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AIBU? Mucus when wipe my bottom

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MummaHud · 22/11/2025 15:32

my husband said I’m being unreasonable wanting to demand a colonoscopy at the GP

but I’m worried, today I went to the toilet and mucus wiped from my bum and now it feels like pressure down there.

I’ve had haemorrhoids in the past and I’ve had no blood / other symptoms.

I guess I just want to know if anyone else has experienced this and if so, what was it? Was it just normal?

I’ve got a doctors appointment but it’s the weekend so it won’t calm my health anxiety waiting but would be good to know if anyone has had similar

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Zuve · 22/11/2025 17:22

Get, a, stool sample test kit from Amazon, they are only five pounds. I got a colonoscopy privately. It was £1500.peace of mind. The doctor won't offer it easily. I went private, peace of mind

Enigma54 · 22/11/2025 17:23

You don’t get to “ demand” any procedure OP. If the GP deems a colonoscopy an appropriate procedure in view of your symptoms, then a referral will be made. In the meantime, continue to seek help with your anxiety, monitor your symptoms and take it from there.

Roverbarks · 22/11/2025 17:30

Hankunamatata · 22/11/2025 16:53

I have this with dairy. I had to cut it out from my diet

Same. Noticed a huge difference when I cut out dairy. Only started in my mid 20s too.

Fimofriend · 22/11/2025 17:30

could be food intolerance, or food allergi, or that disease where you cannot eat gluten.

Letsbe · 23/11/2025 07:03

The health anxiety sounds awful. Could you try and begin by changing you language so you reframe it in your mind. So should I see the GP and ask if I need a colonoscopy.

As you have discovered demanding unnecessary treatment or investigations carries its own risks. Maybe listen to your husband and not your anxiety.

Pricelessadvice · 23/11/2025 07:05

I get this probably 80% of the time. It’s like an orange marmalade consistency (sorry if TMI). I don’t really worry about it and just assume it’s some sort of IBS.

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