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How do I private message another member?

6 replies

searchforthesun · 17/11/2025 21:30

I can’t work it out.
Thank you.

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AnSolas · 17/11/2025 21:36

Do you see the little head and body on the top bar?
There should be a "Private massage" option in the drop down menu
Click on it
Then there should be a note pad and pen icon
Click on it
You need to fill in the username of the person you want to contact and type your message

Thebellistolling · 17/11/2025 21:37

There are 3 dots in the op box or next to a poster's name. Click on it and one will say pm. Do it from there.

searchforthesun · 18/11/2025 06:45

I don’t seem to have either of those options, do I need a premium account?
Thank you both for trying to help.
this is what I can see:

How do I private message another member?
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ErmThisOne · 18/11/2025 06:47

I can only PM on the webpage not the app.

Tarkan · 18/11/2025 07:11

Yeah you can’t PM on the app. I only use the app but once had to log in to the webpage and found PMs from months before that I assume the other user had just thought I had ignored as they’d deleted some of them.

searchforthesun · 18/11/2025 22:05

Oh, ok! I’ll have to try and remember my password!
Thank you all.

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