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Was I in the wrong to push in the queue ?

424 replies

crisikrinkles · 26/11/2025 10:00

Went into the post office in our town.
It’s always packed and they had two serving.
I needed currency and places never normally have it without ordering.
I needed it that day as we were travelling at night (last minute I know )
There was probably 20 people in front of me.
I didn’t want to wait in the queue incase I stood there and they didn’t have it anyway.
So I went to a counter and just said “before I queue can I just check you have this currency “
A woman barked “there’s a queue !”
I explained I wasn’t pushing in,I was just checking they had something before I got to the back of the queue.
She shouted “ no you wait to ask questions “

was i in the wrong ?

OP posts:
EvieBB · 12/12/2025 18:06

AllApptsGone · 12/12/2025 11:52

I am with you on hating ‘would of’ with a passion. But I need to point out that ‘abit’ is actually two separate words ;-)

Lol.....well thanks for pointing it out (seriously)....I'm all for learning so grateful for that :)

AllApptsGone · 12/12/2025 18:14

EvieBB · 12/12/2025 18:06

Lol.....well thanks for pointing it out (seriously)....I'm all for learning so grateful for that :)

Thanks!
My doctor friend always writes ‘afew’. I want to correct her but never do!

Laurmolonlabe · 12/12/2025 18:26

When have you EVER had a question resolved in 5 seconds- be realistic.

eastegg · 12/12/2025 18:59

Laurmolonlabe · 12/12/2025 18:26

When have you EVER had a question resolved in 5 seconds- be realistic.

Of course I have. A quick one with a quick answer like, er, let me think, oh yeah, the one in the flipping OP.

Laurmolonlabe · 12/12/2025 22:32

Well all I can do is wish you in lots of queues with several people pushing ahead of you with a "quick question", I suspect your attitude will be different.

EvieBB · 13/12/2025 00:32

AllApptsGone · 12/12/2025 18:14

Thanks!
My doctor friend always writes ‘afew’. I want to correct her but never do!

Ha, ha you should! My ex childhood boyfriend (from when I was about 12) is now a doctor....we reconnected in our early 20s through letter writing (this was in the 90s when he was a student doctor) and I was shocked at his atrocious spelling lol.
My daughter's primary school teacher would often write "your welcome" rather than "you're welcome". This was the woman who was meant to be teaching my daughter English! I had to bite my tongue every time....lol

viques · 13/12/2025 00:45

I was in John Lewis this pm, queuing to pay for something when a woman with a really hideous giant ornamental fish thing cut in from behind the queue and asked for a price check. There were about six pairs of laser eyes boring holes in her back. I was surprised she didn’t burst into flames. Luckily the JL assistant gave her a price check but then directed her to the end of the queue to pay . So carnage was averted, calm was restored. I can only hope she was buying the hideous thing for herself and not as a gift for someone.

” oh, Phyllis, it’s very erm unusual. Where on earth did you find it so I will never set foot in there again in revenge.”

PorridgeAndSyrup · 16/12/2025 01:27

Laurmolonlabe · 12/12/2025 22:32

Well all I can do is wish you in lots of queues with several people pushing ahead of you with a "quick question", I suspect your attitude will be different.

Again, you're turning this situation into something it's not. On many, many occasions I have encountered the odd person skipping the queue to ask a quick 5 second yes-no question, and no one minded because it was always obvious that it would be silly to make someone join the end of the queue just for that. I have never in my life encountered several people doing it all at once (and if for some reason they did, and they were actually holding up the queue, they would be directed to the back of the queue by the cashier).

Laurmolonlabe · 16/12/2025 07:11

Then you have extraordinary cashiers- in my experience they do not get involved in the queue at all, when multiple cashiers are working- who do you ask? This problem has caused banks to have someone floating around the queue answering questions-if just rocking up to a window ahead of everyone was not a problem, why would they do that?

Londonrach1 · 16/12/2025 07:20

Yes you were wrong.

PorridgeAndSyrup · 16/12/2025 13:58

Laurmolonlabe · 16/12/2025 07:11

Then you have extraordinary cashiers- in my experience they do not get involved in the queue at all, when multiple cashiers are working- who do you ask? This problem has caused banks to have someone floating around the queue answering questions-if just rocking up to a window ahead of everyone was not a problem, why would they do that?

In my experience, the floating cashiers are usually trying to direct you towards the automated paying-in machines instead. And their existence does not really have any relevance to the OP.

Laurmolonlabe · 16/12/2025 15:43

No floating cashiers are there to primarily answer questions- they do sometimes help with machines, but questions are what they are there for- I was unfortunate enough to be stuck in a Santander for 3 hours I watched and waited- questions were what the floating cashiers are for- any one who jumped the queue to ask a question practically caused a riot-you are totally wrong on this one.

PorridgeAndSyrup · 16/12/2025 22:15

Laurmolonlabe · 16/12/2025 15:43

No floating cashiers are there to primarily answer questions- they do sometimes help with machines, but questions are what they are there for- I was unfortunate enough to be stuck in a Santander for 3 hours I watched and waited- questions were what the floating cashiers are for- any one who jumped the queue to ask a question practically caused a riot-you are totally wrong on this one.

No, you are wrong.

WYTrio · 22/02/2026 11:56

Everyone thinks their query/task is simple and will only take 2 seconds.

Mayana1 · 22/02/2026 16:03

Laurmolonlabe · 12/12/2025 18:26

When have you EVER had a question resolved in 5 seconds- be realistic.

What about wanting a special envelope? Than you should queue up to get it and then queue up again to post it? In that case if I had to wait that long to get it, it is my right to take time and fill it in at the counter, keeping everyone waiting for no reason, when I could have just get it, fill it in and then wait in the queue. There should be an option to ask a question and then you know whether you queue up or not.

Carycach4 · 22/02/2026 17:17

What about the privacy of the person bring served?

RhaenysRocks · 23/02/2026 07:39

Yes becausec post office queue is a very confidential environment ..you are standing talking to someone through a thick glass plane, everyone can hear you.

nomas · 23/02/2026 08:17

newrubylane · 28/11/2025 10:46

I did something similar the other day. I had a parcel that I literally just needed to drop off. It was all paid for etc., I just couldn't fit it in a post box. I only had ten minutes, the queue was massive and it seemed ridiculous to wait. So I just hovered by the counter and gave it to them between customers. I felt a bit cheeky, but honestly, why should I queue when I've gone to the effort or sorting out the payment etc online anyway?Defeats the object somewhat! And why are the queues always so long anyway?

You were totally reasonable to ask the question beforehand, I feel.

Edited

Did you not need proof of postage? I send lots of pre-paid and pre-labelled parcels but our local Post Office won’t let you just drop them off, they still need to scan the label.

I think you were cheeky.

nomas · 23/02/2026 08:19

Mayana1 · 22/02/2026 16:03

What about wanting a special envelope? Than you should queue up to get it and then queue up again to post it? In that case if I had to wait that long to get it, it is my right to take time and fill it in at the counter, keeping everyone waiting for no reason, when I could have just get it, fill it in and then wait in the queue. There should be an option to ask a question and then you know whether you queue up or not.

Edited

If you want to buy an envelope, of course you should queue to pay for it.

nomas · 23/02/2026 08:25

PorridgeAndSyrup · 16/12/2025 13:58

In my experience, the floating cashiers are usually trying to direct you towards the automated paying-in machines instead. And their existence does not really have any relevance to the OP.

Agreed, the floating cashiers’ mission seems to be to stop people getting to the zenith of the bank i.e. the kiosks where you can get cash.

Patricia69 · 23/02/2026 15:58

In Scotland your ass would have been dumped quite rightly at the end of a very large queue. People waiting are not there for the good of their health. They are waiting in line for a reason .
mad u should have been, no queue jumping . You are nothing special , wait your turn or come back when it’s quiet. Woman tgat was being served could have been discussing anything . U r an arrogant entitled bitch and I would have told u that to your face and u woukd not have skipped my queue.
it woukdn’t take 2 seconds u woukd need an envelope a receipt proof of purchase etc.
grow the fuck up

BernardButlersBra · 23/02/2026 17:41

WYTrio · 22/02/2026 11:56

Everyone thinks their query/task is simple and will only take 2 seconds.

This!

RhaenysRocks · 23/02/2026 17:48

Well.in this case it actually did, if you can be bothered to read this whole, old thread.

EvieBB · 23/02/2026 19:03

Patricia69 · 23/02/2026 15:58

In Scotland your ass would have been dumped quite rightly at the end of a very large queue. People waiting are not there for the good of their health. They are waiting in line for a reason .
mad u should have been, no queue jumping . You are nothing special , wait your turn or come back when it’s quiet. Woman tgat was being served could have been discussing anything . U r an arrogant entitled bitch and I would have told u that to your face and u woukd not have skipped my queue.
it woukdn’t take 2 seconds u woukd need an envelope a receipt proof of purchase etc.
grow the fuck up

Urgh....vile toxic excuse of a human being

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