What is stopping you or your husband from achieving earning over £100k? Stop trying to imagine what you would do with the extra £2k and put your plan into action - you seem to imply it’s easy!
I mean yes, in my experience, you will regularly have to work a 70 hour week (unless you find one of those unicorn jobs where it’s 9-5 for over £100k), but for most of us, the path to that salary is gruelling. Early starts commuting on freezing cold trains in winter, because at 6am the heating on the trains haven’t fully kicked in. Leaving the house in the dark, returning in the dark. Working every Sunday evening. That’s the corporate world for many on over £100k. Frankly, even that is a bit of a walk in the park compared to reaching that salary as a doctor. Don’t get into a pissing contest with a doctor (or their long suffering other half) on how tough the journey is to earning over £100k.
I am being facetious, because I know people who work extremely hard and for far less money (my own parents for example, my mum was a hotel chambermaid and that is truly back breaking work and my dad didn’t live long enough to receive his state pension). Neither DH or I grew up wealthy or even comfortably off, we were motivated to work hard and we did. But there have been massive sacrifices to achieving this, including delaying having a child, and only having one child because childcare costs were equivalent to our eye watering mortgage on our SE home. We have never received any state assistance. We don’t expect medals and we pay our taxes because that is the only way a functioning society can survive. However, it is galling to be faced with increased tax rises and comments from people who say “oh, what I could do with all that extra money.” Because in my experience it is going on childcare, holiday clubs, after school clubs etc. to allow the parents to keep working the long hours needed.
If there is no financial incentive to work longer hours for those on UC, it is equally the same for those on over £100k. DH is looking at dropping hours, I already have. Multiply this across the board and it explains the productivity gap in the UK. Fewer high earners contributing tax is not a good thing.
I’ll stop ranting now.