I've got a family member. She is diagnosed ND, if relevant ? Over the years she has caused a lot of trouble in the family. Anyway she now has health issues. I am medical so she has phoned me for advice. I gave her advice and she asked me to come to some appointments with her. I politely said no. Aibu? I work and have a family. I also don't want to be overly involved. Im happy to give advice (none of which is taken) but I do not want to be giving up time to go to appointments.