her income. As she gets the childcare element of UC she may be slightly better off or, more likely, about the same.

Then, when one of her children is sick she loses a day’s pay. When one of her other children has an appointment she has to ask her boss for time off to take them. Then she has to ask to leave work early to collect her child from nursery because he’s hit another child. Her boss gets annoyed. She is exhausted, and despite working she still can’t afford to buy nice things or take her kids on holiday. Her level of life is about the same.

In this scenario, I wonder what posters would suggest she does?

HelenaWaiting · 27/11/2025 09:42

WishingIwasyoungerandslimmer · 27/11/2025 00:57

A child doesn't have to have a serious life limiting disability for the overall Universal Credit benefit cap to apply to the family. If a parent or just one child under 18 receives PIP (Personal Independence Payment), then the benefit cap does not apply to the family's benefits.

Could this be also a factor in the exponential rate of PIP claims? Remember PIP can be claimed for ADHD, for those anywhere on the autism spectrum, for those with anxiety, depression and so on if the affect of the condition impacts enough on their day to day living.

Under 16s can't receive PIP, genius.

Juniperberry55 · 27/11/2025 10:12

MoonWoman69 · 27/11/2025 00:18

Children are not mandatory!
I know I won't be popular for my opinion, but I don't think anyone should have children if they can't afford them, it's totally irresponsible.
Why should I, as a tax payer, fund someone else churning out kids they can ill afford to have, then start bleating on about how they struggle? It makes no sense at all.
I have never understood child benefit if I'm honest, as over the years I've heard many women saying they can't wait for the payment to go in, so they can go get their nails or lashes done, or get the nice coat they've seen. How does that benefit a child?!
The whole thing needs scrapping to my mind.

Children are indeed not mandatory. However the child doesn't get the option of not being born, so we need to ensure that children aren't living in poverty
I was 1 child with 3 siblings
My mother and father worked until they had children when my mother eventually gave up work as the child care would have far exceeded her wages, no benefits involved.
Then my father leaves, my mother couldn't return to work with 4 young children needing to be looked after. She did claim benefits until we were old enough that we didn't need her to look after us so intensely. I was also a pretty ill child so I imagine my mother would have been regularly fired trying to work part time with having to skip work to look after me.
She worked prior to having children, had a few years on benefits after my father left and then went straight back to work until retirement when she could. With benefits we certainly weren't rolling in it, never went on a holiday abroad until I was working myself. My father went on with life not taking any responsibility for his own children.
Benefits aren't just supporting people who knew they couldn't afford the children in the first place, they support people who's situation changed but the children have already been born and they were affordable at the time.
If benefits were reduced any further we'd have been on the streets. Now all 4 children are grown up we all work full time in decent jobs contributing tax.
People always concentrate on the mothers having children just so they don't have to work, but there are plenty who's situations change or are working and get benefits as a top up so they can afford those children.
I would encourage a change in child care that meant more breakfast clubs/after school clubs that are free to allow parents to work full time without having to weigh up child care costs Vs wages. This would reduce the reliance on benefits in the first place

Negroany · 27/11/2025 10:22

WishingIwasyoungerandslimmer · 27/11/2025 00:36

It was popular with the majority of working non-benefit claiming families who had to limit themselves to one or two children, that is, if they could afford any at all.

It was unpopular with those claiming benefits who were not not working or doing the bare miminum of hours paid work, who wanted more children despite being on benefits. Also, popular with the MPs who believed that these people were more likely to support them at the ballot box if they shouted enough in Parliament about the unfairness of a reasonable policy.

It was also unpopular with those in "naice" areas who don't have to live next door to non working benefit recipients enjoying a near similar lifestyle but not "earning" it like their working non-benefit receiving neighbours. People who are are going to work, scraping by and having to make hard choices in many areas of their life that they didn't have to do before.

It's even more galling that the "Labour Party", the supposed party to champion people who labour at work, don't see the alienation and disillusionment their policies are causing to upper working class and lower middle class incomes.

So, this is just another excuse to bash people on benefits then.

Negroany · 27/11/2025 10:26

GentleOlive · 27/11/2025 07:16

This is a slap in the face for responsible self reliant taxpayers will hopefully mean the final nail in the coffin of this disastrous Labour government.

All of these people who had and more will continue to have children that they cannot afford, already contribute nothing to the system and take from it instead, will now all get an average of additional £5k a year. A working person would have to get a £6k-£8k raise in the working income to get that. How many working people will get this next year and the year after and the year after that.

It’s an absolute joke and a total affront to those who do the right thing. Because it’s just easier to have kids you cannot afford and get more money for free. Hopefully this is the thing that marks the turning point against this Labour government.

Edited

I am a self reliant tax payer, coincidentally with no kids, and I definitely do not feel slapped in the face.

I thought the cap was bizarre. Removing it is humane.

I will still be voting Labour.

I am aware that not all policies are made to suit me. Because I'm an adult.

LakieLady · 27/11/2025 10:30

Holdonforsummer · 26/11/2025 21:22

Interesting, do you rent or own? My understanding is that renters get a lot more UC.

They get a fair bit more because they have rent to pay! Unless they are feckless or reckless, a big chunk of their UC will go to their landlord. The alternative to including rent in UC would be families falling into arrears and at risk of becoming homeless, which would be far more costly.

The amount that can be added to UC for rent is capped, at a level based on size and where it is, and rarely covers the full amount of the rent. Most families have to use some of the money they're meant to live on to top up the housing element of UC.

Peopleareworried · 27/11/2025 10:34

Ladamesansmerci · 26/11/2025 23:38

The child benefit cap does not prevent adults from making poor decisions. It will never reduce the amount of children some people choose to have. The reasons people have more children than they can afford in not ideal circumstances are very complex.

All it has ever done is punish children. Children should not carry the burden of poverty and be punished for the choices of their parents.

People moaning about 'handouts' to the poor don't seem to be able to reflect that it is incredibly difficult to break the poverty cycle and to climb the social ladder. I just can't fathom begrudging children things like free school meals, and an extra £50 or whatever it is a week. You are already at a significant disadvantage in life if you are born into a poor socioeconomic background. It is one of the biggest predictors of things like health outcomes, educational outcomes, and so on.

But just giving money isn't going to break that cycle - it is more complex as you say. The government need to tackle the root causes to improve the position for the children growing up in these environments.

LakieLady · 27/11/2025 10:42

ThePolarEspresso · 27/11/2025 00:31

Housing would be very cheap if there were 20 million less people, it seems high Abortion levels and assistance suicide are preferred to deportations.

If they were working-age people, there'd be something of a labour shortage though.

We'd have to positively encourage immigration to make up for it.

Jade3450 · 27/11/2025 11:39

Juniperberry55 · 27/11/2025 10:12

Children are indeed not mandatory. However the child doesn't get the option of not being born, so we need to ensure that children aren't living in poverty
I was 1 child with 3 siblings
My mother and father worked until they had children when my mother eventually gave up work as the child care would have far exceeded her wages, no benefits involved.
Then my father leaves, my mother couldn't return to work with 4 young children needing to be looked after. She did claim benefits until we were old enough that we didn't need her to look after us so intensely. I was also a pretty ill child so I imagine my mother would have been regularly fired trying to work part time with having to skip work to look after me.
She worked prior to having children, had a few years on benefits after my father left and then went straight back to work until retirement when she could. With benefits we certainly weren't rolling in it, never went on a holiday abroad until I was working myself. My father went on with life not taking any responsibility for his own children.
Benefits aren't just supporting people who knew they couldn't afford the children in the first place, they support people who's situation changed but the children have already been born and they were affordable at the time.
If benefits were reduced any further we'd have been on the streets. Now all 4 children are grown up we all work full time in decent jobs contributing tax.
People always concentrate on the mothers having children just so they don't have to work, but there are plenty who's situations change or are working and get benefits as a top up so they can afford those children.
I would encourage a change in child care that meant more breakfast clubs/after school clubs that are free to allow parents to work full time without having to weigh up child care costs Vs wages. This would reduce the reliance on benefits in the first place

Edited

Absolutely this.

HellsAngel81 · 27/11/2025 14:20

Onesmallnoserighthere · 27/11/2025 07:57

Sounds great, why don't you quit your job and earn more by living like she does? Why don't you do that for your family if it would increase their standard of living?

I am quite content with my tiny little family consisting of me and my dog thanks!

Benefits should be used to support people in times of hardship, and not abused as my sister is doing.

HumbleKatey · 27/11/2025 16:30

Imissgoldengrahams · 26/11/2025 20:48

I have four dc.
Never had more children than "necessary" to ever gain benefits.
Shit upbringing meant I was never going to get a job that pays beyond min wage. Been on job seekers, income support and now UC and probably will be on it for life sadly.
And this is after moving from a retail position, to a management position within an NHS building so I have tried to better myself, have tried to earn more as I hate being reliant on benefits but lifting it is a good thing imo.

Knowing you’d always be on minimum wage was it a sensible decision to have four children?

Juniperberry55 · 27/11/2025 16:53

HumbleKatey · 27/11/2025 16:30

Knowing you’d always be on minimum wage was it a sensible decision to have four children?

She works and has tried to get a better paid job.
Do you want there to be a minimum income for a mother before they're allowed to have children?
People seem to complain this generation aren't having children and we're going to cause an issue with too few working age and too many old people soon due to low birth rates. But a working woman has children and people judge them too.
Those 4 children may well go on to be tax contributors far outweighing what universal credit cost to help their mother afford to keep them alive. As long as they are raised properly, educated as much as possible and go out to work, then they will be beneficial to society. If we strip benefits from the mothers raising them, allowing the children to live in poverty, then it will ultimately impact on the chances of that child growing up with stability and therefore making it less likely for them to grow up to get a good job and contribute in the future

Switcher · 27/11/2025 16:55

It's be nice if they'd simply offered free childcare that was actually available to families instead. Incentives work.

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